A woman, she says she is very traditional, how can I get her? She is a married woman, and I want her to be my lover.

If what she said is true, then you should treat her better than her husband and do what that guy doesn't want to do and can't do. For example, surprise her from time to time, create a romantic atmosphere, accompany her shopping, take the initiative to help her carry things and so on. By the way, be sure to remember her birthday, or it will be wasted.