Essay on Respect

Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, a kind of equal treatment to people without being inferior, without being overbearing, without stooping, and full affirmation of others' personality and value. No one is born superior. Here is my article on respect for you, I hope it will be useful to you!

Essay on Respect 1: Respect

By: Evening Winds and Flowing Clouds

Respect is a traditional virtue, but many people are not able to do it because of the reality of the society has created such a result.

In the tradition of the old generation, respect for the old and love the young ideological virtues, to the present beat the old and abused the young, is to the sadness of the times, although in the ancient times, but not as much as now, the current thinking is that everything is for their own sake, as long as their own interests, Ken did not consider the feelings of others.

Nowadays, there are a lot of such slogans in the public **** place, written with the words "Respect the old and love the young", "Respect the old and love the young". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and you'll be able to get it to work. The first is that it is not a good idea to have a good time, but it's a good idea to have a good time. Please do not talk loudly? etc. words, but how many people can do, now the young people see the old and weak sick and disabled no position to sit will not let, just focus on their own comfort on the line, there is no respect for the elderly thought, do not think that you will also have the day of the old, you will also have the time of the sick, when others want to do this to you, your heart will have what kind of feeling.

I once saw such an article, talking about the "" time, then there are some young people are very bad, specializing in trouble, bullying those of the older generation, the ideology and moral integrity of that time to destroy the end, and now these people grew up, teach out of the children are also domineering, scourge the next generation.

In fact, a person's ideological character is subject to some influence, but the main thing is to see how to educate the next generation, if a person is small time do not go to the education, even if you do something wrong, no one education, then this person will slowly towards the abyss of sin, if you do something wrong, patience to educate, so that he recognizes that he is doing wrong, then he will embark on the right path, a lot of people are very loving and caring, but they are not the only ones. People are very loving their children, no matter what the child did wrong will not blame, so do things to the detriment of the child, but most of the parents did not find this error, so now a lot of children are self-righteous, domineering, simply will not learn how to respect others, which is caused by the lack of education.

Respect for others is equal to respect for yourself, respect is a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of learning, in addition to the education of elders, but also rely on their own cultivation.

Article on Respect 2: Don't Neglect the Most Basic Respect

By: Bianbian

Recently, a girlfriend told me one of her stories, told with resentment, and once again told again and again kept emphasizing: you say that this kind of person is strange, it is simply a neurological disease!

Girlfriends in the company has a male colleague, girlfriends is this way to describe him: he himself is a catty, stingy gentleman, but have to put on a grandpa's temperament, already married, but also have to say that they like hot women, all day long with female colleagues said that today, if you wear good, if a little bit better, although it is a joke, there is no overstepping the boundaries of the action, but it is really a little nasty, coworkers are back to him, said that indecent, please pay attention. Say nonchalant, please pay attention to the fact that you are married, but he still does not pay attention, because he feels that he has a good relationship with his colleagues, which is praise, he is in appreciation. But he really doesn't fall into that airy category. Usually very verbose, even the simplest things he likes to talk at great length to show that he has read a lot of books. When things are not decisive, private cursing but never have the guts to come out to fight, so in the company colleagues with him on the surface of the relationship is okay, but he is not his family appreciate or like that kind of. But the problem is that he feels very righteous enough to belong to the buddy style! So in the company has a few? Friends?

Girlfriends company is doing FMCG, sometimes there are internal discounts, he left soon do not know where to see the girlfriends company has discount information, so in the group to inquire. However, in fact, he was misinformed, someone in the group back to him said there is no such thing, he did not know why and privately went to individually ask other people in the company, his family said there is no, he is still not dead, every day staring to ask, so a few days of the time to make everyone annoyed. And after the male colleague left, may have just arrived at the new company in the training period, more leisure, often in the group @ XX, @ YY, @ ZZ, but the group does not pay much attention to him, because what he said always make people do not want to return to him, for example, he @ XX asked: do you miss me ah? @YY said how's your weight loss business going? Even at the end of the group, he cursed: Damn, no one cares about me! Hearing this, I already feel that this story I am not interested in, is the girlfriend in anger, I would like to terminate her, but girlfriend full of anger, do not want to stop, but also like the story has not reached the climax of the look. Girlfriend said, she and his relationship is okay, belonging to the kind of lunch a few people to go to the cafeteria to eat, nothing to talk about gossip, the kind of work, private WeChat also have occasional contact! Has been girlfriends only him as a general friend, does not belong to can talk about but can spit a class, but the male colleague is a little bit of their relationship is very good, belongs to him in the company? Friends? One of them. One day this man @ BFF in the group, asked BFF a question about the company, but because the colleague is not professional, so the problem is not described very clearly. BFF returned a sentence: yo, it seems that you to the new company quite idle well, your question did not understand! As a result, the male colleague in the group first of all, the problem is exhaustive, and then added: I still still at work, you a lying on the bed to talk about sarcasm. (At that time my girlfriends just arrived home from work). My best friend looked at the fire, to ask her questions, temporary use of her rest time, but also so? I'm not sure if she's a psychopath. She was so nervous that she returned to her, not idle, not idle, why return so offensive! My best friend was going to reply directly? I'm not sure if you're a psychopath or not. The result of the male colleagues perseverance, in the back then said: you have not answered my question it! Girlfriends holding a stomach of anger, can not help it, back to the sentence: I do not want to continue to say? I don't want to keep talking. , disturbing you this? old man? The other party looked, back: you first find things, okay? The girlfriend no longer pay attention to her, the next day to the company and the group of other people to talk about this matter, the group said that this male colleague has a disease, the girlfriend this is satisfied in WeChat the male colleague shielded.

