What kind of sexual ideas should a girl in her twenties hold? Premarital sex and parents' traditional ideas are very conflicting, I do not know what to do?

This sister: From your responses and those of the previous users, I can see that you are a good child who is knowledgeable and courteous, so I would like to talk about my views for your reference.

The right answer to the question of "sex" and "love" is this.

First of all, yes, sex is not dirty and nasty, it is an expression of intimate love unique to couples. It is one of God's wonderful gifts to man. Sex is one of the expressions of love.

God originally gave sex as a gift to mankind, but it is only in marriage that it is one of the most intimate expressions of love, and any sex outside of marriage is wrong. It is a misuse of sex that is not blessed by God. So extramarital affairs, cohabitation, premarital sex is not blessed by God and is immoral behavior.

Sex outside of marriage is just lust, not an expression of true love. After the physical pleasure, there is a deeper emptiness. In fact, our inner conscience reminds us that indulging in lust is wrong, a misuse of sex.

Pre-marital sex can bring personal guilt and shame later, (for girls, even if their boyfriends become husbands) affecting the future of the marriage stain and shadow, but also lead to the loss of the couple in the trust and respect for each other in the difficulties.

A good marriage is based on mutual pleasure and love, not on sexual relations. Sex before marriage is sinful and displeasing to God, and marriage is a covenant and blessing from God that is sacred. So both boys and girls should respect their own and each other's bodies.

Some students even asked quite directly: what is wrong with indulging according to the desires of one's body?

What is wrong is:

One:

It is very sad that the soul is controlled by the body's desires when life is a human being with a noble soul.

Two:

After the fall of mankind into sin, the sinful nature is buried deep in everyone's heart, which is very terrible if left unchecked.

Three:

It has been proven that indulgence in lust is followed by a deeper emptiness.

The human soul is really the same marvelous thing, and it can only be satisfied by something truly eternal and valuable.

"There are two things, the deeper and more persistent my contemplation of them, the more the wonder and awe they evoke in my mind grows day by day, and these are the starry heavens above my head and the moral laws in my heart." This is one of the most powerful quotes in the history of human thought, engraved on Kant's tombstone, from the last chapter of Kant's "Critique of Practical Reason".

Yes, if there is no ultimate truth, everything under the sun does not stand up to scrutiny, whether it is busy or idle, shallow sensual pleasures, exciting games. Movies, male and female pleasures 。。。。。 A sigh and.

Confucius said, "Toward the Dao, evening can die."

The Savior Jesus said, "What shall it profit a man if he shall earn the whole world and lose his life? What else can a man give in exchange for his life?"

We recommend this student to read the book "Eternity is Calling", which is available on the internet. In fact, only when a person has a true faith can he or she see the glory and preciousness of life, and have mature values, and have true wisdom in love. And from this, we can find the meaning of life, and live an abundant life that can truly bring us fulfillment. A life free from lowly lusts. And a life of gladly doing our duty in love and gratitude.