Teaching children's experience personal general

? In today's fast-developing era, education of children has become a very difficult thing, and education of children to pay attention to the method, a good education method, determines the child's future path. The following is my carefully organized "education of children's experience personal general", welcome to your reference, I hope to help you!

? First of all, thanks to the teachers, a year to give the tube Yanbo education, care and love, you sweat with hard work to help him towards a new mileage of life, with your enthusiasm, rigor to bring him together to make progress. When it comes to children's education or you have a way than parents, have experience, the teacher - to solve the problem also. My experience is:

? First, to the child in school:

? (1) In the classroom, you must respect the teacher and listen carefully;

? (2) encountered difficult problems, the teacher or classmates to ask for advice, and their own brains to understand until.

? Second, the treatment of children at home:

? (1) Must independently complete the day's homework, and must be written neatly.

? (2) After completing the homework, you may do pre-study or review, at your child's discretion, with a time limit of 15-30 minutes.

? Third, each exam or test:

? When the results are good, give praise; the results are not ideal, give encouragement, and often remind the child should do not be proud of victory, defeat is not appropriate; emphasize that the results only represent the past, now and in the future there is a lot of need to learn and master the knowledge, continue to work hard is the fundamental learning.

? Fourth, after the end of each semester, the use of holidays, review the content of the text has been learned, to fill the gaps, and deepen the memory, in order to meet the new semester in a good state of mind more heavy learning tasks.

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? In summary, the above points, as a parent of superficial insights, I hope that the teachers more guidance. The beginning of the school year, I was fortunate to read the old Mr. Gu Mingyuan wrote the book "Standing in the perspective of the child to talk about education", y touched. The book is a selection of dozens of Mr. Gu Mingyuan's educational essays, covering: educational philosophy, quality education, teaching, teacher development, children's hearts and education and other aspects. The selection of articles is also mainly based on the perspective of basic education and quality education, which is in-depth, enlightening and thought-provoking.

? First, in the chapter of education theory, Mr. Gu analyzes the past shortcomings of education, today's changes, and future development from a macro perspective, leading us out of the misconceptions of education, and looking at today's education with a new perspective. To be honest, before reading this book, my understanding of education is still relatively vague, the shortcomings of today's education can be seen, but always think that it is unchangeable, China's college entrance examination system does not change, all the changes are empty talk, and think that the change of education is the Ministry of Education's business, and the teachers have little to do with it, so in the school of sensational change is blindly follow, and the psychological is a little bit of resistance. After reading this book, my mind was enlightened and my understanding of education became clearer and clearer. In this book, I not only saw the efforts made by today's educators to change the status quo of education, but also made it clear what we, as ordinary teachers, should do to change the status quo of education. Mr. Gu said that students in the 21st century must master the following four skills: 1) thinking styles: creative and critical thinking, problem solving, decision making and learning skills; 2) working styles: communication and cooperation skills; 3) working tools: information technology and information processing skills; and 4) life skills: civic, life and vocational, as well as personal and social responsibilities. As a teacher, then, we must become a designer of the best learning environment for each student, a guide to instruct students in the proper selection and processing of information, a helper to help students overcome learning difficulties, cultivate students' interest in learning, and guide students to participate actively and positively in educational and teaching activities.

? Second, in the chapter of quality education, Mr. Gu put forward the "to provide the most suitable education for each student" point of view is refreshing to me, but also let me see their own concept of education in the misunderstanding. I used to think that education should be fair, but Mr. Koo proposed that education should be both fair and differentiated, and that fairness could only be truly achieved with differentiation. The slogan he put forward was: Provide students with an education best suited to their needs, so that each student can succeed or grow up healthily. Differentiated education means teaching students according to their aptitude, that is, putting students in the first place and putting people in the first place. So providing students with the most suitable education is the best education and the fairest education. To achieve equity in education, teachers must inspire students' interest in learning, inspire students' potential abilities, design the best learning environment for each student, guide students to be able to correctly process different information, and at the same time cultivate their perseverance in overcoming difficulties and their character to withstand setbacks. Again: in the chapter on teaching and educating, Mr. Koo takes moral self-awareness as the highest state of education, both in terms of having one's own code of conduct and practicing it without the need for supervision by others. He suggests that moral education for students is, first of all, to develop a habit, and, secondly, to let them know right from wrong in the course of their activities. Moral education means that in the process of practice, in the process of activities, through some conflicts, through some struggles, the students' thinking will be upgraded, and when the conflicts are solved, their moral level will be raised one step. At the same time in the activities students can reflect the ability to comply with the rules, overcome difficulties, take responsibility for their own behavior, and interaction with peers.

