Disciple talks about a happy life, episode 1, experience, who said that?

First, it is urgent to carry forward traditional culture and learn Disciples Rules.

An example told by Chen Dahui, a famous host of CCTV, haunts my mind: a mother takes special care of her son and pours her child a glass of cold water every day when she comes home from school. Just one day, my mother came back late from working overtime and poured him a glass of water. When the child drank it, he scolded, "It's so hot that you want to burn me to death!" "Say that finish, I will pour hot water on my mother's face. Q: Are you satisfied with this life? Can such a life be said to be happy? How many families in our real life have had similar tragedies? Sad! Sad! It is the sorrow of family and society. What kind of family will our family be in the long run? What kind of society will our society be? I can't imagine. We have different ways of thinking, so who is the person who caused this sad result? Is it our child? No, our parents. It is our parents who spoil their children too much.

It can be seen that if our parents neglect the education of their children's family and traditional culture, how much sorrow will it cause to our family, school and society? Therefore, in order to reverse this situation and carry forward traditional culture, it is urgent to learn Disciples Rules!

Second, learning Disciples Rules can bind people ideologically and stimulate people's "benevolence" and "compassion".

In this study, I was assigned to Hejing Group. There is a white-haired old man in our regiment in his seventies with a hemostatic patch on his head. On the first day of group sharing, my mother told us the special situation of her family: a family of five came here, and she was a university lecturer. She has retired and had lung cancer surgery a few years ago. My wife is an academician of the Institute of Geology. She is still working in her seventies and even walks with crutches. They gave birth to a daughter during the Cultural Revolution. As a native of party member, I wanted to take the lead in going to the countryside, so I put down my five-month-old daughter and let others feed her. On one occasion, my daughter unfortunately had a high fever, which led to mental retardation. After that, she was sent to a school for the mentally handicapped so that she could study. After the mentally retarded daughter got married, she gave birth to a daughter by caesarean section. The son-in-law is lazy and divorced. Today's granddaughter is in the fifth grade, with good grades, but lazy and unfilial. My family loved me from childhood, just like making up for my previous mistakes with her mother. Grandma washed her feet the other day. She was doing her homework in the room. Grandma asked her to pour water and wash her feet. She refused to say it several times, so she hit her. She quickly picked up the stainless steel hanger and slammed it on her head. Suddenly, blood poured out. She dialed 120 and was taken to the hospital. She had several stitches. ,,,,, and the old mother said that her greatest wish now was to save her. After that, my old mother's eyes shone with tears, and so did the members of our group. Really sad!

In the afternoon, our group sent someone to chat with the little girl, in order to close the distance with her and let her listen to the experts carefully. The next day, we found her taking notes carefully. In the evening self-study, we watched the touching story of Wang Xihai giving up the opportunity to study abroad to take care of his vegetative father for more than 20 years in CCTV's "Poor is Thinking Change-Filial Son before Long Bed" and the story of Zhai filming with his mother in the national first-class director Zhai's "Poor is Thinking Change-Great Director, Old Mother". The little girl seems to have been touched spiritually. On the third morning at dinner, we were surprised to find that the little girl and her mother were sitting together, and we ignored them. There are 65,438+05 minutes to share in the evening. Chen Mingyang, our instructor, learned about her Amanome from the register, so she chose two other teachers, both born this month, to spend her birthday with her, telling the hardships of her mother's pregnancy in October, saying that each of our birthdays was a good day for her mother, and asked the other two teachers to talk about the little things between herself and her mother, which made the little girl infected. After that, let her make her own good wishes. We blessed her and sang the song "Happy Birthday" for her. We found that the little girl smiled knowingly and tears were rolling in her eyes. Both the old mother and uncle smiled happily with tears in their eyes. On the fourth day, we were surprised to find that the little girl brought her grandmother and mother to read in the morning. After dinner, she also took the initiative to help grandma and mom wash dishes with paper towels. A few days ago, her own plate was cleaned by the volunteer teacher.

Why do little girls become so fast? It was because she learned Disciples Rules that she was deeply inspired. What she understands is "the first filial brother", that is to say, there must be love in the heart and filial piety to parents. Learning Disciple Rules binds the little girl ideologically and arouses her "benevolence" and "compassion".

3. Educators have a long way to go in studying and practicing Disciples' Rules.

Disciple Rules contains traditional concepts such as filial piety and etiquette, especially in action. In today's society, ethics is out of order and people are not old. For the sake of family harmony, campus harmony and social harmony, it is particularly important to learn disciples' rules. In particular, we educators who set an example bear the great responsibility of teaching and educating people, and the task is even more important. Therefore, first of all, we should learn the Disciple's Rules well, and learn the traditional ideas such as the Classic of Filial Piety and the rite of coming of age in the Disciple's Rules, so as to standardize our behavior, improve our self-cultivation, start from the little things around us, set a good example for students from time to time, help each student to establish a correct outlook on life, and educate students how to be a man. Let everyone love the people around them and the world. Only in this way can this society become a harmonious society and this world become a harmonious world; Only in this way can we live happily.

Through this study, my soul was purified and baptized. In the future education and teaching work, I will better carry forward Chinese traditional culture, set an example to practice disciple rules, convey love, and do my bit to build a harmonious campus and a harmonious society.