What are the advantages and disadvantages of having two daughters?

Under the background of high cost of raising children, there are families with two sons, two sons and one daughter, two daughters and one son and three daughters. Needless to guess, these four families have the greatest life pressure for families with average income.

Under normal circumstances, there is little difference in the cost of childcare between sons and daughters before they get married. When you get married, you usually buy a suite for your son, or build a house, prepare a bride price, and some even prepare a car.

When a daughter gets married, it is usually her husband's family who prepares the house, and the husband's family doesn't have to buy a house, so raising a daughter is much less stressful than raising a son.

The two sons should have two suites to prepare and two bride price to prepare. Undoubtedly, the pressure of life is not small, and the pressure of having another daughter can be imagined.

A family with two daughters, a son and three daughters is also not easy.

One son and one daughter, two only-child families, the life pressure is the least among the eight families.

However, many years later, the only child has to face the support of four elderly people from two families. Not only economically, when parents are ill and need to be accompanied in hospital, families with many children can take turns, and the only child can only bear it by himself.

With the improvement of living standards and medical standards, the life expectancy of the elderly is longer than before, and the only child needs to be taken care of by his parents and grandparents.

Therefore, the only child will have the greatest life pressure in the future. For the sake of their children's future, parents should stop leaving their children alone at home.

Look at these two families, with two daughters and children.

In fact, since ancient times, there has been a saying that "children are both perfect", which is also the best fertility result that most people think?

However, with the development of society and the change of fertility concept, should both children still have the best fertility results?

Under normal circumstances, in a family with both children and children with ordinary economic conditions, a daughter is the most wronged relative to her son.

Many parents are more or less prejudiced against their daughters. Some daughters will even be trained by their parents to be a brother helper who makes men talk about it.

Most parents who have both children and children just say that they treat their sons and daughters equally, but in fact they are worlds apart! Speaking of which, maybe many parents who are both children think I'm talking nonsense?

Ok, let's ask, as parents of both children, have you ever thought about buying a house and a car for your daughter when you are planning to buy a house and a car for your son? You are kidding! Even if there is, how many parents can buy a house and a car for their daughter? This is prejudice! You don't have to admit that it is prejudice, and the fact is prejudice.

When a daughter gets married, things like home property are naturally left to her son. As a daughter, there is nothing but "little cotton-padded jacket". From the day of marriage, the daughter has become the closest person, and even many families have two children. Since the wedding day, there has been no room for a daughter in her family.

Therefore, as parents with children on both sides, they should not just say "treat their children equally" verbally!

Let's look at the families of two daughters. The cost of raising children in such a family is moderate, and the daughter gets married. A house is not a necessity, and there will be no contradiction because of the division of family property. Such a family will always be close to two daughters, so two daughters are the best birth result at present!