Why should we learn to honor our parents?

Filial piety and respect for parents is the fine tradition of the Chinese nation, is the world's people *** with the revered virtues, but also one of the most important manners in daily etiquette.

Nowadays, most of the secondary school students are only children, more favorable living conditions and environment, so that many children develop self-centered habits. They think more for themselves and less for others, and even think that everything their parents do for them should be, they do not know how to honor their parents. In fact, filial piety and respect for parents and elders is the fine tradition of the Chinese people, but also a moral code that each of us should abide by.

Why should we honor our parents? Only from the parents for the children's upbringing, from October to the birth of a small life, from the newborn baby to the fluttering teenager, from food and clothing, housing and transportation to go to school and study to socialize with friends, when the parents do not know how much to worry about! Although every competent parent does not give their children the same amount of knowledge and nourishment in life, they do their best to do so. It can be said that the love of parents for their children is the deepest love between people and the most sacrificial love. In the face of the parents who raised us, every one of us with a little conscience should honor them. So, how should we honor our parents? First, filial piety parents and elders, to listen to their teachings as the "Code of Conduct for Secondary School Students" said that "respect for the views and teachings of parents, often life, learning, thinking about the situation to tell their parents". Tell them the joys and sorrows of their hearts, and ask them for ways to solve problems. Because most of the parents' teachings are accumulated decades of life experience, listen to the parents' teachings can be less detour, conducive to their own healthy growth.

Second, filial piety and respect for parents, to be polite to them we have a lot of students think that the family every day together do not have to be polite, do not have to be polite, this idea is not true. The Chinese people have always paid attention to etiquette education, China has been known as the "state of etiquette" reputation. We should inherit the good traditions of our people, and form a certain polite routine at home. We should greet our parents when we get up in the morning and inform them when we leave home. In daily life, we should develop the habit of being humble and courteous. For example, let your parents sit down first when you eat, carry food and chopsticks for your parents; eat with consideration for your elders; listen carefully to your parents' speeches, don't interrupt, and don't contradict; speak to your parents in a gentle tone of voice, and pay attention to the use of polite phrases.

Three, filial piety and respect for parents, to care about them in specific behavior, although our secondary school students do not have the ability to support their parents, but can always be more caring and considerate in words and deeds. On the basis of the completion of learning tasks, take care of personal life, do not let parents worry, take the initiative to undertake some of the ability to do housework and service work for parents to reduce the burden of parents. To always care about the health of parents, warmth, especially in the parents need to be more careful care when they are sick. On holidays, parents' birthdays, wedding anniversaries, children quietly send a card (homemade more meaningful) to express the strong feelings of children, which can deepen the relationship with parents, but also on the parents of the spirit of great comfort. In short, we should be specific behavior to filial piety parents, return their love to us.