? In addition: in the chapter on teacher development, Mr. Gu asks teachers to get out of the misconception that the more knowledge the better, and to put the cultivation of students' thinking ability in the first place. Because knowledge is not the same as wisdom, read a lot of books but do not think, do not connect with the actual, will become a dead book, read a dead book, become a nerd. Knowledge to become wisdom, the need to live and learn, in the process of knowledge utilization of questions and contradictions, in the process of solving the doubts generated wisdom. Therefore, it is necessary to organize more student activities and let students grow in activities to stimulate his thinking and increase his interest. In the past classroom teaching, teachers in order to save time, with the least amount of time to instill more knowledge to the students, usually do not organize or rarely organize student activities, the results seem to be time-saving and efficient, but in fact, the students as a machine to receive knowledge, only the teacher to speak, the students passively listen to the existing conclusions to tell the students, the students to remember these conclusions even if they have mastered the knowledge, in fact, the students do not know the process of knowledge generation, do not think about the process of knowledge, the students do not know the process of knowledge generation, do not think about the process of knowledge. In fact, students do not know the process of knowledge generation, do not think about the future development of knowledge, students do not have activities, thinking is not activated, students will lack of interest in learning. And activities can inspire students to think, only through thinking to grow wisdom.

? In short, reading Mr. Gu's book "Standing in the perspective of the child to talk about education", I was enlightened, it not only allows me to have a more new understanding of the current education reform, but also allows me to understand their own educational concepts of what are the deviations, and make timely adjustments. I will use the educational theories I learned from Mr. Gu in my own teaching practice, so that my students can get better development.

The experience of educating children personal general article three

? The child has been in second grade, as a young parent how to educate their children is also a learning experience. After more than a year of groping, there is a little bit of experience in educating children, with everyone to exchange and communicate.

? First, cultivate children "love reading" habit.

? I remember that the child's winter vacation homework in the first grade there is a daily reading 15 minutes, it is from then on, the child began to insist on reading. Of course, at the beginning he will often be lazy, whenever he makes excuses to give up, I will accompany him to read the 15 minutes of the book. In order to urge him to cultivate his reading habit, every day in his reading time, I will also pick up a book to read with him, at first just to give the child a quiet reading time and play a role model. At first it was just to give my child a quiet time to read and to set an example, but then it became a habit for me. Now my child and I will read a book every day before bedtime, the time is not very uniform, sometimes it is ten minutes, sometimes it is more than 20 minutes, and occasionally also communicate with each other, comment on the content of the book. The content of the books varies, there are fairy tales, idioms, fables, astronomy, geography, science and other categories of books. After a year of exercise, a child's reading skills have improved dramatically. Then there's keeping books within reach. Whether it's in the bedroom or the living room, I keep a few books so that my kids can get to them whenever they want to read.

? Second, develop the habit of "completing homework independently".

? All children have their own strengths and weaknesses, but all children have their own weaknesses and mistakes. The key issue for parents to consider is how to deal with their children's every achievement and every mistake. The child has just entered the first grade, homework every day in the small dinner table after writing home I have to check and sign, and almost often to modify the homework until late at night before going to bed, he did the wrong questions, which is caused by a lot of carelessness. During this period I can only be repeatedly urged him to be careful, to be serious. And he never changed this habit. Later, I slowly realized that he simply did not take the matter of careless wrong questions to heart, and he thought that it did not matter if my parents checked for me, as long as it was not wrong to the teacher, it would be fine. So I changed the original method of preaching, a few times, I said to the child, mom signed your homework, but did not have time to check, I do not know if there is no mistake, he was a little nervous. Since then, I found that his homework was getting cleaner and cleaner, and carelessness almost no longer appeared. I also praised him at the right time that his homework was getting better and better. Every child will go the extra mile to be appreciated. Now the child can basically complete his homework independently, unless there is something he really does not know, he will ask me for advice. And I'm free from the daily lectures because my child now sees it as a great accomplishment to be able to do his homework on his own.

