What is the irrational traditional family education model?

Your question is very good! In the current social environment and exam-oriented education model, our children can easily get into bad habits, such as being willful, rebellious, dishonest, addicted to the Internet, inattentive in class, etc., especially in adolescence. The situation of the children is even more serious! Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt the tiger mother and wolf father style of education, saying "win at the starting line". Human life is actually a marathon-like long-distance running process. Even if you win at the starting line, it will not matter how far you can run and persist. It is still unknown how long it will take and who will have the last laugh. Therefore, the so-called tiger mother education examples by some people are not worthy of widespread promotion and imitation. Such education will cause permanent and indelible psychological shadows for most children. A childhood that is unbearable to look back on is It’s formed like this! If the consequences of corporal punishment education are serious, it will come back to the elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so such violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to fundamentally educate your children well and cultivate their good interests and habits in learning and life, it is recommended that you make your children fall in love with "Disciple Rules" as soon as possible!

The first instruction of the saints is filial piety and loyalty. Be sincere in loving others and being kind and benevolent. If you have enough energy, learn literature and be filial to your parents. Don't slow down your parents' orders. Don't be lazy. Parents teach you to listen to your parents' responsibilities. You must be obedient in winter and warm in summer... .. (Reading more will definitely improve children’s sense of responsibility and inspire children’s wisdom). You see, this is really a "Great Book of Filial Piety" and the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and teach, and there are many video story teaching materials on the Internet, with multiple versions suitable for children of all stages. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your children to watch with you (this is very important, your liking to watch can arouse his interest in watching together, children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your children like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teachings, why worry about not being able to educate your children well?

At the same time, your question involves the family education issues of young children's ideological and moral character, behavioral language and academic performance that the majority of parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. The correct educational guidance of parents plays a decisive role in the healthy growth and education of children. effect. Therefore, in daily family life, I sincerely recommend all parents and children to watch the excellent Chinese traditional culture education large-scale public welfare forum series documentary "Sage Education Changes Destiny" (also known as "Disciple Guidelines") planned and produced by teacher Chen Dahui. It is a very beneficial free online resource on moral education and family education. It can help children understand the truth of life in an atmosphere of happiness and gratitude, help children improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents occur, and avoid disasters. Fierce, true! It can prescribe the right medicine for various problems in children and is a good treatment! It must have the answers you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for us as parents and elders to learn from. It is indeed a rare classic program for family education! There are many wonderful case studies in this program, which discuss various solutions to children’s education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children. It is also a very good online resource for family education, and it is completely free. , which is of great help in improving children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebelliousness and disobedience, Internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence, inattention, etc. These cannot be solved through a simple method or method. Measures can fundamentally correct the problem and turn it into a filial and obedient child. However, we need to carry out family education comprehensively and systematically, and start from the root to treat both the symptoms and the root cause. In this film, many experts, teachers, and parents have personal opinions and report to the public with their unique experiences. It enlightens parents that their educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents watch it with their children and learn from it since childhood. Parental education can influence a child's life, and you will definitely get unexpected results from it!

There is a classic cautionary saying in the film: People can be taught well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!

However, the current reality we are facing is: social integrity is seriously lacking! Due to the exaggeration and misguidance of various media, the environment in which children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is not easy to do a good job in family education! Being a parent is getting harder and harder. To be honest, many parents don’t know how to be a parent. They just bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on the school and society. However, parents are their children’s first priority. Teacher Ren, many growth experiences require parents to teach by words and deeds. How can we educate children well if we shirk responsibility? Sad indeed!

As children, we often fail to understand our parents’ thoughts and true feelings, and only care about our own convenience and enjoyment. To be honest, it’s a bit rebellious! When we all become parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas...

Many of the so-called generation gaps that exist in our lives are caused by the disconnected education received from generation to generation and lack of good coherence. Today, too many people are eager for quick success and profit-seeking, and they only care about their own enjoyment and disregard the feelings of others.

We must know that all education must start from the foundation, just like a tree must have roots to grow trunks, branches and leaves, and to flourish. If the fundamental moral education is discarded, everything else will be just a castle in the air. Here, I recommend that all friends who are destined to watch it, whether they have watched it or not, please try to take as much time as possible to watch the large-scale excellent forum program on traditional Chinese culture and education: "Sage Education Changes Destiny" (you can watch it on Baidu Video Or search and play on Youku Tudou), I hope that everyone who has watched it can get real and substantial benefits from it, and continue to benefit others. Let us work together to create a harmonious and harmonious social environment.

I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.

Best wishes to you!