What are the wrong parenting concepts of the older generation that the younger generation cannot learn?

Introduction: The older generation has some wrong ideas about parenting. As the younger generation, they must not learn. First of all, a dutiful son is born under a stick. I believe many people grew up in such an environment, but they also know how much harm he has brought us. Now that you know his harm, don't bring it to your next generation. Besides, don't give him too many clothes, because he feels very fragile. Don't let him go with others in order not to get hurt.

First, you can't learn to have a dutiful son under the stick. This is the traditional idea of many old people. They believe that children can't have talent without struggle. If they don't fight, they won't listen at all, and their future development will not be very good. When something trivial happens to a child, parents will beat him up. To tell the truth, this will bring too much harm to children, leave a lifelong psychological shadow for children, and may cause children to have a distorted psychology. Therefore, parents must educate their children correctly, not the next generation. Finally, they don't have to pay attention to these injuries and don't pass them on to their children.

Second, don't think that children only study in life, and don't think that children are particularly vulnerable, so wear a lot of clothes. Many parents used to do the same. As the child's biological parents, I will definitely not hurt the child, and then I will put a lot of clothes on the child. But you should know that the more you wear, the worse it is for heat dissipation, but it will make your child catch a cold. Don't think that the more you wear, the healthier you are, and the less likely you are to get sick. This idea is also wrong. In addition, don't be afraid that your child will get hurt. Some parents don't let their children play with others in order to avoid being hurt. Parents used to think that playing with others was a waste of time, which was not conducive to their children's study. Children will go somewhere one day, and the group will become a member of the group one day.