How to be happy in a marriage where women are strong and men are weak

There are three kinds of strong women and weak men. Professor Huang, deputy director of the Mental Health Center of Guangdong Pharmaceutical University, said that the marriage mode of strong women and weak men is indeed easier to divorce than other marriage modes. Because this society still tends to be dominated by men in the family, if women are strong and men are weak, it is equivalent to switching the social roles of men and women, which is anti-traditional for themselves and onlookers. Therefore, they will face greater psychological pressure and more unstable factors in marriage. According to Professor Huang, there are three situations in which women are stronger than men. First, women's social status or popularity is higher than that of men. In this type of family relationship, women should learn to change their roles and not order people to get used to it. Going home is also a leadership tone; Second, women are superior to men in family economic ability. Here, men should learn to adapt and adjust themselves, don't always give themselves pressure, and women should not dislike men earning less and change their cynical ways. If you meet a man who is a little too fragile, maybe your unintentional words will be considered as laughing at him. Third, although women are not necessarily better than men in economic and social status, they have a strong personality and belong to the type of "savage girlfriend". One likes to manage people and the other likes to be managed. Professor Huang said, "In the first two types of marriage, women are stronger than men, and there are often more crises, while the third type of divorce is less." Experts explained that in the latter family, the man knew the strong character of women early in the morning, and some even liked or relied on the woman to strictly manage himself, so the marriage was relatively stable. The first two may bring some psychological pressure to men. ● Experts are good at balancing and nip the crisis in the bud. When you gradually feel that you look down on your husband, and when you gradually feel that you are not respected by your wife, there may have been some signs of marriage crisis. We should use a positive attitude and correct methods to deal with the problems encountered in marriage, instead of waiting until the cracks in marriage have appeared before thinking of remedy. Huang Fuli, deputy chief physician of psychology department, said that timely communication is very important. Communication is both sides, and only one step in the middle can bring us closer. On the basis of communication, change the cognition of things, adopt a more open-minded and positive attitude, especially male chauvinists, learn to accept and gradually change their original ideas. In addition, husband and wife should respect each other more, especially to avoid hurting people through exports. In addition, both sides should learn to face all kinds of gaps with an open and positive attitude and strive to find a balance.