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China, with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, is a country of etiquette that enjoys a good reputation at home and abroad. Civilization and etiquette are not far away from each of us, but actually around us.

Instrument is the lowest moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain normal social life. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs, habits and traditions. For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural literacy and communicative competence. For a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, moral fashion and living habits. Paying attention to and developing etiquette education has become an important content of moral practice.

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, there are appearance, behavior, expression, clothing, speech, treating people and so on; From the object, there are personal etiquette, public etiquette, hospitality etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication and so on. The code of conduct in the process of interpersonal communication is called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech action is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can communicate with each other on the principle of "respecting others, self-discipline, temperance and sincerity" and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.

Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied, but each has its own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting people; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, prudence, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-discipline, self-control, arrogance, duplicity; The third is the principle of moderation, moderation and control; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, treat people sincerely, treat people sincerely, don't take part in accidental amusement, and behave differently.

Etiquette can be simply divided into seven kinds: personal etiquette, meeting etiquette, public etiquette, school etiquette, official etiquette, daily communication etiquette and foreign etiquette, which is the embodiment of our personal comprehensive quality. Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. As the saying goes, it is not surprising to be polite to many people. In life, we don't advocate red tape, but we should have proper manners. Bacon said: An amiable attitude is a letter of introduction forever.

Etiquette is a common practice in people's life and social interaction. People can correctly grasp the scale of communication with the outside world according to various etiquette norms, and properly handle the relationship between good people and people. Without these etiquette norms, people will often be at a loss in communication, and even be rude to others and make jokes. Therefore, if you are familiar with and master the etiquette, you can draw inferences from others and treat people just right.

Etiquette is an important means to shape the image. In social activities. Pay attention to etiquette in conversation; Can become civilized; Manners and manners can become elegant; Dress appropriately and be polite, and you will become generous; If you pay attention to manners, you can become beautiful ... as long as you pay attention to manners, everything will be done just right. In a word, a person can become attractive if he pays attention to etiquette.

Do you still remember the best-selling book Ugly China by Taiwan Province writer Bai Yang? In the book, the author strongly criticized the bad habits of China people, such as "dirty, chaotic, noisy", "sauce jar culture", "disunity" and "no mistake". We must admit that most people in China have these bad habits, but when these bad habits are exposed to the world, how many people feel at ease? How many people can really face these "strange bad habits"? Find the national inferiority, how to change it? I think it should be done in two steps. First, start with the civilized etiquette around you, change yourself from the image and behavior, and then change your thinking, which can be described as treating both the symptoms and the root causes. It is particularly important that a country's overall cultivation quality represents a country's soft power. Otherwise, even if the economy develops rapidly, even if the great ideal of surpassing Britain and catching up with the United States is finally realized, we will limp in the global village like a cripple; Still like a nouveau riche who smells like copper, full of foul language, supercilious, so poor that only money is left! Only in this way can we gain the recognition and respect of the world, and the Chinese nation can stand among the nations of the world.

Friends, let's move! Starting from the little things around us, let's face life with a smile, treat others sincerely, and be a person with quality, cultivation, taste and self-confidence. Life will be more harmonious and beautiful because of your change!