? Third, help your child overcome timidity and shyness.

? My child has advantages and many shortcomings, the most prominent of which is timidity and inarticulate. This is a great disadvantage. But because I myself is also a character relatively introverted person, coupled with the usual busy work, in this regard did not give the child earlier more exercise. When it comes to this issue I would like to thank the teachers of the school for providing more such opportunities for my child, whether it be questions in class or participation in extracurricular activities, so that he can get good exercise. As a parent, I also take him to visit relatives more often; take the initiative to greet elders, teachers and neighbors; take the initiative to play with children; let him enroll in hobby classes to fully express himself and enhance his self-confidence, from which the child has also been tempered. Although it can not be compared with the other children who are more relaxed and generous, but compared to the past, there has been a great progress.

? Fourth, parents should be willing to sacrifice.

? Because of the busy work, we will have little time to spend with the child, not to mention the time to listen to the child say his favorite cartoon or his happy and troubled. But for the sake of your child's growth, make time to do homework with your child,

? Listen to what he sees and hears throughout the day, learn about his studies, ask if there is anything you don't understand about your homework, and encourage him to ask more when he doesn't understand. A few simple words with your child won't take much time, but it lets your child know that you care about him, and it lets him know what we expect, which in turn gives your child the motivation to get ahead.

? It is a joy to see the child's progress and growth bit by bit, but at the same time, we also feel that our own education methods are single and insufficient, so we also need to keep learning in order to educate the child properly.

? Reading can broaden the child's horizons, improve the child's language ability, cultivate the child's concentration, enrich the child's imagination; reading can make the child's inner world richer, easier for the child to become the master of his own mind, so that the child is more reasonable, and therefore can bring the child's sense of security; reading can also change the temperament of the human being.

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? If a family has parents who love to read, the family is bound to have a good reading atmosphere, which is the best way to guide children to fall in love with reading. If the parents come home and sit in front of the TV watching soap operas or chatting in front of the computer it is very difficult to raise children who love to read. Keep books that are suitable for children within easy reach, so that they can read them at any time. It's also a good idea to have a regular reading time of half an hour to an hour a day where the whole family sits down at the desk and reads.

? Second, explore the parent-child reading method

? As a parent, read with your child. Try to take some time out of your busy schedule every day to have an intimate reading exchange with your child. Encourage the child to read the book, to ask more questions to themselves and adults, parents can also consciously test the child. For children's questions, adults should seriously answer, and can and children together to start a discussion, talk about their own insights. For example, in the evening, weekends, holidays, family and children together, let the child to the family to tell the books they have read, to tell the story, tell the story of the characters. This will not only increase the child's interest in reading, but also develop the child's self-confidence, the child's speech, eloquence.

? Third, choose the child interested in books

? Young children are curious, love to play, active, and interested in things to learn fast, remember, not interested in things even if repeated many times, will not leave a deep impression. China's educator Confucius once said: "Those who know are better than those who are good, and those who are good are better than those who are happy." Indeed, when cultivating children's good reading ability, it will be better to build reading activities on children's interest. So we should provide children with some illustrated, interested books.

? The choice of reading material for children should not be limited to the fairy tale type of story reading, but also let the child taste the philosophical enlightenment fable books, brain games collection of books, scientific knowledge of small experiments and other popular science books, paper-cutting, stickers, coloring and other hands-on books, and nature, biology and other aspects of the content.

? Star baby children's books provided in the "magic pen Ma Liang", "the tortoise and the hare race", "the fox and the tiger" and other myths and idioms, in the exercise of children's reading skills, but also in the child some life enlightenment.

? Fourth, the use of game forms, enhance the child's interest in reading

? The game is the child's favorite way to use role-playing, situation virtual and other forms of games to start reading, will make the child in a relaxed, happy atmosphere unconsciously complete the reading activities. In this way, the child's observation, imagination, language expression, logical thinking ability will be greatly practiced.

? Having said that, parents should learn a lot of knowledge. If you have any other questions about parenting, you can flip through the Parent-Child Parenting Treasure Book series and the Psychological Parenting Magazine series, which encompasses many common parenting problems as well as solutions to them, and we hope that these experiences and suggestions will be adopted by you.

