Family of origin: How does it feel to be their significant other when there are people who have spent their lives healing from childhood?

It would be heartbreaking and love your significant other more. Loving someone in and of itself is loving her for all that she is. If a happy family can't exist without loving parents, then an unfortunate family is because of meeting toxic parents. In the days to come, those missing love from the family of origin will want to find someone to make up for it throughout their lives, and intimacy is a great way to make up for it.

The other half can be a couple with themselves, partly because there is a spiritual ****tone with each other. For the unhappiness in the family of origin, the other half will love you and bring you warmth even more. The things that are missing in a person's family of origin, if you are lucky, your significant other can give you such as lack of love will be insecure, it is difficult to trust others;

such as the poverty will be more people desire success and stability; such as too harsh and repressive childhood will make a person lose confidence. On the other hand, a childhood surrounded by love will build a confident and optimistic character, which in a way also proves that character determines destiny. This is where the importance of the family of origin comes in. There is no such thing as a perfect parent.

The unfortunate ones in the family of origin will be cautious and sensitive, and these actually give the other half the urge to protect you, love you, and care for you to a certain extent. One has to admit that many of the emotions and behaviors of adults can always be found in their parents.

A person who is not confident describes his childhood in this way: since childhood, learning has been bad, parents are very strict, once even took the test 100 points, they are incredible, all the way back to run and want to tell the good news to their parents, the results of the parents coldly said don't be proud of it, write homework to go. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in a few weeks.

In fact, the material conditions of the previous generation were not abundant, and no one would pay attention to the psychological problems, and it was hard to get enough food and clothing. But fortunately we can live in such a time, can have the opportunity to pay more attention to the inner feelings, with their own **** the same idea of the other half of the understanding and love . If every adult is aware of their own imperfections, whether they are thirty, fifty, or eighty, and their actions have the potential to hurt others, there will be more and more children who are understood and respected.

It's lucky and sad that there's no test for parenthood. Mingyu, who grew up without love, said to her mother in "All's Well That Ends Well": It's not that you're a good mother if you gave birth to me, you have to be responsible for me if you gave birth to me. Our traditional culture teaches us that there is no such thing as a parent who is not a good parent. No matter what your parents have done to you, if you say they are not good, you will think that person is unfilial. But you know what, some homes can be hurtful.