Chapter one hundred Talking about agriculture, countryside and farmers in the family

Chapter one hundred Talking about agriculture, countryside and farmers in the family

On the evening of September 24th, 20 19, I went home to visit my father who was ill at home. After dinner, it was already late at night. My little brother and I were sitting in the yard having tea and chatting with my parents.

My father felt very good when he saw our family get together tonight. Tan Xing is quite tall. I took a sip of my tea and said, "There are many strange things in the countryside now. One is the shortage of brides, and the other is the phenomenon of divorce. Third, there are many divorces, and fourth, there are no filial sons in front of the hospital bed. " I smiled and said, "Understandably, it is the traditional thought in the countryside that' if you have three sons, you will have no children'. But in the eyes of farmers, this descendant is not the' daughter is also a descendant' of family planning propaganda, but he thought he was an old orphan before giving birth to his son, or that he was blessed with many children. Look at my little sister. At that time, she gave birth to two sons. She is very proud in the village because she has many children. She is very happy in the village. "

Mother took it and said, "That's true. When family planning is strict, many daughters choose abortion until they see their sons. " If the eldest son gives birth to a son, if he is pregnant with another son, he will continue to give birth. In the minds of ordinary people, the son is the successor and the son is the continuation of incense. That was not the case. The first child is a daughter. If I knew when I did the B-ultrasound, I would have run away. "

The younger brother checked the network of the mobile phone and said, "Hey, now the result is displayed. No, the male-female ratio is 1 13: 100. There is a serious imbalance between men and women. In addition, girls pass the exam to stay in cities and work in cities. Girls have broad horizons and are unwilling to find a partner in the countryside. Working in the city and not coming back will aggravate this situation. Brides also have a great sense of superiority when they get married. Coupled with the heart of comparison, they feel that they will lose face. Generally, the bride price in this rural area is several hundred thousand, ranging from160,000 to 200,000. You have to buy a house and a car in the city. In previous years, there was no car and even the matchmaker didn't come to run errands for you. More importantly, the media fee for a couple is 4000 yuan. "

I interjected, "that's true. Wife and nephew get married for the second time. The bride who got married for the first time is her brother's helper, and the bride price requires 50,000 to 60,000 naked marriages without a penny. After marriage, the wife, nephew and daughter-in-law have been asking for money under the pressure of their parents. No, my brother-in-law and his family regarded her as a housewife when she first got married. She only cooked once after entering the house, but the cucumber was not washed, and the whole family was poisoned with diarrhea. Since then, I have done nothing. I am still in charge of the money rights of my wife and nephew. I have been taking money from her house for three days. Wife and nephew repair cars for seven or eight thousand at a time. It's great that both of them are married, but they can't remember clearly. They became obsessed with helping their younger brother and went back to their parents' house without saying a word. Her wife's nephew went to call her, and her sister was black and white because she helped her brother divorce. At the top, it is wrong to pollute the husband's family and abuse the little sister. The wife and nephew are taking back their daughter-in-law. Hearing this, they were furious and slapped his aunt, and the marriage was completely ruined. The two divorced and the younger son raised himself. I got married again with a drag bottle, and I didn't say anything. When I went to my wife and nephew's wedding reception the other day, I was just glad that my wife and nephew were getting married again. No, the money for the photo media gift is 10000 yuan. "

Mother sighed and said, "Who dares to treat her daughter-in-law badly now? You see, there are seven or eight couples divorced in our village. Alas, the daughter-in-law is really a housewife now. How difficult it is to marry a wife now. Take your sister for example. Your nephew spent 30 thousand to 40 thousand on two dates, or because he earned less money and was not tall. Nowadays, girls have high eyes and are very materialistic. Once it is done, it will be very difficult for relatives and neighbors to borrow money everywhere, and even usury should be properly arranged. The second time you talked about the object, people didn't say no, that is to say, if you want to buy a house in the city in full, you have to take hundreds of thousands of bride price. But where to raise money. This is not yellow. Now this set requires a down payment of100000 and a bride price of160000 to buy a house in the city. Because there is a younger brother in his family who is not married, her younger brother will give a bride price when he gets married. The bride price money is a reward for her parents. Then buy wedding furniture for the wedding. More than 80 thousand cars, just bought with some money. If you marry a daughter-in-law, you have to shave and not lose your body. After marriage, who is not a housewife, asks for instructions on what to eat three times a day, and grandparents who have given birth to children have to look after them. There is nothing wrong with them chatting online. "

The younger brother heard the exclamation: "Brother, when I showed you your arm pain in the clinic yesterday, Xiaoqi of the clinic said,' The daughter-in-law of the second child in your village has just been optimistic about the recurrence of cervical pain for one month. The cause is still looking down at the mobile phone all day long, and even when I see a doctor, my hand is always on the mobile phone. "There are too many temptations of mobile phones. Daughter-in-law's eyes are wide open and her thoughts are active again. Her husband goes to work in the city one after another and can't come home at four o'clock a year. Sometimes I get confused when I lick my child and run away with others. "

Father leaned back in the recliner and said slowly, "Really, it's far away, just us." There was a family whose daughter-in-law with a small nose ran away with someone, and their two granddaughters were divorced. But the granddaughter divorced and didn't get married, as fast as a knife. A remarried woman has a hundred desires. The matchmaker kept a detailed record of the second married women in the county. It's 10 thousand yuan to introduce a couple to a second marriage. What a big profit. "

I nodded and said, "Yes, so the phenomenon of divorce in rural areas is getting worse. Take my wife and nephew for example. My ex-wife's niece's father was ill when he was young, and he was counting on two girls to get married as a bride price for his son. But there is no reward for the devil. I heard that my ex-niece was very unhappy after remarriage and wanted to go back to the grassland to remarry, but she refused coldly. The newly married niece is a sinful person. She was driving a taxi, and she had a relationship with a woman in a hotel, bullying her and forcing her to divorce. Two girls refused to take her away. After the divorce, the woman in the hotel stood up the taxi driver because she felt that the man had no money and no ability. As the old saying goes, you can still live if you commit iniquity, but you can't live if you commit iniquity. This rental man is a bachelor, and this woman must be handsome, honest and kind, which has made me a wife and nephew. "

Father took a sip of hot tea, and I gave him another sip. Father said, "Your classmate Zhou Xiao has only given birth to two women, and the gifts are ambiguous. Leave a little bride price for yourself to moisten your life."

After hearing this, we were silent for a while. Outside, the chicken lives in the henhouse and sleeps with its neck crossed. The lambs in the sheepfold snuggled up to the ewe and slept peacefully. I can't help thinking that their hearts are open, but they don't need to worry about these things in the world. Just keep it simple. I said, "It's getting late. Let's have a rest. " Everyone got up and had a rest.