Personal general tips for educating children V

? Imagine what it would be like if I didn't listen to any of his discernment and got angry and lectured him because he didn't go to the dance.

? Therefore, we have to carefully observe the changes in the child's application and patiently listen to the true thoughts of the child's heart. If the child does not listen, there must be a reason, we might as well listen to him in the end to say what, and then give explanations, guidance, and then make the appropriate measures, and should not be seen as soon as the child rebellious, stubborn, wilful, take out the parental authority of the tantrums, the use of a simple and brutal way is not desirable.

? When the child does not listen, it is a good time for us to communicate, indicating that the child has a different idea, or our proposal does not make sense so that he can not accept. This is a good time to listen to your child to understand what he is really thinking and how he is changing, so that you can improve your relationship with him and bring him closer to you.

? Therefore, listen to your child's words! The key to open the door to the depths of his mind is in your hands, slowly insert the twist, it will open very smoothly. Remember: Do not hit the door, stomp the door. Otherwise, it is not easy to repair.

The experience of educating children personal general article six

? Speaking of children's education, every parent has a bellyful of words to say, although the family situation is not the same, the way of education is also different, but the purpose is to expect self children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? I used to buy a lot of books, buy a lot of CD-ROMs, consult many colleagues ...... children grow up day by day, the results are gradually stabilized, but I still do not dare to have the slightest slack in the heart.

? The development of good study habits is very necessary, it should be embodied in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books, the child's early development of the exercise of his literacy potential when he was small, for his future learning to lay a very good foundation. When our child was older, we helped him develop the habit of reading, allowing him to take a little time out of his day to read a book. In our family, we often see this picture: a family of three people each holding their own books. Moreover, as long as there is an opportunity to buy a variety of books from the bookstore for him to read, "June 1" Children's Day, Spring Festival gifts are all kinds of funny or useful books. Over time, the child likes to read. Also developed a good habit of reading. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular books in the world, and you'll be able to do that.

? Since the child went to school, I pay attention to cultivate his study habits, every day after going home to complete the homework left by the teacher. Before learning a new lesson, first preview the information behind. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.

? In the family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, played with toys to clean up, wash his face and brush his teeth before going to bed at night, etc. Sometimes, the child wants to be lazy, we will give him reasoning, and tell him that that is not possible. Slowly he recognized this behavior, habits are also naturally developed.

? Education of children, our generation of parents need to learn, need to learn to inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese people, I used to heart has not been solid, is that I feel that my inner self did not establish a stable and trustworthy overall value system to educate the child, this period of time in the process of intermittent contact with the traditional enlightenment of the classics, while reflecting on their own behavioral and ethical norms, while reflecting on the children's growth of all kinds of I feel that I have found the clues and directions to educate my children, and I need to grow with my children *** with the traditional culture.

? Don't set too high requirements for the child, give him a little free space to develop, in which to observe the child's strengths and weaknesses, and then impose guidance. I think we all have done children, we should understand what children like, too much preaching, are not as good as the self behavior to guide the child's effect. If you want your child to do something, you have to do it first. For example, when my son watched TV, once he saw the exciting part, he unconsciously went to the front of the TV, I corrected him, he immediately rebuked and said: "You are always on the Internet every day, a long time to play, your eyes will also have to see the bad." In response to the child's questioning, I can only correct myself first, with my own behavior to influence the child, I told the child: "You see mom corrected, only a short time on the Internet, you should also correct it!" At this point, the child will gladly understand your recommendation.

? In order to broaden the horizons and cultivate the child's multifaceted interests. In the after-school hours, enroll him in a calligraphy class. He has been learning it for a few years now, and he is very interested in it and has achieved good results.

? The child likes handmade, I bring him materials and give him as much help as possible. Sometimes, I see him make a "work" that is not very exciting, and show it to us complacently, with a proud look on his face. I am glad to see that the child is willing to do it and get pleasure from the process of handicraft, from the bottom of my heart.

? In addition, we also like to let the child participate in some physical exercise. He's a runner and a jumper, so it's good for him to get some exercise to keep him fit and happy, so why not?

? In short, we expect the child is not only buried in the study of the child, we expect him to study well at the same time can also have the pleasure of self, is a person who loves life.

