Methods and summary of how single male friends find girlfriends.

First of all, I am also a person who can't find a girlfriend. Secondly, I already have one. I have taken many wrong paths. Here, I would like to sum up a few points for you, hoping to help a confused and disorderly good man.

First, we must abide by and understand the following principles and standards when dealing with girls.

1. Don't lick the dog on the principle of equality. Equality is the only criterion for making friends. Unequal friends will fail.

2. Don't confess directly. Don't directly declare that you like him. There are two situations of direct confession. One is that a friend can't do it, and the other is that he gives you a chance to show off. The premise must be grasped, and family or private affairs must be said on the stage.

3. Don't be an honest man. First of all, honest people are very valuable, but don't blindly regard yourself as an honest person. First of all, you should understand that an honest man is not thin-skinned, nor is it an excuse for you to break through yourself and become shy and immature.

4. Companionship principle If he agrees to let you accompany her, he should be familiar with this stage. Don't lose heart. You can also have a question of time. Don't be afraid if you have a chance to chat with girls. The principle of companionship is simple. If he allows, he will go shopping with her. Among them, keep your distance when shopping, don't pay for her, give her space, unless you are married, or he has no money to pay, because you are equal, which doesn't mean you should be stingy. You can invite girls to drink some milk tea, eat and so on.

5. Familiarity principle: First of all, the time of communication is not the degree of familiarity. What does the chat message have to do with what he confided to you? If she confides in you, or what he is going to do today, it means that she has trusted you and you are good friends. Take care of yourself here and remember not to be a spare tire. If he has a boyfriend, he will change his goal, and his heart is moving. The author is here.

6. The principle of marriage The most important thing to associate with a girl is to accompany her for life. Doesn't mean you have to take care of her all your life. You can understand the following principle of equality. You should be the support of girls. The purpose of making friends with him is not to trick him into sleeping or anything, but to be together. This is a good starting point. If a girl knows who you are, she will be with you. Because life is only once, you can give support and beauty, girl.

7. Character principle First of all, girls are good in character, honest and trustworthy, and kind. Don't waste time with money-worshipping, selfish and immature girls.

Summary: equal communication, mutual benefit, get to know each other slowly, go shopping with her, and finally she agrees, or you confess, this stage will be fine.

Second, the positioning of girls and the conditions of boys.

1. Ugly girls and girls with average face value all like handsome boys, followed by clean boys with average face value, followed by personality.

2. In today's era, girls with good family will only have more money than themselves, and handsome guys are more likely to be tempted, followed by boys and handsome guys with average family, and handsome guys with no money again.

3. Girls also like boys who can talk and brag. This kind of boy will also confuse some ignorant girls, which is just rhetoric.

4. a generous boy, here is not spending money indiscriminately, but in several directions. The first one is big-hearted, the second one is nice, and the third one is not in a hurry to pay the bill. It's best to treat her to dinner with her sisters.

5. Hard-working boys, you have no money and no ability. If you are handsome, some girls will take the initiative to post it. If you are average, there may be girls who are willing to associate with you. Ugly, unless rich and powerful, girls will take the initiative to post, but they are all girls with intentions. True love may be unrealistic, but if you can do it, you are not a layman. Come on, don't give up as long as you want.

Summary: It usually takes some time to catch up with girls when they are handsome, and it takes effort to be ugly. One is humor, and the other is to improve one's own strength.

Third, the principle of girls' goal selection

1. The acquaintance principle pursues that a girl must first have an environment. The environment together can give girls a sense of familiarity for the first time, just get to know each other.

2. Introduction This is the most effective way, and the communication opportunities obtained through the introduction of female acquaintances or friends are more likely to succeed.

3. Choosing this blind date method is the most direct, without emotional accumulation, but it is very targeted and has the best success rate, so you can get married soon.

Conclusion: Don't just spend time by yourself, it will be very effective to ask friends and family for help.

4. Invalid way.

1. People are usually or uglily accosted.

2. I have reported to training institutions and related business education courses, which are basically useless and misleading.

How to locate the target and find the direction

1. First of all, you should know what kind of girl you want to be together for life.

2. Secondly, what kind of girl can meet your own conditions and choose the right target.

3. Finally, is your habit, image and position insufficient? If so, try to change it.

Six ways to chat

1. Every time you chat with a girl, you must listen, reply and don't express your opinions.

2. If there is no topic, share it. If he has no topic, ask him out shopping. If he can't, just ignore it and communicate in a day.

3. Praise and recognition, reasonable praise and appreciation of girls will be very happy, but not hypocritical.

Summary of seven societies

Learn to sum up how to chat with girls. You can't learn this. The first step is to let go of yourself and feel free, even if you feel stupid at first. Just change it slowly. The rest is to grasp it yourself. Don't worry, the mentality of not being rejected by girls will collapse. The author has talked with more than 100 girls, and all of them have been rejected. I also suffer in the middle of the night, but no girl will sympathize with me. Don't make excuses for your cowardice and low value. As long as you find a good method and a kind heart, you will meet a girl you like.

Girls also have the right to choose.

1. Good girls must be pursued by boys, and competition is unnecessary. Only by making girls curious about you can you have more opportunities. The best way is to show yourself, make friends on your own initiative, or share good things that you can share.

2. Girls also have the right to choose. They don't have to choose you, so it's best to have one or two friends of the opposite sex at the same time. This will make him jealous or delete your impulse. It's hard to say, but it can also be an act. She will have some thoughts about you.

Nine truths girls can also buy with money.

If you have been chasing girls you like, boys with average face value and good character can consider struggling, or friends with some capital can also consider ways. This is not a date. Is a lifetime, with money, find a matchmaker to introduce, give a certain amount of money to the woman's family. This is conditional and has a good effect.

What should I do if I have poor conditions and no ability?

1. First of all, people are not dead things like idle fish. People are alive. As long as they study a little, choose a good direction to work hard and gradually improve their abilities, they will definitely have a chance to turn over. It's only a matter of time.

2. If the conditions are not good, you can work hard with your family. If the salary is low, then change jobs, sell well and improve your social skills.

3. If not, then find a way, plan to achieve it little by little, and get it in a legal and immoral way. There are many opportunities in the world. Opportunities exist in the alternation of the old and the new, the changes of the times, the upgrading, or just the problem. They are all business opportunities. You can find solutions to these problems and create wealth by serving others.

I hope I can help you confused friends, and more and more friends can benefit. I also hope that you will be happy all your life and get what you want through hard work and correct methods.