The taboo of mother's death and child's death

The taboo of mother's death and child's death

The taboo of mother's death and child's death, when people die, they mostly miss their children and care about their loved ones. In modern society, many people shorten the time of filial piety to one year or even shorter, but they are afraid to have fun with their children. What are the taboos for my son when my mother dies?

Mother's death, son's taboo 1 1 Taboo of mourning

In the funeral home, white cloth and white paper should be hung on the gate to let people know that someone in the family has passed away, send a message to relatives in other places or overseas, and send a funeral report to cousins and relatives, and children will hear the news. Among them, it is especially prudent to report the funeral to the relatives in marriage.

After the parents died and the date of the funeral was fixed, the dutiful son was going to visit relatives. During the funeral, be careful that the dutiful son does not enter the house, kneel outside and salute first, and report the news of his parents' death and the time of the funeral to his relatives.

Second, the date of funeral and the choice of cemetery.

For a long time, the ancients believed that the soul would not go far after death, so they paid special attention to the choice of funeral date to avoid a series of misfortunes.

The choice of cemetery has been very particular since ancient times. It is generally believed that the quality of a cemetery is directly related to the wealth and good fortune of future generations. In the old society, there were ten folk songs about the taboo of choosing a tomb: 1. Don't bury rough and stubborn stones; 2. Don't bury isolated hills; 3. Don't bury the desperate situation at the source of ravines; 4. Don't bury the surrounding prisoners; 7. Don't bury low and small ones; 8. Don't bury hills; 10. Don't bury dragons and tigers. Therefore, professionals should be invited to choose the date of the funeral and the cemetery with good feng shui.

Third, taboos after burial

After the dead are buried, mourners should walk around the tomb for three weeks, and don't look back on the way home, lest the ghost of the dead follow the living home.

Fourth, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends during mourning.

Children should not visit relatives and friends, get together, pay New Year greetings, and especially don't go to patients' homes during the mourning period, so as not to bring misfortune to others. As the saying goes, "Dress filial, don't go next door."

Five, during the mourning period, children should not wear colorful clothes.

After parents die, children should be filial to their parents. In ancient times, they usually had to be filial for three years. Modern time is shortened, but it should not be less than one year. During the mourning period, children are forbidden to wear colorful clothes, make up heavily and drink and have fun.

Taboos for Mothers and Deaths 2 Is there such a big taboo for the word "death"?

According to a survey data of Southern Metropolis Daily, among the 300 parents surveyed, only 13.6% will seriously answer their children's questions about death, while more than 60% parents choose to avoid answering.

Death education has become a blank in China's modern family education system.

Why is this?

This is because traditional customs have judged the word "death" as "death". It seems that everything related to it is unlucky

No one in the family is allowed to say the word "dead" during the Chinese New Year, because it is unlucky!

The child said, "I'm exhausted." It will also be reprimanded by parents: "Come on, children are not allowed to die. What bad luck ~ "

Also, "Go to hell ~" has unconsciously become a dirty word in the mouths of adults and children.

Therefore, when it comes to "death", everyone subconsciously "escapes". However, this is not conducive to children's education and physical and mental health.

Taboo talking about "death" with children.

What are the terrible consequences?

Parents generally believe that the best answer to sex and death is one sentence: "Children will naturally understand when they grow up."

This sentence also gives parents a perfect reason to avoid such topics.

However, do you know your precious parents?

When a child starts asking you questions about death, you may fall into two extremes without a good explanation.

Unexplained fear and resistance when you don't know the meaning of death will lead to wrong cognition. In the future, faced with the scene about death, it may be suppressed by negative emotions, which may even seriously affect the baby's personality development.

When children grow up, when they know the true meaning of death, they lose their awe of life and ignore it.

In those social news, the impulsive behavior that leads people to ignore their own lives and others' lives is largely because they have not correctly understood death since childhood, can't realize the value of life through death, and naturally don't know how to cherish life, so they tend to treat their own lives and others' lives as children's play.

Therefore, don't completely isolate children from "death", because this is not protection, but harm.

Explaining "death" to children is to let them understand the meaning of life, to let them know how to cherish what they have now, to teach them to live a good life and to prevent them from going to extremes.

Never let a bloody lesson answer "death education is useless" because the consequences are painful.

Mother's death, son's taboo 3, dreaming of mother's death and crying

Dreaming that your mother died and cried shows that your life has been very happy and comfortable recently. I suggest you don't worry.

Men and women in love dream that their mother died and cried, which shows that they have a good relationship and will soon meet the bride and get married. This is a sign of luck.

Single people dream that their mother died and cried, which shows that the relationship is very good and there will be many opportunities for communication. Friends of the opposite sex who have been together for a long time are likely to have strange feelings.

A woman dreamed that her mother died and cried, indicating that she still had a chance to travel. Although she will encounter difficulties on the road, she is fine.

Newcomers in the workplace dream that their mother died and cried, which shows that if you want to gain the trust of others, you must have a strong sense of responsibility to support them and be responsible for your own decisions and actions. Everyone will respect you, especially after you succeed in your chosen career.

Job seekers cry when they dream of their mother's death, which shows that they overestimate their job-hunting ability, and the position they want may exceed your ability. I suggest you think clearly about your ability in advance, or you will waste your effort.

I dreamed of my mother's death and cried for the duke of Zhou.

I dreamed of my mother's death and got her praise and blessing.

Dreaming of hearing your mother call you shows that you are careless and irresponsible, and career pursuit is not the right way.

Dreaming that mother becomes a bride, wears a wedding dress, or holds a wedding is a warning that mother is in great danger and may be seriously ill or die.

I dreamed of my mother's fate when she died and cried.

Love index: 90%, wealth index: 79%, health index: 95%, career index: 72%, lucky color: red, lucky direction: southwest.

Suitability: Suitable for posts, cars and markets.

Taboo: avoid bed, crown and fire.