What are the customs of northwest people getting married? (Please mainly talk about Lanzhou and Tianshui)

The baby is getting married? You also ask Lanzhou people? I'll start with Tianshui. The bride and groom are not allowed to meet three days before marriage;

The night before the wedding, the groom is not allowed to spend the night in the new house, but unmarried boys can sleep in the new bed unlimited times. It's called a press. Some people also pay attention to being elephants.

In the early morning of the wedding day, new couplets and happy characters were posted, and red happy characters were posted on all mirrors and glass. Cover all the drains and holes with red paper when the bride comes and walks. It is called avoiding evil spirits, and there are also ways to lead;

On the wedding day, the bride needs to wear a mirror beside her. If you meet other brides, you should exchange handkerchiefs, combs and other things. It can also ward off evil spirits;

The bride cries when she goes out. This is called filial piety.

The bride will be taken to the new house and then go to the hotel to attend the wedding. The wedding must be held before noon 12, otherwise it will be unlucky. (Lanzhou, Tianshui, the same below)

The bride's parents don't attend the wedding (they can come without paying attention, but they can do without paying attention)

The first item of the wedding: the speech of the officiating party

Second, the witness sees the marriage certificate

Third, the master of ceremonies presided over the wedding (worship heaven and earth ...)

Fourth, the bride changed her name and called the groom's parents: Mom and Dad, the groom's parents have to give money, which means that they have to give money when they change their names.

Fifth, hold a banquet, and the groom should propose a toast to the guests when they are newly married;

In the evening, after the wedding, please invite an elderly woman who belongs to the right family to sweep the bed and put dates, peanuts, walnuts and other things on the bed, which means early birth;

The garbage in the new house can't be taken out on the wedding day and night, and it can't be taken out until the next day after marriage;

The bride is not allowed to go out before dawn the next day;

The lights of the new house can't be turned off from the eve of the wedding to the night of the wedding. It is called the ever-burning lamp, which means good luck. Lanzhou and Tianshui are roughly the same. Let me tell you the difference: prepare the hardware (or three golds) you bought when you got engaged, as well as ribs of 8 Jin and 8 Liang, red envelopes for wine bottles, knocking on doors and finding shoes, and four happiness (peanuts, walnuts, red dates and melon seeds), and take them with you when you pick up the bride. Nothing else. If your MC is there all the time, he will help you with everything. If you don't understand, come to the dormitory and ask me. Typing is tiring.