How do you feel about the matter of divorce?

Divorce is a thing that requires courage and ability.

Divorce is a legal act in which the husband and wife dissolve their marriage and terminate the rights and obligations between them by agreement or litigation. Nowadays, although divorce is no longer like the past, but the divorce will give both spouses, especially the woman will bring a certain impact and psychological trauma, this is an indisputable fact.

A love, no end, inevitably upset. But really irretrievable, incorrigible, as well as learn to let go, give yourself and each other a chance to start again. Bravely admitting that a marriage has failed is more respectable than spending time in a dead marriage.

A sister I knew years ago couldn't face this fact after the two of them broke up. She went and tore up the mistress, and went to the man's flat to make trouble, and the two had become like enemies, but she just wouldn't get a divorce.

She said: "She just wants to consume them both. Let the little three life name is not right, let the man with her can only sneak." She did it, but hitching a ride on her own happiness and life.

It is not the divorce that is scary, but the stubbornness of burying one's life in a marriage that is already dead because of the fear of divorce. There are also women who have suffered in a marriage, do not dare to divorce, just do not have the ability to support themselves; there are also women who have long been dead to their own marriages, do not want to divorce, just afraid of other people to label themselves as a "failure" of the label.

They use children as an excuse, or self-anesthesia, the world of men are the same, so that they are stagnant in a hopeless marriage, wither and wither. If the marriage comes to an end, I think I'll be honest with my kids about the current situation, and they're actually more accepting than we'd like them to be.

When you are able to support yourself and have the ability to take control of your own life's direction, be brave enough to say goodbye to the past and welcome your new life.