I looked at the girlfriends in the opposite side of the indignant narrative, but I have long been out of focus, staring into the distance, eyes hole, thinking, in fact, this is not a big deal, girlfriends or, this male colleague or, are not disgusting. Just because in WeChat, let each other misunderstood. And such a misunderstanding, but let the original peace and quiet of the two people, from now on like a hate like who do not care who. If it is a stranger, this is not going to happen. Because we are always polite to strangers, both pay attention to the tone and attitude, before replying to all the words and phrases of the long deliberations. However, in front of familiar people, but always speak casually, act casually, the closer the person, the more likely to forget, the more likely to ignore those basic manners and respect.

Article 3 on Respect: Talking about Respect

Author: 123456 Dream Home

Respect is a spring breeze, a spring, a warm pill of comfort, a dose of stimulation of the strong heart. Respect is a flower, a flower in the heart of the warmth of the flower; respect is a road, a civilized road to a better future; respect is a fire, a fire of civilization that warms you and me. When you trekking in the rugged mountain road, friends encouragement to push you, that is respect; when you encountered setbacks in life, the teacher's warm hands holding you, that is respect; when you pick up the garbage on the road, passers-by approving smiles infected with you, that is respect; when you regret having faults, the parents' generosity and understanding of the tolerance of you, that is respect! It often complements sincerity, humility, tolerance, appreciation, kindness, friendship, and hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness, mockery, viciousness, snobbery. Give respect to the success of people, show their admiration, praise and pursuit of other people's success; to give respect to the failure of people, show their confidence in other people's failure to rise again.

Carnegie once said: ? Every person you meet feels that he is superior to you in some way, so the sure way to his heart is to use subtle ways to make him feel that you recognize it as important, and to respect him sincerely. In people's interactions, one's attitude toward others is often determined by the attitude of others toward us, just like a person standing in front of a mirror, when you laugh, the person in the mirror also laughs; you frown, the person in the mirror also frowns; you yell at the mirror, the person in the mirror also yells at you. Therefore, in order to gain the favor and respect of others, we must first respect them. Anyone's heart has the desire to gain respect, and those who are respected will become tolerant, friendly and easy to communicate. To achieve respect for others, we must first treat everyone equally. Psychological research shows that people have a desire to be friendly and respected, and that the desire to make friends and be respected is very strong. People desire to be self-reliant, to be a true member of their family and community, and to communicate with others as equals. If you can communicate with people as equals, the other side will feel respected and feel good about you; on the contrary, if you feel superior, condescending, overbearing communication, the other side will feel self-esteem has been hurt and refuse to socialize with you.

Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, a kind of people are not inferior, not down, not up to treat each other as equals, the full affirmation of the personality and value of others. Anyone can not be perfect, perfect, we have no reason to look at others with the eyes of the mountains, and no qualification to ridicule others with a disdainful look. If others are not as good as some aspects of their own, we do not use arrogance and disrespectful words to hurt the self-esteem of others; if they are not as good as some aspects of others, we do not have to inferiority complex or jealousy to replace the due respect. A person who truly knows how to respect others will be able to win the respect of others. Learn to respect parents, is filial piety to parents; learn to respect knowledge, is the desire for wisdom; learn to respect life, is the love of life. The first thing you need to do is to respect yourself, so that others can respect you. First of all, respect yourself, others can respect you? Respect, is a very strange concept: to get the respect of others is happy, respect for others is gratuitous. Respect is another noble virtue. A nation that knows how to respect will also be recognized by the world. As a child of China, a civilized nation's descendants, what reason do we have not to learn respect? Respect can only be born on the basis of self-respect and self-love. If you have low self-esteem, you don't have to blame yourself. As long as you are willing to get ahead and learn about yourself, this situation can eventually change, even for the better. Understanding friendships and making friends who reflect your strengths strengthens self-love. This self-love then gives us the courage to show love to our friends. It's an infinite cyclical movement, like waves washing up on the shore and returning to the sea. With self-respect and self-love, you also know how to respect your friends, especially when you have a difference of opinion. The value of friendship lies in respecting each other, in not hurting each other's originality. There is no friendship without respect, just as there is no building without a cornerstone.