What discernment to chase girls in middle school

1. Be confident. No matter how ugly you look or penniless, you must be confident, maybe the girl you like likes you like this. So be confident before pursuing a girl.

2. Don't think that being rich, or handsome can catch up with all the girls, girls with character will appreciate your connotation more, so show your cultivation and demeanor when you get along with each other.

3. Don't be arrogant, don't show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a feeling of frivolity. And don't brag. Girls are not stupid, your advantages, they can see. Girls are very fond of boys with depth.

4. Cultivated, with connotation, is not for you to give up your own personality, but now there are individuality of the boys will let the girl fascinated, but the performance of this personality to master the degree, do not draw a tiger without a dog.

5. To be generous, even if you don't have money, but in front of the girl you like or not so stingy, not to call you extravagant show off, but also do not be catty. Of course, many girls still like rich guys, but I never see this kind of pandering girls.

6. In the pursuit of a beautiful woman will certainly pay a lot, and not necessarily get back. But don't ever hang around all day saying what you've done for her because you've given so much, this will make them look down on you. Girls on the surface will not move to your payment, but she is still very happy inside. What you do for her she will definitely remember in her heart. Try to maintain the style of letting go!

7. Some people say don't just give a girl a gift. I do not agree with this point, I think we have to give them gifts, for them to do more, have a conscience of the girl will feel owed to you, will not be able to bear to refuse your date and so on, so that we can get along with the opportunity. Of course the premise of sending gifts is that the girl should have a good feeling about you.

8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with themselves, so we have to be like the "love station Okinawa" in the Zhang Guorong did the same thing: always in front of Faye Wong to beat around the bush, not in order to look at Faye Wong, but to let Faye Wong look at him. We have to learn to show our good points!

9. To learn to say sweet words, although we all know that sweet words are coaxing, but girls just love to hear. Don't be afraid to be disgusting and pretentious. You know it's not true but you have to say it.

10. Women are honored to please themselves. So we have to praise them often, even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we have to say that she looks like heaven, they do not necessarily believe, but the heart must be very happy.

11. To learn to do romantic things, remember, any girl likes romance, even if she is usually very serious. Once I lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend's dorm room. Many people thought I was shameless, but I won beautiful hearts.

12. As the saying goes, if a man is not bad, a woman will not love him. When you are very familiar with the time, appropriate play a little bad eye, say some naughty words, hands and feet, will be very let the girl happy. Don't be so gentlemanly all the time, that will give a kind of wooden feeling.

13. Never vilify your love rival in front of her, we have to show generosity, secretly in the Yin him! Appropriate praise your love enemy, on the contrary, will make her appreciate you more.

14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words, suddenly give her a surprise. For example, when I first pursued the girl, the first night she casually said a pair of shoes a little crowded, the second day I went into the city in the rain to buy her a pair of new shoes. She was so touched.

15. To be her boyfriend, you must be friends with her best friend. Buy her friends, when you have not yet become the time, accompanied by her side is certainly her good friends, her good friends for you to say good things, you will be twice as effective. This also helps to understand her character and little by little.

16. Be persistent. When you ask her out, she may reject you for the first time, but don't give up, you have to ask her out in different ways, and take the initiative to ask her out as soon as you get the chance. Each date to let her feel your good, let her feel very pleasant, the future dating opportunities will be more.

17. To be cold and hot, there are in and out. You can be 4,5 days in a row and her study in a study room, 3,4 days in a row to send her a text message, call, but suddenly in the cold her a day, two days, the appropriate drop her appetite, let her feel inseparable from you.

18. In fact, the best use of a trick, we all love to use a trick, is the first and her good friends, so that your performance opportunities are also more, more chances of success. But a lot of people do not do a good point is to get along too familiar, but will let the other side of you do not feel. So let you become her friend, not let her become your friend, to try to show all the advantages of their own, but your past and your thoughts do not easily reveal, stay a little mysterious to be more attractive.

19. Be motivated, even if you are very uneducated, but in front of her you have to show your ambition. And in the process of getting along, show your shrewdness and competence, the girls in this era will not like the man who is harboring and ordinary.

20. Don't act like you're not married to her, but also make her feel that you're important to her, so that she can't get away from you. In case we run into a girl who likes to fall for guys, won't we lose a lot of money.

21. In the dating place, we can not feel her preferences and character, this time you have to show a little mysterious, so that she does not understand you, and when you understand her, no matter what dress and character immediately become the kind of boy she likes.

22. To have a sense of humor, but do not be too poor, and do not tell a joke for several poo, humor is not let you only tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor, I'm very poor anyway.

23. When you feel that there is no hope of catching her, you can give up for a while, give each other space to think, and also give yourself time to re-examine yourself. Reformulate a plan to appear in front of her with a new attitude. It's called making progress by retreating.

24. You can cheat her, but don't let her know that you cheated her, or you're finished, it depends on your level of lying. Of course it's better to be sincere!

26. In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls, the dogma of chasing girls are all for nothing (including the above points). Just like what Feng Qingyang said: no trick is better than a trick is the highest realm! So no matter who you pursue, don't be rigid with these methods, in fact, every girl has her own personality, not all girls are the same. One of my former girlfriends didn't like clean-cut guys and thought I looked best when I had a beard and smoked, it was hilarious. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, why don't you just go untaught yourself and pursue each girl with your heart?

Added

First of all, there are usually two reasons for this kind of invitation: one is that she has a boyfriend or a desired object, and she escapes to avoid the trouble and embarrassment of the two of them in the future, so you'd better give up because it's unlikely that anything will come out of it! The second is that she does not know if she likes you, but your behavior may have intimidated her, she feels overwhelmed, because the girl is always relative to the boy is slow to warm up some, not to mention that she does not necessarily like you! The more you try to pester her now the more you'll turn her off!

You need to figure out the situation first and then make your move! Don't get yourself stuck in a boring relationship that you can't get out of and end up hurting yourself.

I'll just single out the second scenario

Even though she's running away, she's going to feel sorry for you and for your piece of mind. But there's no way around it, she probably just wants to be left alone, and she's going to be resistant to whatever you text her right now and won't accept it!

I suggest you just give each other a little time to let her think about it! This time also adjust yourself, women like generous men with a sense of humor, the most important thing is to have a man's temperament, do not deliberately cater to her, which will make her feel that you do not have the main idea! And don't text her something like you're wrong, that makes you look even more foolish!

When she quiet down a period of time later (must be oh), send some funny text messages to her, show your humor, everything to pretend that you do not care very much, in fact, women are also possessive, the more you do not care about her, the more she feels that you have the depth of want to be with you.

With your charm to conquer her, rather than begging! Come on~~you can do it