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Should the mother and baby sleep in separate rooms from the husband during the month?

First of all, whether you should sleep in separate rooms or not depends on the situation. Although, it is more common nowadays to sleep in separate rooms, but my personal advocate is still best not to sleep in separate rooms.

One, if the baby father work hard, during the day there are old people to help take care of the baby, and is fully breastfeeding the baby, I think you can baby sleep with the mother, the father go to another room to rest. Because during the day there are old people can help to reduce the burden of the baby mom, the baby mom can have time to catch up on sleep during the day, or breastfeeding, and at night, the baby dad does not have to go to help powdered milk, you can have a good rest, after all, the work is also very hard.

Second, only the mother herself a person with a child, then do not sleep separately, the night to help the child change a diaper, breastfeeding, if the father try to do it, share the mother's work, so that he can try to rest more. If you're a formula feeder, you can take on the job of milking and feeding at night to ease your mom's burden and allow her to get a good night's rest, after all, you're already tired during the day.

Raising a child is not just a mom's job, dads need to be involved too. Little babies need both mom's love and dad's care. Being a mom, never think that men are clumsy and can't take care of children well enough to let go and let them take care of them. Human potential is unlimited, do not push yourself, never know how good you are. Maybe the father's care is better than the mother's, more pleasing to the child. The mother's body is weak during the monthly period, more need to husband to help take care of the baby.

Maternity in the monthly period also constantly have the discharge of bad dew, the whole body is very weak, but also get up at night to frequent breastfeeding, if it is pure breast milk is good, if it is also drink milk powder, will certainly need the help of the husband. At this time, the husband must actively perform, do not leave a bad psychological burden on the daughter-in-law, this is a weak body, more need to husband's love and care.

Sleeping in the same room, in order to let the husband appreciate when the mother is not easy, later life more sympathetic daughter-in-law.

Sleeping in a separate room, if only by the mother's own day and night labor with the child, the body will be extraordinarily weak, no one to help share the burden, the heart is more aggrieved, prone to depression. The woman is physically and mentally exhausted during the month, and needs the love of her husband, who should take the initiative to take care of the child's obligations.

When the mother to avoid widowhood parenting, to give the initiative to the father, I believe they will take care of the child very well.