Etiquette for 70th birthdays everywhere, desperately needed!!!!

70th birthday. The master sits south. His wife, sitting in the East, meaning blessed as the East China Sea, longevity than South Mountain, to have to fall 8 layers of cake, meaning, blessing, year after year today, after eating dinner. Six points at the bottom of the bowl, meaning / year after year, drink to and red wine, red live,

I hope my answer you can adopt.