Chinese and Japanese women's views on marriage: 70% of Chinese girls ask for a house and a car, and what do Japanese women ask for?

Choosing the right partner to start a family has always been a very important life event. The criteria for choosing a partner varies from country to country and from culture to culture.

In Japan, one media outlet said that Chinese young people choose to get married and have children when they are around 20 years old. The Japanese say this because we Chinese have always emphasized the family. As the old saying goes, "to start a family is to start a business", and starting a family is always ahead of starting a business. Moreover, in traditional thinking, men are not mature enough, and only after starting a family and playing the role of a father and a husband will a man become a responsible person because of the burden on his shoulders.

Of course, now the Japanese think that Chinese people get married at around 20 this argument is obviously not valid. Because nowadays everyone's cultural level is gradually improving, 20 years old may not have finished their studies, and generally speaking they do not choose to get married and start a family.

But now there is also an embarrassing problem in the marriage market, that is, young people in school are busy with their studies, wait until undergraduate or graduate school graduation time has been more than 20 years old. At this time just joined the workforce, the school and social role of the transition, has felt self-care, where there is energy to fall in love it? And then wait until they feel the time is ripe, have enough social and work experience to cope with, and then want to fall in love when, generally has been about thirty years old.

So, now everyone's marriage age is very late, some parents every year around the child to set up a family, resulting in a lot of people on New Year's Eve festivals the most afraid of is to be the family three consecutive questions: how much is the salary? Do you have a date? The first thing you need to do is to get married, and you'll be able to do it in a few hours.

In fact, many times it is not really want to get married, or want to be free for a few years, human beings are group animals, everyone is afraid of loneliness, and hope that after work there is a person to take a walk together, talk about it, and have dinner together. But when it comes to choosing a spouse, we all have our own different standards, and no one really wants to settle. Nowadays, the pace of life is so fast that people are no longer willing to spend time and energy on getting along with each other. So, many people will be their choice of spouse criteria directly list a bar, first meet this standard and then further in-depth exchanges.

Some surveys show that 72.8% of Chinese women believe that a man with a house and a car is eligible for marriage. After all, married life is not a fairy tale, we all still have to return to the firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea, so for us, the material foundation is very important. If the quality of life after marriage is much lower than before marriage, I think many people will also consider each other carefully, considering their own feelings and the standard of living in the end between that one accounted for more weight. Many Chinese women list a house and a car as essential requirements for a male spouse, and they also have a standard for their partner's income level, such as a monthly income of no less than 10,000 yuan, or much more.

Chinese men, in contrast, don't make such demands on women, and even if they earn less than 5,000 yuan a month, they say they can accept it. Obviously, Chinese men have always placed themselves as the breadwinner of the family, believing that they should be the main source of income.

Japanese women, on the other hand, are different from Chinese women. Since the economic development of Japan in recent years has not been very satisfactory, many Japanese women no longer have high demands on material things. Whether it is to buy a house or a car they do not have too strict ideas, even if they buy a car will give priority to more economical vehicles, buy a house will not ask the other parents to give financial support. In comparison, Japanese women are more concerned about whether their partner's outlook matches their own, whether their partner's image is good enough, and whether they want their character to be gentle.

But Chinese women are different. For several factors of marriage partner, Chinese women pay attention to the partner's financial status first, followed by their educational background, and lastly, their physical health.

Countries have different conditions and different cultural traditions, so their choices in terms of marriage are different. We can't say which is right or wrong, as long as it is in line with your own situation, it is appropriate.