1 1 ways to find objects

There are 1 1 ways to find someone, and single friends are eager to know which ones. In today's society, there are actually many ways to find someone, and one we are familiar with is blind date. Besides blind date, there are many other reliable ways. Here are 1 1 ways to find a partner, hoping to help you get rid of the order as soon as possible.

1 1 a way to find an object 1 1, the park blind date corner.

There are always several parks in the city. Choose a secluded place and quietly set it as a gathering place for blind date. Saturday and Sunday are the most active. Most of them are spontaneously formed by the people and supported by the park management.

The scene was crowded, and A4 paper, printed or handwritten marriage information was posted on the wall, tree, rope and umbrella, including personal information, contact information, mate selection requirements and so on.

Young singles can post their own marriage information there, and at the same time take some heterosexual marriage information and watch it slowly at home. It is recommended not to stay too long. In recent years, the number of discouraged singles and people who admire their parents has gradually increased, and the blind date corner has become the home of parents.

Occasionally, young singles enter, and parents immediately come to chat, leaving one after another. The inquiry is simple and direct, and the conversation has no privacy, because there are parents' circles listening. It looks like a sheep has entered the wolves.

Most of the marriage information sent by the blind date angle is female. There are many parents at the live event. In the meantime, it has long been mixed with the sales of matchmaking.

It's called the blind date corner, but there is no meeting between men and women. Here, it is more like a single information exchange place, where parents and relatives meet.

You: No money. Can meet the right one with low probability. Time and place are fixed.

Disadvantages: Being single is embarrassing. It takes time and energy from parents, and children may not buy it. Will receive inexplicable harassing calls.

Recommended: single person ★

2. Traditional matchmaking agencies

There are X Marriage Center, X Matchmaking Company, X Love Club, X New Blind Date, etc. In fact, they all have the same meaning, just avoiding the word "matchmaking agency". Because in recent years, this term has a bad impression on the public, but as long as it is mentioned, it will lead to the associative word "marriage". (There will be a wedding support topic later)

The traditional form of matchmaking agency, which used to be the responsibility of the civil affairs department, is now managed by the industry and commerce, which is convenient for registration.

According to the phone number and address left by every matchmaking agency in many media, just come to the door. Most of the fees are on the high side, and the service is good or bad. We should bargain and strive for reasonable service. Whether you can find a suitable partner depends on the integrity of the matchmaking agency and your sincerity in marriage.

Most of them are one-on-one blind date meetings. Whether matchmaking agencies and blind dates are reliable or not depends on your own feelings. Don't trust the receptionist's advertising language and sales terms.

The minefield of traditional matchmaking is very large and needs a pair of discerning eyes. I can't say which matchmaking agencies don't have wedding support-they are suspected of advertising; I can't say which matchmaking agencies have wedding support-I'm afraid of wrangling with me. I can only say that there is really wedding support, which has nothing to do with the size of the matchmaking agency, but is closely related to the boss's conscience and moral integrity.

Excellent: relatively safe. There is a real-name audit of documents. Occasionally, I can meet reliable people.

Disadvantages: high cost. You will meet a wedding support in some matchmaking agencies.

Recommended: ★★★★

Step 3 eat grass by the nest

If you don't eat it, others will eat it. Say goodbye politely and choose for yourself.

Classmates, colleagues, friends, neighbors, repeat familiar names, look for lonely people, crawl forward, approach slowly, and wait for opportunities. Even if you can't eat it, smell it.

Excellent: As long as the weight is accurately estimated, the success rate is very high.

Disadvantages: if you don't succeed, you will make friends. From then on, Qingqing was a passer-by.

Recommended: ★★★★★★★

4. Introduction by relatives and friends

If you are blind and avoid the grass by the nest perfectly, you can consider finding someone to introduce you.

There are many enthusiastic aunts. Are you embarrassed to ask? No problem. Give parents a hint. As soon as you let go here, it immediately spread over there, and the matchmakers followed suit. Don't put on airs Let's talk about it when we meet. When we meet, you will find that blind date is not a scourge. If we agree, we will make another appointment. Don't be old, miss the best opportunity of blind date, want to find someone to introduce you, no one cares about you.

If you are afraid of the aesthetics and tastes of your aunts, you can ask your brothers and sisters for help. As long as your character is not too bad, someone will always help you hook up. Better than the elders, friends are always on the same stage with you, and the recommended people have a high hit rate.

