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Is the parenting experience of the older generation correct?

Hello, when I was a child, because of my parents' traditional ideas, we would use their methods to educate our children. Growing up, our parents, because their age is different from ours and their lives are different from those of young people, are often wrong. Young parents don't have any parenting experience, so it's time for our older generation to take the lead. The older generation has a lot of parenting experience, many of which sound strange, but they firmly believe it.

So are these experiences really good for children? Is there a problem? Let's have a look.

1, eating salt bears fruit.

If our bodies don't take enough salt, it's easy to make our limbs weak. In ancient China, salt was a very precious thing. Therefore, for the older generation, it is necessary to give children more salt, so that children will grow strong and have strength when they grow up.

However, this behavior is actually very wrong. Infants and young children should never eat too much salt before they are one year old. Before they were one year old, the detoxification function of the kidneys was not perfect. If they eat too much salt, it is easy to cause serious damage to the detoxification function of infants' kidneys, and even suffer from kidney diseases at a young age.

Step 2 Wash your face with breast milk

Washing your face with breast milk is also a popular remedy. Many elderly people think that breast milk can be used to wash the baby's face, because it can make the baby white and tender, and it can also help the baby to eliminate prickly heat and eczema.

In fact, this method is not only bad for the baby, but also harmful to the baby. Breast milk will deteriorate and baby's skin is very delicate and sensitive. If you wash your baby's face with spoiled breast milk, it will not only make your baby's skin white and tender, but even destroy the protective layer on the skin and cause harm to the skin.

Step 3 put on more clothes

Infants and young children are very fragile. If the baby catches a cold, it is not only very dangerous, but also can't be used casually.

Therefore, in the eyes of many old people, babies must wear more clothes and must not be frozen. Even in summer, you can't turn on the air conditioner. In short, be sure to keep your baby's body warm.

But in fact, if you want your baby to grow up healthily, you should make it hungry and cold, that is to say, you should not let your baby eat too much and wear too warm clothes.

This is because infants and young children are in a high-speed period of growth and development. During this period, any external stimulus will also make the baby resistant to the outside world. A small amount of hunger and cold will greatly improve the baby's absorption function and cold resistance, and the body's immunity can also be improved, but too good protection is a kind of harm to the baby.

The baby's body is very fragile, so we can't do experiments on the baby. Therefore, when raising children, parents must be as scientific and cautious as possible. They can't just listen to hearsay and apply some secret parenting skills to their children. Old people will think that this is their experience in raising children. But these experiences of the elderly are unscientific and old methods.