The man's parents have heavy traditional ideas.

I think this kind of thing can be broken up because you have different views. Even if they live together in the future, two people will be separated because of some different ideas. And breaking up after marriage may be more difficult and complicated. If you have children, divorce may be more difficult, and children may become a drag on one of you. But now that you are not married, it is more convenient to break up now than after marriage, and it will not cause too much harm to both sides. Breaking up after marriage may do great harm to both families.

Marriage is very important to everyone, because a person can only get married once in a normal life. If the person he marries can't give himself happiness, then his life may be invalid. So when choosing a spouse, you must keep your eyes open and choose someone who loves you and can give you happiness. Because marriage and love are completely different. When you are in love, maybe you can spend the money of four old people. After you get married, you will have to earn money by yourself. You may also face the pressure of old age, family, society and work, as well as the pressure of daily necessities. If you have different outlook on life and values, you may often quarrel because of small things in life, even if it is deep feelings.

The whole family in their family has the concept of son preference, which means that your position in the past was not very high. For a person who likes equality between men and women, this kind of treatment may be unacceptable, and you will have children in the future. There is a preference for sons in their family, which means that if you have a daughter in the future, you may be treated badly and you may not be able to accept it, so you must consider your future. If you think you can't stand their ideas, get rid of them in advance.