The custom and etiquette of burying wei county's relatives after their death, such as what can't be done and what should be done, is there such a thing as not having a wedding within three years?

In Wei County, Handan, Hebei Province, there are also some specific customs and etiquette for burial after the death of relatives. Here are some common customs:

* When parents die, children need filial piety. During mourning, there are some specific rules to follow. For example, it is forbidden to wear bright clothes such as red, and it is not allowed to have a haircut or shave.

* After burial, there is a certain memorial ceremony. Set up a Peng Ling, a gossip stove and a confession platform on the street. There is a portrait and a coffin in the coffin shed, and sacrifices such as incense, candles and wine are placed in front of the portrait.

* After burial, there are a series of worship ceremonies, such as confession and requiem. These ceremonies are usually presided over by the eldest son and daughter-in-law, and they need to wear plain clothes, worship three times and knock nine times.

As for the fact that you mentioned that there can be no happy events within three years, although there are some specific regulations to be observed in the funeral period, there is no clear stipulation that there can be no happy events. This may vary from family to family, or it may be determined by the local community or traditional culture. Specific circumstances may require you to consult local communities or cultural institutions.