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Is it true that there is no filial son before a long illness? Welcome to share cases around?

It may be true that there is no filial son in front of a sick bed, but it does not necessarily mean that the son is unfilial. But it is not necessarily the case that the son is unfilial. Rather, the son has other work to do, and it is not possible to stay with the old man for a long time. Especially some of the elderly cerebral thrombosis disease left hemiplegic sequelae, long bedridden, and really can not leave people around. In this case, the children can not be long accompanied by the elderly side, produced a long time before the bed without "filial son" embarrassing situation.

In an agrarian economy, most people make a living by farming, and it is impossible for them to leave their hometowns. In addition to the large number of siblings, the old man in his old age, once sick, there is still no shortage of people to serve. However, if they suffer from a chronic disease, it is a hopeless mental burden to have to spend money and time on a long term treatment. And then filial piety people also have to get tired of the time, so to the old people's feeling is not filial.

Nowadays, families, especially the generation born after the 50th and 60th, are mostly one-child families. It is not possible to get to the end of life that last period of time, let the son or daughter to accompany the front. As long as it is every now and then to visit even if the children of this generation is a great filial son.

This blog once saw a close neighbor of the rural home. The old lady life raised four men and two daughters, to the old age sudden cerebral thrombosis paralyzed in bed. The Te five children are not around, only the eldest son of a family to wait, due to the countryside at that time just to implement the household production, it is impossible to every day someone to guard at her side. The reason is that the son was not unfilial, but he was too distracted and simply did not have the time to fulfill his filial duties.

So, in response to the question in the title, it can be said that the future abounds. Regardless of urban and rural areas, the children's work and small family matters are enough Te drink a pot, where there is time to do the so-called filial piety to parents?

Only to hope that the development of artificial intelligence to a certain level, the use of robots to replace the sons and daughters of filial piety, which is likely to become the future of a considerable period of time people have no choice but to do an effective method. As to what time can turn the fantasy into reality? This depends on the degree of effort of technology workers. (2020/05/05)

There is no filial son before a long illness, it is true! is a social family facing a real problem, but also with a little cruelty, I know, last November, the heart is not good, you need to go to Nanjing to do surgery, the children are also very filial, every now and then go to Nanjing to visit, they also have a job and a career, sometimes Hou busy after a day's work, the next bladder night from Huai'an and then rushed to Nanjing, to tell the truth, the children tried their best to a long time to compensate for the care is unrealistic, the only relief is that The only thing I'm happy about is that my wife has been in a position to take care of me, and I'm happy with that.

Let's try to elaborate on my personal views, there may be some anti-traditional, right as a brick to attract jade, welcome to explore, pat brick line, ensure that only the mouth, do not return the hand

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