One hundred mistakes men make in love

Achilles heel 1: Absolute obedience Women like men who are considerate, yes, but considerateness also depends on the place.

No matter how considerate you are to women in life, women will accept it, but if you wait for her to give orders in front of everyone before you can behave, the situation may not be so good.

Because not all women expect their husbands to be "gynecological".

When treating women, men should be gentle and gentle, and domineering and tough. In short, they should be both soft and hard. Obedience is never a good thing.

If you insist on being a boneless man, the day will come soon when you will be divorced.

Achilles heel 2: Being shabby. There is one thing that women are definitely allowed to "only allow state officials to set fires, but not common people to light lamps." That is, women can care about economic issues, but they cannot see men care about them at all.

Therefore, if you don't have enough wisdom and absolute coping ability, then when you go shopping with your girlfriend, you must take out your wallet when it's time to take action, and you must be willing to take out the knife when it's time to bleed.

Be open-minded. Only by giving up money can you seduce your wife. Don't show your shabby appearance at critical moments to embarrass your girlfriend.

Because it is a small thing not to be able to enjoy the meal, but it is a big thing to lose face.

Achilles heel three: pretending to be fat does not deny that it is difficult for men. I just said that men should not act shabby, but this will also require men not to pretend to be capable. Doesn’t this make men look good? So let men not pretend to be fat.

, because when you give a woman hope, but you can't do anything, or you make a mess and disappoint the woman, then if you want to be forgiven, you will find that the loss is greater than if you don't do anything.

So, if a man doesn’t have that diamond, just don’t take the porcelain job, be honest to the end, and tell the truth: “Honey, I can’t do it.” Maybe a woman will not only forgive you for the sake of your honesty, but

I also feel that you are a very down-to-earth person, so I maintain a good impression of you.

Achilles heel 4: Making sarcastic remarks about your figure can be said to be a bit stupid for a man to do such a thing.

Don't think that just because a woman has become your girlfriend, you can say anything.

Remember not to use a person's weight as a topic. If you really have nothing to say, you can just chat with your girlfriend about Korean dramas and don't talk about her weight. Otherwise, you will definitely die in an ugly way.

Because a woman is extremely concerned about her weight. Whether she is fat or thin, weight is her most sensitive topic. If a man dares to take risks and involves this minefield, women will generally have a reason to make the man look like a human being inside and out.

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What's more surprising is that even if a man's evaluation of a woman's figure has nothing to do with his girlfriend, she will feel that the man is insinuating her, and secretly feel sad and sulky.

Achilles heel 5: When speaking too directly to a woman, leave some leeway. Even if it is a witticism, leave some content for her to understand, such as a joke. If a man speaks too directly, it is generally difficult for women to accept it.

Yes, but if you leave some room, women can be coquettish or tit-for-tat, and there will be more room for them to show off.

The same goes for other things, don't say everything for women, leave some for them, so that you can be in tune with each other and avoid "a half-sentence is too much if it doesn't make sense."

Female Psychology: 9 Types of Men’s Characters That Women Can’t Stand Most women have an inner desire of “I still want to date handsome guys.”

However, there are cases where even handsome guys are excluded from being candidates for romantic boyfriends. Why? It’s because they have intolerable “shortcomings”.

The Japanese sugoren website surveyed 234 single women aged 10-29 on "9 personality traits that make even handsome guys intolerable." You might as well take a look.

1. Telling lies without any basis. Women aged 20-29 said, "It's totally unacceptable to have a big mouth, but it seems that many handsome guys are big mouthed."

Men who look good feel capable in other areas for no reason and make promises even if they are impossible to do.

If you want to avoid being mercilessly condemned by others as "only your face can be seen", those gay men who talk big words should think twice and don't make promises that you can't keep.

2. Don’t like to be clean. “If you look closely, your shoulders are covered with dandruff.” The first criterion for judging a boyfriend between the ages of 20 and 29 is “his level as a person.” If he doesn’t like to be clean, no matter how handsome his face is, it won’t work.

Words such as "Don't like bathing", "Can't wash clothes", etc. all reveal the fact that you don't like to clean. Not only do you have to readily admit that you don't like to clean, you also need to work hard to improve.

3. Lie in order to be liked by women. "'Popular' can make you have a sense of existence, and you want to have a relationship with the opposite sex no matter what." If you say some irresponsible flattery to women's preferences, the result will be all consequences.

Women are alienated and considered "masculine without connotation".

Gay men who have ever behaved like this should pay attention to their words and deeds.

4. They are all negative words towards others, "No matter how handsome you are, you will feel tired when you get along with him." Men's excessive negative thinking will damage their human charm.

If the purpose is self-irony, it’s a good idea to check if anyone around you is laughing.