The wedding to pay attention to what etiquette

Traditional marriage generally pay attention to the "three books and six rituals". The three books refer to the process of rituals in the exchange of documents, respectively, "book of appointment" (in the engagement to exchange), "book of rituals" (over the big gift exchange), "book of welcome" (to welcome the marriage by the male to the female). (handed over by the man to the woman when welcoming the bride). The six rites refer to the formalities from the proposal of marriage, matchmaking to the marriage ceremony and the consummation of the marriage, and include: (1) Settling the bed. A few days before the wedding, choose a good day, the new couple's new bed will be placed in the new room, the bedding, bed linen, and then laid on the dragon and phoenix quilt, quilt was sprinkled with a variety of fruits, such as peanuts, jujubes, cinnamon, lotus seeds, and so on, the new couple to give birth to a son early. (2) Cave. Old Li regulations, the groom's peers brothers can make a new room, the old people believe that "the new man does not make no hair, the more the more hair," and can be for the new man to drive away evil spirits, after the wedding as good luck. (3) Dowry. The dowry is a gift from the woman here, a symbol of the status and wealth of the woman's family. The dowry is sent to the husband's family no later than the day before the wedding. In addition to printed clothes, the dowry mainly consists of things that symbolize good omens, such as scissors (meaning butterflies fly together), spittoon (also known as a bucket for children and grandchildren), vase (meaning blossoming flowers), shoes (meaning white heads until old age), and rulers (meaning ten thousand tilings of good land). (4) Heads up. Pre-wedding ceremony, choose an auspicious day for men and women at home by combing the head of the woman comb, one side comb, one side said aloud: a comb to the end of the comb, the second comb comb to white hair, three comb comb to the children and grandchildren, four comb comb to the four silver shoots all standardized Qi. (5) Holding a red umbrella. The bride out of the mother's door, standing in the open air, sisters or bridesmaids in the bride's head open a red umbrella, meaning "open branches and spread leaves", and to the sky and the top of the umbrella material. (6) Mai-yam-bon. This is a sign of the red-hot days after the wedding. (7) Crossing the saddle. Harmony sends blessings and foretells a peaceful life for the two after marriage.

Traditional wedding, that is, the traditional way of marriage as the dominant wedding rituals. The biggest difference between it and the modern wedding is the welcome. Nowadays, this traditional way of wedding is still quite common in the countryside and even in most parts of the city. Typically, the groom, accompanied by the groomsmen and other attendants, travels by car to the bride's home to meet her. The procession starts by knocking repeatedly on the door of the bride's house, with children clamoring for red envelopes. When the bride's house is finally opened, the groom and guests are entertained and the bride is carried in a sedan chair or car. When the bride arrives at the man's house, firecrackers are fired. The master of ceremonies presides over the ceremony, and the newlyweds, surrounded by friends and relatives, pay homage to heaven and earth, to the high altar, and then to each other as husband and wife, and then send the groom and bride to the bridal chamber amidst the sound of firecrackers, and then after a short rest, the wedding banquet is held. Now the whole process is photographed and filmed, and then burned into a CD-ROM as a souvenir.

There are generally two places where wedding ceremonies are held: one is at home, and the other is in a hotel or other public **** place. In Fangda rural areas, almost without exception in the home wedding ceremony, the ceremony also still has a traditional-like please clan or village high prestige, good work presided over or participated. In addition, there are professional masters of ceremonies who specialize in organizing banquets on behalf of the host family. Weddings in the city are held in restaurants and other public **** places, in addition to at home. This way tends to split the welcoming and wedding ceremony, the wedding ceremony and happy feast. The base program is:

(1) Play festive music. The master of ceremonies announces the beginning of the wedding ceremony, and the bride and groom both step into the banquet hall with the sound of music.

(2) Bowing. According to the arrangement of the master of ceremonies, this ceremony is usually carried out in three levels: first, the bride and groom bow to their elders, relatives and friends; second, the bride and groom bow to each other; finally, the bride and groom bow to all the guests.

(3) Introducer's speech. The introducer can briefly introduce the two sides of the relationship, and wish the bride and groom happiness after marriage.

(4) The senior or parents speak. Can come to the side of no one or family and friends in the seniority, reputation of the higher people improvised speech, to congratulate the bride and groom.

(5) the newlyweds speech. If the bride and groom are not good at speech, can also be used as a workaround, to ask the bride and groom to sing a song to show appreciation for all the attendees.

(6) The party begins. The master of ceremonies or parents lead the bride and groom to toast to the guests, often from the main table. This is the end of the wedding ceremony.

2, travel wedding

New wedding ceremony is generally less affected by the family, but purely to the bride and groom as the center, and the traditional low rituals are very different.