Of course, it's good to hear what they have to say. They may be familiar with each other and only know that they are single. You must contact and identify them yourself.

If you are dating, go more, just like a novice playing billiards and poking a few more shots, you will always meet.

Excellent: from running errands in the early stage to mediation in the later stage, you don't have to worry about it, just go to people according to the appointment.

Disadvantages: parents and matchmakers will force questions, and if they are unsuccessful, they will make up high-sounding reasons. It is also possible that relatives and friends will know that the other party is not interested in you and has no face.

Recommended: ★★★★★★★

5. Marriage website

Most registered members are single people who want to get married, so it takes some time and energy to find each other in the station.

Early dating sites were free, but now they are all kinds of packages, so it is understandable that the website operates at a cost.

Some dating websites advertise very hard, and there is basically no service, which is purely a bluff.

Large-scale marriage and love network, with cable outlets everywhere, will have telephone promotion service, which is very expensive, mainly for middle and high-end people.

Small dating websites are mostly local matchmaking websites. Registration is free, and there is generally no interactive function. The ultimate goal is to encourage singles to interview matchmaking entities.

Excellent: the opposite sex is concentrated, and the contact information of the other party can be obtained through functions such as door-to-door letter collection.

If you can accept the cost of a physical store, offline one-on-one blind date is also simple and fast.

Disadvantages: low cost performance; There are many liars; Always face warm greetings from telemarketers.

Recommended: ★★★★

6, dating APP

Pocket dating applications, many searches, are the same as large and small dating sites, but the service extends to mobile clients.

Most users are young people with a clear desire to get married.

Excellent: convenient, can use the debris time.

Disadvantages: most news reports about being cheated are concentrated here; There are many similar apps, so patients with difficulties should be cautious.

Recommended: ★★★★

7. Folk blind date group activities

Search for "local name" plus keywords such as marriage, blind date and making friends. And you can find more than n local free blind date groups. Just apply to join.

These groups are spontaneously formed by single people who have longed for marriage for many years; There are matchmaking agencies set up in batches to drive sales; There are other businesses that are established to drain guests.

Some groups are crowded, active and powerful; Some groups are negligent in management and lifeless; Some groups are used by various businesses to display advertisements.

In any case, it is easy to join and quit the group. You need patience to find the right blind date group. Join the group not for chatting, but for group activities, blind date or implementation.

Most blind date groups are spontaneously organized by the people, not for profit. It is recommended to participate in activities, and the fee for eating, drinking and having fun is AA by default. The author personally tested several activities and felt more reliable.

Because of non-commercial activities, group owners are voluntary, and the activities lack overall planning, sometimes not, both good and bad.

Excellent: There are many successful and good free channels.

Group activities are relatively safe. It's not awkward to meet, but we can talk in private and make an appointment alone.

Disadvantages: Group activities are unsustainable. Without supervision. Group membership information has not been reviewed.

Recommended: ★★★★★

8. Use social software

The mainstream is WeChat and QQ, and others.

Search nearby people, search by gender and age, drift bottle … all kinds of functions can be tried.

To find a target from a large number of people of the opposite sex who are willing to respond to you, such as seeking gold in the sand, the other person must have the same conditions, similar views, be single and not a liar. Although the probability is low, it is not impossible to try.

Excellent: a good way to meet the opposite sex in batches, which can avoid the embarrassment of hitting on strangers.

Disadvantages: A lot of time spent chatting online may be wasted. Seeing the light is easy to die, and the reality is quite different.

Low barriers to entry, mixed fish and dragons. Convenient for you and the liar.

Recommended: ★★★★

9, blind date wedding party

In the past thirteen years, blind date and marriage parties have blossomed everywhere, with different scales and advantages and disadvantages.

The most reliable blind date meeting, really led by government agencies and authoritative media, will issue a marriage handbook with information and contact information of single people attending the meeting. However, the preparatory activities need a lot of money and manpower, and there are not many such activities every year. Because of the high attention of the event, some organizations will publicize similar blind date meetings in the name of the government and pay attention to identification.

Marriage service agencies will also organize small blind date parties, with a number of one or two hundred. Either convene internal members and individuals, or socialize with enterprises and institutions. A group will be built on the spot, and you can contact separately afterwards. This kind of blind date can be optional.

There are also some so-called blind date parties held by unrelated businesses, which are purely gimmicks. I just went to help increase popularity and make props. If I want to find a marriage, I won't go.

