How to be a traditional woman?

1, high quality is one of the first conditions for a new and good woman. In the knowledge age, people who don't understand computer operation have become "semi-illiterate". In some frontier fields of science and technology, there are more and more young girls. For example, software development is no longer just a man's business. Compared with their grandmother and mother, they have gone a long way and can't praise in the language of traditional praise system. In the past, we often said that "character determines fate", but today we should say that "quality determines fate". 2. A confident woman will not be arrogant all day. The way to surpass men is not to oppress them under their own hegemony, but to live with confidence like them; It's not that I send gauntlets to men all day, or put on an offensive posture that "this year the emperor took turns sitting in my house." Confidence is not arrogance. Self-confidence is faith, and only by believing can happiness be achieved. 3, complete independence A new good woman has a complete and independent personality. Economically, she doesn't depend on anyone, because she knows that a solid economic foundation is a necessary condition for maintaining self-dignity. Through economic independence, she enjoyed the satisfaction of achievement; In the spiritual field, she is not an accessory of men, but more self-awareness. They pursue their own values and goals. Although having a happy family is still the pursuit of many women, they will no longer shed tears for men who don't love themselves, nor will they wait for a lifetime because of men's promises. She only believes in herself. 4. vigorous and energetic energy has always been a man's advantage. The labor intensity of modernization is actually no less than that of the pre-industrial era. There is an invisible fox behind the brain competition. Excellent modern women, their lifestyle must include strong physique, and fitness is as important as vitamins. Smart women will know how to give up, giving up things that require physical strength, meaning and value. 5. Decisive and innovative, modern women are extremely working. This state is actually the most advanced and effective way of life for modern people: to act skillfully and decisively, and never to procrastinate. Starting from self, not paying attention to harmony with the surroundings. If there is an argument, it's just a matter, not a person. Not complacent, not conformist, emphasizing creativity. 6, always remember to charge in the ever-changing world of science and technology, if you don't advance, you will retreat. New and good women understand this, so they constantly enrich themselves and improve their knowledge and skills. She may not have a natural advantage, but she definitely believes in the creation of the day after tomorrow. She is more enterprising than men, not because she has no confidence in herself, but because she is more ambitious than men. Therefore, men began to have a sense of urgency. 7, tolerance, allowing different life concepts in the world, no wonder, what does it matter if strange things appear? There is no absolute concept of right and wrong in the world. Everyone has his own way to climb the mountain, maybe all roads lead to the same goal, and finally we stand at the same highest point. New and good women can tolerate, know how to respect other people's choices, and also agree with other people's lifestyles. 8. Go out of the hall and into the kitchen. Don't think that modern women only know how to make money regardless of family affairs, and don't think that having a nanny can let go of everything at home. Be feminine once in a while. Go to the kitchen next door and cook a delicious meal for my husband. You need to create your own atmosphere of life. She is not a fixed role, she moves between a professional woman and a good wife and mother, and she is unambiguous in any event and role. 9. Beauty is the eternal pursuit of women's greed. Of course, we must be greedy for beauty. A beautiful woman may not be born beautiful, but she certainly knows how to dress herself. Use clothes and makeup to brighten up every day. They are beautiful, not to please men, not to show vanity, but to show that women love life and maintain self-esteem. Master the characteristics of 10 of fine women 1. Beauty is the most important infrastructure for boutique women. Without external beauty, how can we demand perfection from all aspects? Appreciate the Korean actress Kim Nam Joo, who is a masterpiece of plastic surgery technology and subverts the old view that she is a natural beauty. 2. Health: Nine times out of ten, men will decisively choose Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai. A delicate woman must be healthy and radiant, and the morbid beauty of covering her chest and frowning has been eliminated by the times. Independence: Aunt Yi Shu, an excellent writer, used her wonderful pen to describe the image of a city girl who made money to buy flowers and clothes. At the same time, it also warns us that women can only talk about personality independence if they are economically independent. If you depend on men financially, you can only sigh: Nora will either come back or fall. 4. Talent: A good woman must have a soul besides beauty, otherwise she will become a vase. For example, Liu Suola, a talented woman, said that her ex-husband wanted to remarry. She replied, "Get in line at the back." If beauty makes a woman shine, talent makes a woman charming. 5. Love: No matter how good a woman is, if she is empty around her, it will make people feel sad. For example, Zhang Ailing's love life, as Li Bihua said, is an ancient well, which is left for future generations to find. All she found was a cold moonlight. Only when the husband and the woman sing together can they complement each other. If you don't feel warm, the smarter you are, the sadder you are. 6. Mentality: Fine women should be calm and calm, and even the most difficult things can be sorted out, and even the biggest setbacks can be faced directly. Exquisite women should also exercise restraint, publicity is taboo, which is Liu Xiaoqing's sorrow. Mentality, to some extent, is a mellow and mature philosophy of life. 7. Marriage: No matter whether Cherie Chung married a merchant woman very early or not, she finally married a businessman Brigitte Lin, and a woman will return to her family and become an immortal. Perhaps this view is not avant-garde, but it is true that only a piece of wedding paper can satisfy the sense of security that women need. Eight, wealth: What is popular now is three Z women: beauty, knowledge and capital. Many women have both, but the latter needs to be strengthened. When women make money, they should also pay attention to their posture. If she is tainted with copper smell, she can only be a searcher. Just like Rowling, the author of Harry Potter, exchanging knowledge for capital is elegant. 9. Voice: When Cecilia Cheung and Zhou Xun opened their mouths, they quietly shattered this exquisite beauty. It won't be a lion roar, but it's a pity. Voice is another weapon for women besides facial features and figure. If the voice is soft and gentle, even if it is reprimanded or reprimanded, there will be a natural beauty. 10. temperament: temperament cannot be transplanted and copied opportunistically, nor can it be done overnight. Must have a certain amount of experience accumulation, will gradually become the breath inadvertently revealed between gestures. Just like Diana, when she first got married, her face was timid, and then gradually faded away, even her eyes were royal.