My parents suggested going to a nursing home with my old friends. Should I support or oppose it?

My parents proposed to go to a nursing home with old friends, but I would choose to object.

Our society and traditional culture often educate people to be sensible. When our old people proposed to leave home to go to a nursing home, they felt that they were no longer needed in this home, and when our parents who were particularly sensible felt that they were not needed, they would make a particularly sensible choice, that is, I left this home that I had run for 60 or 70 years and gave space to my children and his children. Parents are so sensible, we won't let them be sensible. If others take a step back, do we really have to take another step back, let alone be close relatives?

When people get old, they often start to return to the original, and the old people become like children. They are as keenly aware as children that there is enough money without love. When they even dislike their own children, he will know that his old age is built with money. At this time, have you ever thought that every old man will die of anxiety? I'm afraid I live too long, I don't have enough money, I'm afraid I live too short and my children and grandchildren haven't enjoyed enough. You put him in a nursing home, but in fact you expelled him from the family.

What is a choice? Only when both choices are wrong will it bring people pain, and only when it pays the price can it be called a choice. At that time, what we have to choose is what kind of mistakes we can better bear and the price it will bring us.

The core of filial piety is often full of regrets, including countless moments when we made wrong choices and countless moments that we can't forget. Therefore, what we are doing today is a dilemma. You can choose an easier path. In the next 30 years, your parents will be in a nursing home. If you are happy, you can have a look at it at the weekend. You can also make a more difficult choice. You have been quarreling with your parents, but one day, when they close their eyes, they will feel very uncomfortable.