Generally speaking, blind date wedding parties range from dozens to thousands of people, each with its own advantages and disadvantages, but at least it is a place where singles are willing to mate, so there are many opportunities to try.

This is one of the blind date modes that the author agrees with, but the specific operation needs to be improved.

Excellent: the public welfare registration fee is not high. Have an official audit certificate.

Disadvantages: the activity time is not fixed. Commercial advertisements are followed by sales calls.

Recommended: ★★★★★

10, personal advertisement for marriage

Use all available media platforms to recommend yourself and make yourself widely known.

A, the newspaper is more formal, with a personal marriage column, which costs less. Just because of the impact of the internet, the number of newspaper users is decreasing, so don't hold too much hope.

B. Classify information networks and forums and issue marriage cards. According to my observation, such platforms are in the marriage and love sector, neglected in management, with low traffic and popularity, and it is difficult to have a serious response to posting.

C, video network or live broadcast platform, directly broadcast yourself. Fight to get rid of the bill.

Contact your people through such channels, because there will be sincere candidates, matchmaking sales, liars, perverts, boring people and garbage people without filtering, so you need to screen hard.

Excellent: it can attract attention at low cost.

Disadvantages: there will be messy people constantly harassing. There are few effective countermeasures.

Recommended: ★★★

1 1, waiting for the pie to fall from the sky.

As long as you are confident and firmly believe that fate is coming, you can use this inaction method. I don't spend a little effort, how to live at ordinary times, as usual.

Or hang down and stand in a daze; Or Ge You lying down enjoying himself. Anything will do.

Excellence: you don't have to do anything, you don't have to pay, you don't have to sacrifice, and good things come to you automatically.

Disadvantages: When marriage comes, you may believe it, maybe 30 years later, maybe next life.

Recommendation: 0

In addition, there are ways to favor the minority. When there is really nothing to do, you can try.

For example, participate in TV dating programs; Help others more, and good people will be rewarded; Stay at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau and wait for the divorced opposite sex to come out and follow.

In short, we should do everything possible to expand the scope of activities, put more into social practice, and don't stay at home all the time, chase dramas and play games (except those who play electronic games).

Fully mobilize subjective initiative. Multi-party action, stick to execution, always get rid of orders. If you know and don't do it, it only means that your lazy cancer is very serious and you need to be treated.

1 1 Ways to find a partner 2 1, friend introduction, friend introduction has always been the most direct channel to find a partner, but first we need to let our friends around us know that we are single and have plans to find a partner, and then ask our friends around us if there is a suitable opposite sex.

2. Colleagues introduced that falling in love itself requires initiative, so don't feel too shy. Here, we can also introduce ourselves through colleagues. For example, if you work in a company, occasionally talk to your colleagues about your situation, express your desire to find a partner, and then ask them to introduce you.

3. Participate in activities. It's really not easy for otaku and otaku to find their other half. So if you want to find someone, try not to stay at home and go out more when you have time. For example, organizing blind date activities or climbing mountains can increase our chances of getting in touch with the opposite sex, so it is easy to find the right one.

4, believe in love, in the process of looking for an object, we will inevitably encounter ups and downs, hurt, hurt, but so what, we must always believe that we can find the one we like, don't lose heart, don't lose heart, believe in the existence of love, and now the failure is just to wait for the better one, so we must be strong.

5. Show yourself, we often see a state of complacency. As bystanders, we think this form is beautiful, so we like peacocks. The same is true of the communication between the opposite sex. As a girl, we should dress ourselves up and package ourselves to sublimate our personal charm.

6, appropriate weakness, I believe that many boys do not like that kind of careless female man. After all, the idea that women are weak is inherited by nature. Therefore, as a girl, it is appropriate to be weak, such as twisting the bottle cap and sometimes coquetry, which may stimulate boys' desire to protect you.

7, prepare a "resume", know yourself, know your requirements for the other half, such as height, appearance, education, hometown location, personality, etc. Appropriate is reasonable, but not too absolute.

8. Take the initiative to go out and get in touch with some opposite sex of similar age, whether it is your colleague relationship or customer relationship.

9. Find a passionate partner when looking for a job.

10, mobilize people around you to help you find it.

1 1, don't reject some people impulsively. After all, there are fewer people who fall in love at first sight, unless they are particularly beautiful or handsome. After all, this is a minority, and eventually we have to get to know each other slowly to have more feelings.