? Education of children, is the whole family's heavy responsibility, education of children really need parents from the "cultivation" to the "family", it is possible to move towards the goal of education. This year, I purchased MP3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classical explanation and recitation to MP3, and then played through the amplifier, so that everyone in the family is exposed to this information, synchronized learning. At the same time on the family members of the life behavior must be restrained and standardized, children's education needs the growth of every member of the family. At the same time, with the function of MP3 Walkman, it will also accelerate my learning process of ancient languages. I found that there are a lot of excellent resources of traditional culture on the network, and over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.

? Learning process has also encountered such and such difficulties, sometimes hard to talk but counterproductive phenomenon is not uncommon, and have been distressed by this, after careful thought: parents should not only blame the child, should also reflect on reflection, see where the problem is, can not change the way to make the child can be easier to understand some. In fact, as long as the heart, creative, home education can also be interesting.

? After the child has some reading potential, I began to try to give the child to write some different information small note, even if only a few words. I put these small notes sometimes in the child's pencil case, sometimes quietly in the child's toy box, and even on the refrigerator door, mirror, pillow, as long as the child can see, can find the place are previously his goal. When the child accidentally found these small notes when he brought him a surprise, but also so that he can really touch the parents of his attention and love.

? Words and language have different characteristics, language is fleeting, sometimes said several times does not have to leave much of an impression, easy to this ear in, that ear out. The text overcomes this weakness, as long as it is not destroyed, then no matter when you are able to take out to see, and every time you look at, the feeling is to revisit once again, the impression is naturally more profound. This is not only thinking about the child's self-esteem, but also easier to be understood by the child, compared to stormy scolding and reprimanding.

? It is not only able to make the child have more understanding and respect for parents, adhere to it may be able to force you to make progress with the child. Because as the child grows older, the note material will no longer be a single praise ah, criticism and so on, and gradually will be extended to recommend a book ah, introduce a good article ah, leave a need to use their brains to answer the question ah, and even include a point of view on the discussion and so on, the information began to be varied, which is for his thinking potential and writing potential training is also a help. This is a great way to add a lot of fun to homeschooling.

? In the child's education how to do is right, how to do is the best, I can not say, but the child's education there are aspects of the **** sex, there are things and should be the child's personality, characteristics and not the same, in the education of not only to go with the flow, but also to be guided by the good, in the management and no matter to find a balance.

? "Cheer up"! "Don't be discouraged, try again" "You did this awesome thing! I'm so happy for you!" ...... We often give our children this kind of encouragement, and they will be fast-tracked by the sound of our encouragement. Children need encouragement, we often encourage children to participate in school mass activities, come back to listen to him tell what happened when he participated in the activities, but also to further ask him some questions: what activities this day? Who was with him? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What did you learn and experience from participating in this activity? Why? In order to arouse the child's interest, find problems and timely elimination of the solution. So every encouragement from us is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of learning and life, we have given the child a lot of encouragement and appreciation, so the child is self-confident, so that he has such an attentive mind I think it is very valuable.

? Although praise and encouragement is the main thing, but there are times when criticism is indispensable. In the child's learning, sometimes his test scores are less, he will feel unhappy, but we will not therefore go to harshly criticize him, sometimes to help him find the reasons, sometimes to remind him how to do. So, he never dared to tell his parents because of the low test scores.

? Education expert Ms. Xu Guojing said, if the family education is limited to how to cultivate children, and ignore the real need to improve the quality of parents, then it is difficult to achieve the desired results of such family education. If the quality of parents is not high, how can we have a good atmosphere for family education, and how can we raise the next generation that is physically and mentally healthy? Parents often lament that the older their children get, the less they understand them. Yes, when your child is small, you are always directing your child's words and behavior as an elder, and you have never really experienced your child's feelings. When your child grows up, you will be farther and farther away from your child, and a generation gap will arise, making it difficult to pass on the right ideas and experiences to your child, and leading to a failure of education. But if parents from the beginning can do and the child to grow together, with the child's eyes to see the child, always continue a child's heart, then, as the child grows up, you will find that in the child slowly read the world at the same time, you slowly read the child this book, into the world of the child's mind. At this point, you are closer and closer to successful parenting.

? This is a little experience in the process of educating our children, there are certainly many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn and teach as we go along, figuring out in practice and making progress in learning, so that our children can grow up more healthily and happily and become excellent people.