Why do smart leaders have to go first when leaders attend subordinate wedding banquets?

Generally speaking, when subordinates get married, as long as they send invitations to leaders, leaders will come. However, leaders generally don't wait until the banquet is over, and they will find a reason to leave early!

Is it because the leader is too busy, or because the leader puts on airs? In fact, leaders are not busy and do not put on airs. Then many people don't understand. Since you are not busy or putting on airs, why not wait until the end?

If you are in a leading position, you will understand. As a leader, there are two "must come" and two "must go first" when attending a subordinate's wedding!

Be sure to come one or two.

1, the traditional code of conduct is: China is a country of etiquette, and it pays the most attention to human relations. Marriage is a great event in life. Even if subordinates and leaders were not familiar before, subordinates should send invitations to leaders, and leaders should give them support. If the leader catches up with a business trip or feels that the friendship between the two is not enough, the leader will also let others pay the gift money on his behalf. This is natural and a way to treat people. As a leader, emotional intelligence is definitely good, and this secular human sentiment is definitely achievable. In addition, for the leader, the inviter is his subordinate and there is no reason not to attend.

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2. In order to win the support of subordinates, you must also participate. Leaders know how to lead. When establishing prestige, you should establish prestige, and you will also show goodwill and care for your subordinates. Therefore, when subordinates send invitations to leaders, leaders must attend. The most important thing in a subordinate's life is that the leader does not participate, the leader's popularity is too poor, and he loses face in front of his friends. The leader is a clever man. At this time, go to congratulate and bless a few words, and be sure to make your subordinates grateful forever. It not only makes subordinates feel grateful, but also enhances their prestige. Why not?

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Two, two must go first.

1, in order to avoid others being too restrained, you must leave early. As we all know, people usually prefer to drink with leaders. The leader is very clever. If he walks to the table, everyone dares not say anything, even the food. Everyone else is very stiff, and he is embarrassed. Wedding is a happy thing. You don't like them because they exist. Don't spoil the atmosphere! Therefore, a wise leader will sit for a while and then find an excuse to leave.

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2, to avoid drunkenness, you must go first. The important reason is fear of frequent toasting. At the wedding, the host and relatives can't ignore the leader, and many subordinates can't turn a blind eye. There must be many people coming to propose a toast. Generally speaking, many people know to respect their leaders, so everyone will propose a toast! If you forgive yourself for not drinking, you are afraid of ruining everyone's fun. Well, drink it. You'll get drunk if you're not careful. More dangerously, once you get drunk, you will lose face. He is a leader and can't lose face! Therefore, the etiquette arrived and the face was given to the subordinates. In order not to be a fool, I won't wait until the last minute to back down!

So if the leader is not busy, leave early. The reason is so simple!