Travel marriage is more prevalent in recent years the way to get married, for the majority of young people love. Tourism marriage itself in the way there are differences. Some travel marriages are nothing more than a follow-up movement to the aforementioned traditional wedding rituals; some travel is more pure, omitting the previous procedure. For newly married young people, traveling is more appropriate. Newly married men and women would like nothing more than to retail a world of independence for the two of them, and traveling provides just that. Newlyweds can not only rely on each other to get along, but also meteoric sightseeing, increase knowledge, cultivate temperament.

To hold a successful and enjoyable traveling marriage, the preparations beforehand should be done very carefully. To not affect the work and study, according to the two sides of the body, economic status and travel routes of the prime time, choose the itinerary and route. It is best to choose a travel route where both parties have never been and are interested in, otherwise they should try to take care of the woman. If the woman has enough travel opportunities in her work, of course, the man's wishes can also be the main. Route does not necessarily have to choose the tourist hot spots, a unique way is often more interesting and meaningful. In addition, it is also important to note that the schedule does not have to be too tight, because it is, after all, not just travel.

Generally, there should be a small welcoming ceremony for both families before the trip and on the return.

3, lawn weddings

Lawn weddings are characterized by: relaxation and romance, feel the freshness of nature, so that the sun, blue sky, green grass, gardens, water accompanied by a romantic life. The process of the wedding is largely: (1) poetic opening music; (2) the host of the opening speech; (3) the entrance of the newcomers; (4) the newcomers on stage, witnesses witnesses; (5) pronouncement of the vows, the exchange of tokens; (6) make a wish, drink a cup of wine; (7) to the parents of the thanksgiving, thank you to the guests; (8) to open the champagne, cut the year after (9) parents Xieng Khouang, to toast to the guests coming to the wedding. Hold a lawn wedding to pay attention to: (1) in order to fully let the newcomers and friends and relatives feel relaxed and romantic, friendly and natural atmosphere, it is best to choose the sound land is wider, green hills and green water surrounded by the resort; (2) the wedding planning and implementation of the whole to the wedding company; (3) in nature, with exquisite and not contrived flowers, balloons, sand mantle half of the point and the Hibiscus Bridal people carefully planned, the newcomers are sure to read the Princess, Prince-like Ganzhou.

4, collective wedding

Collective wedding refers to the organizer to come forward to organize, there are more than one pair of bride and groom at the same time to participate in the form of wedding. Collective wedding is in recent years our country to promote the wedding of new things, but also for many young men and women loved. This form of wedding, not wasteful and expensive and elegant, less program and has a commemorative significance.

The popular collective wedding is now self-organized, but more by the mass organizations to organize. Compared with traditional weddings, collective weddings are more ceremonial. The men and women attending the wedding are usually dressed up, mostly the groom in a suit, the bride in a beautiful wedding dress, flowers on the head, and the bride and groom wearing red flowers on their chests. The bride and groom wear red flowers on their chests, and all the other participants in the wedding are also dressed up. Wedding venue should also be arranged to celebrate the auspicious, generally on the front of the banner, write "so-and-so unit collective wedding" words, the following towel gold or red double happiness words. The venue should also be decorated with flowers, handicrafts and other decorations.

Collective weddings have fewer guests. Participants in addition to the bride and groom, occasionally some parents or relatives and friends on behalf of more youth colleagues and friends, unit leaders should also participate in congratulations. The specific scope and number of participants, by the organizers depending on the situation.

In the collective wedding, witnesses can also serve as the wedding master of ceremonies to preside over the marriage ceremony, the announcement of the procedure is roughly as follows:

(1) the host of the wedding ceremony began, the bride and groom in the "Wedding March" and enthusiastic applause into the venue (or by the seat of the standing up to focus), in the eyes of all celebrating guests, in the podium covered with flowers, fruit, sugar.

(2) Witnesses, local or grass-roots organizations concerned take their seats on the podium.

(3) The bride and groom bow to their parents and friends.

(4) The bride and groom bow to each other.

(5) The bride and groom bow to the witnesses, parties and guests present at the wedding.

(6) The witnesses or leaders make speeches. Generally, witnesses are invited to serve as local or grass-roots leaders. In their speeches, they should congratulate the newlyweds and put forward a good hope. The speech should be simple, concise and enthusiastic.

(7) Parents' representative speech. A representative of the parents attending the collective wedding can be chosen in advance to express their wishes and expectations for the next generation and their gratitude to the leaders for organizing the collective wedding.

(8) the newlyweds on behalf of the speech. The content is mainly to thank the collage relatives and friends to attend the wedding, and show the newlyweds' determination to study and work in the future.

(9) Gift-giving. The unit hosting the collective wedding presents the newlyweds with souvenirs, usually books, frames, and other items of commemorative significance.

(10) Hold a dance or recreational activities. At this point, the wedding is over.