Wenzhou wedding customs how?

1, engagement:

(1) both parents attended the banquet to consult the two sides of the engagement, mainly to order the yellow calendar and the male bride price how much. The amount of bride price depends on the family conditions of both sides, if both sides are ordinary family (here the ordinary family refers to both family annual income of 100,000RMB or so) the current standard is 88,888-108,000 or so fluctuating.

(2) mop tip: engagement is not a legal marriage program, engagement after cohabitation, the essence of the legal sense of the concept of "illegal cohabitation". In Wenzhou generally very few people in the engagement to receive a marriage license, in the Yongqiang area is even to the children are a few years old (the general purpose is to have more children, or male children) before the ceremony and the replacement of the marriage license.

2, pre-engagement preparation:

A: men:

(1) men to women's jewelry: a set of gold jewelry, including earrings, bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings, a diamond ring (diamond ring is now probably the price of about 15,000 can be purchased, in fact, you can go to the point of gold to buy a bare diamond to choose their favorite style of building a big difference in price, about 35% savings. Save 35%.

(2) male to female sugar: sugar gold apricot pair. Wenzhou wedding sugar in size, the woman needs all the wedding sugar man is responsible for (including sugar red packets), the woman's parents' friends and other exceptions sent by the woman herself.

B: female:

(1) the female side to buy for the male side of the jewelry, clothing: the male side of the wedding, engaged to wear a suit, shirt two, two ties, two pairs of shoes (casual with a pair of shoes) two sets of casual wear, socks a dozen, gold: bracelets and necklaces each one (if you give the best man of the red packet of less than 580 will need to buy a shirt to the best man)

(2) other preparations for the female side of the wedding, the male side is responsible for all (including the sugar red packet). >(2) the woman's other preparations: a set of dishes 88 pieces 98 pieces 108 pieces can choose, depending on the circumstances of the purchase, six kinds of sub-citrus, pastries, dates, cinnamon, lotus seeds, peanuts. And then the male party to send sugar gold apricots back to the male party, the gifts received according to the economic conditions of the situation to return.

3, the engagement program: Wenzhou people are now engaged in two kinds of banquets:

(1) one is Yongqiang custom, the woman's home at noon set up a banquet to invite the man's parents as well as the best man to attend, the evening is the man back to invite the woman.

(2) another popular in Lucheng, is the two parents plus close friends and relatives together in a hotel banquet engagement. Generally now choose the latter urban more, the afternoon of the man drove dressed to the woman's home to meet the woman and her parents, and give the woman's younger brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money refers to the woman's younger brother or sister do not allow her sister to get married to pull the suitcase refused to go, you have to give him the money he is willing to let go of the people, the last generation of people so interpreted), to the hotel to the parents of the two sides of the tea to toast to your family and friends in order to witness your love < / p>

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The other popular LUCKTOWN is that the two parents plus relatives and friends together at a hotel banquet engagement. /p>

4, married:?

(1) decided to get married on the day after the hotel will start to book the layout of the banquet, Wenzhou now seems to be a year in advance to book the banquet I dang, a good day to marry everyone ah. Buy a house and decorate of course, the man is responsible for, decorating at least 2 months, after decorating the room furniture purchased by the man outside of all the other is responsible for dressing by the woman.

(2) On the question of the house:?

In Wenzhou, the house is generally provided by the man, other cities in the province is basically the same. Before the man married (referring to all the registration), has obtained a real estate license are owned by the man, even if the marriage with the *** with property (if the marriage of the woman does not have income, only the man to make money, the repayment of part of the property also belongs to the *** with property) to pay the rest of the house payment, the woman can claim to require the marriage payment of money to be divided or ask for compensation. If the money has been paid by the man before the marriage, the woman has no right to claim, even if the property increases in value after the marriage.

(3) choose a good time and good weather two people to take wedding photos, generally now the photo studio are playing a price war technology and strength are almost the same, but once in a lifetime will not care about so much money, as long as you pay attention to don't look at this one feel good that one feels good to pick more and more that it costs too much, generally control the 4,000-5,000 used to take pictures is still worth it.

Expanded information:

1, hiring is a Chinese word, pronounced pìn lǐ, often refers to the hiring given to show respect. It often refers to the gifts given to show respect when hiring. In daily life, it is also used for the engagement, the man's family to the woman's family's wealth gift. Generally, it is the money or goods given by the man to the woman at the time of marriage. From "Li Ji - Hire Meaning".

2, the ancient Chinese wedding process is divided into six stages, known as the "six rituals", that is, Nacai, ask for the name, Naji, Naji, please period, kiss welcome. Among them, "Nage", that is, the male family will be sent to the female family, also known as Nage, big hiring, over the big gift and so on.

3. In the ancient times, birds and animals were used as gifts for the bride price, and the whole deer was used in the ancient times, and the deer skin was used in the later times. Cui Yin's "Wedding Text" recorded: "The bird of prey was laid with geese, and the deer skin was used." Poetry. Calling the South. There is a dead moose in the wild" says: "There is a dead moose in the wild, wrapped in white grass. There is a girl who is in love, and the auspicious man lures her." It was written about the proposal of marriage to a girl with a wild deer. Because in ancient times, the bridegroom was often honored with a goose, so the bridegroom's gift was also known as the "bird of prey". Later, the etiquette of the marriage became more and more complicated, and it became one of the most complicated processes in the six rites of passage.

4, the folk that is said to send the bride price for the "tea", "tea ceremony" or "tea ceremony"; women employed, known as "eating tea "or" by the tea "; the so-called" three tea "is engaged to marry" under the tea ", when the marriage" fixed tea The so-called "three teas" are the "next tea" at the time of engagement, the "fixed tea" at the time of marriage, and the "joint tea" in the bridal chamber. According to the Song Huana "book of insights": "Usually engaged to tea as a gift. Therefore, said dry house to send the bride price of the Kun House said 'tea gold', also known as 'tea ceremony', also said 'on behalf of the tea'. The female family was hired said 'receive tea'."

5, marriage "six rituals" later by Sima Guang, Zhu Xi and others to simplify the merger, but the Song dynasty prevailed in the tea ceremony for the Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties inherited. Ming Dynasty Xiangshan (now Zhongshan City, Guangdong Province), Huang Zuo, the word Thai Quan, home in his later years when he wrote into the "Thai Quan Township Rites", recorded in the book: "Recently, Na Cai, Na Levy, stop with a box of fine tea, Na Hairpin, which is particularly simple, you can pass." Another cloud: "Where the three households under the hire, with a wine a Cheng, two geese, each cloth two, a box of tea." Reflects the popularity of tea ceremony in the Lingnan area during the Ming Dynasty.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia: Bride Price