The traditional concept of boyfriend family is very serious.

I think it's better not to marry in the past. After all, your boyfriend has lived with your parents since childhood. If his parents have such feudal conservative thoughts, it means that he is likely to have been spoiled by his parents all the time during his growth, or there is a treasure man's heart hidden under his independent appearance. Although many people say that he will not live with his mother-in-law after marriage, what can you do if he is such a person? You still can't get rid of it

Besides, male chauvinism should be more serious for boys who grew up in this ideological environment! This also leads to your low status in the future marriage. He may ask you to follow his advice in many ways and act arbitrarily on some important decisions. I don't think such a married life should be very happy!

More importantly, if you don't give him a son after marriage, I don't think his family will be very satisfied, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may deteriorate. They should ask you to have a second child. If a second child is impossible, you can have three. At this time, if you don't want to have another child, then you will face divorce or husband's infidelity.

And your children will grow up in this patriarchal family. As a woman and a mother, do you have the heart to let your children bear all this? Let them grow up in such unfair environment. I think for whatever reason, such a man should leave as soon as possible. After all, this is a very big test in the future, which is not only related to the happiness of one's marriage, but also has a great connection with children.