What is the wedding custom in Liaoning Province? What are the details?

Northeastern wedding information is rich-this statement is somewhat inaccurate. It should be said that the wedding information of Han people in Northeast China is rich. Learn from others' strengths. There is a nation, young men and women who love each other, dancing among the green mountains and green waters with long-mouthed instruments. Northeasters are not like this. Northeasters must take a bus. I don't have a car, rent a car, rent a car, and row from one end of the street to the other to commemorate the ancient sedan chair. The Millennium suona is still playing, and the modern sound is rumbling. Instead of yangko, the wedding March has been played many times, and the foreign flavor is no longer recognized. Eating longevity noodles seems to be the custom of Manchu; Wearing a wedding dress, it's time for the west wind to spread eastward again. When Manchu entered the Central Plains, Manchu customs also spread. Over time, the Han people took these customs for themselves. Wedding dress, I don't know if there is only one kind of white in the west, but we already have red here. For many years, brides often wear a red wedding dress, and their heads are broken and red, as if they were going to dance Yangko. This kind of dressing has become more and more boring for later youth. A brave girl dares to wear a wedding dress, and it is white. The wedding dress is strange, but it has the effect of a leather jacket. Fat people dress fatter, and thin people dress thinner. When it comes to weddings, both parents have to talk. Some parents may be standing behind the microphone for the first time in their lives, speaking in front of so many people, nervous but excited, for fear that they will not speak thoroughly, so they should say more. The following people sat and listened for a long time, mostly listening to some beautiful, happy and auspicious wishes, wishing the young couple love and grow old together. But listen carefully, there is also a needle pointing at Maimanger. The man's parents want his son to be diligent and considerate, treat his wife well and honor his parents-in-law. The woman's parents also hope that the daughter can properly handle family relations and get the love of the man's parents. In fact, this is also for the other side, but the elderly on both sides are deeply worried about whether this newly established family is strong. The people on the stage are full of worries like philosophers, and they don't forget to thank all the guests when they are worried. Of course, the audience came with money. Besides, it is not easy for everyone to travel thousands of miles in the season of freezing or unbearable heat. At a wedding, I heard someone exaggerating: "I'm from Canada." Another person said, "I arrived here early in the morning, shivering with cold." There must be witnesses. This is a convention inherited from the Republic of China. As Liang Shiqiu said, the witness "is mostly the head of an organ or something." In addition to punctuation marks, the witness played by the head of the institution read two marriage certificates word for word. This should be to prove that the marriage relationship between husband and wife is approved by the relevant departments. Wedding gift exchange. The groom carefully took it out of a small box, and the bride carefully took it out of another small box. What did she take out? These are two small metal rings, Huang Chengcheng, or bright white, worn on each other's fingers. You must drink a glass of wine. The wine is red, which goes well with the festive atmosphere. The cup is as thick as a bowl, as high as the tower held by Li Jing, and his arm is covered with drinks. Some people worry: have you never drunk the bride and groom in these two glasses of wine? Looking intently, the bride and groom just sipped a thin layer and didn't drink it all. There are two lines in the Beijing opera "Flowers as Media": "I have drunk acacia wine and worshipped the goddess of the west." Acacia wine is a toast. Brewing a glass of wine has a long history. The Book of Rites records: "* * * Eat in prison, marry and die." This "marriage" refers to a toast. There is a detailed explanation in Wang Dechen's History of Dust in the Song Dynasty: "The ancients married their wives, and now they are also connected by colored silk cups. When couples pass wine, they call it a cup. " After drinking a glass of wine, it is another bow. Bow three times, once and again, to both parents, to witnesses and references, to all guests. Every wedding, there must be a master of ceremonies, now called the host. There are two kinds of hosts, simple ones, one is to worship heaven and earth, the other is to worship Gaotang, and the husband and wife are to worship, and * * * can enter the bridal chamber. Complex, to host the ceremony, while gagging, humorous ridicule, there are always a lot of rap, embarrassing the couple, making the guests laugh, the bride and groom are like puppets, and the host becomes the protagonist. The host, like the successor of the country, must be carefully selected. Being too serious and stupid will make the scene dull, dull, too comedy and too funny, and it will also make the scene shallow and vulgar, just as Liang Shiqiu said: "Long is long, but heavy is not heavy." The host's job is really hard to do. "The wedding of a man and a woman begins now." That's not true. The ancient book says, "What is a married person? Salute when you are unconscious, so it is called marriage. " In ancient times, the word "marriage" already included the word "ceremony". This does not prevent the wedding ceremony from still being called a wedding. But when the bride and groom face many guests, the wedding doesn't start. It can be said that in the northeast, the groom marries the bride at the woman's house. The wedding starts from the other side of the cornucopia, hangs the curtains and sits on the bed. Next, the parents of the bride and groom speak. That's not right either. Someone in the audience looked up and looked around. According to the northeast custom, the bride's mother can't attend the wedding. The wedding of a gentleman and a lady is now over. That's not true. Never eaten pork, never seen pigs walk? The next item of the wedding is that all the guests eat and drink. At this time, the groom was wearing a hot suit, and the bride was wearing a red dress, and her head was broken and she began to propose a toast on the table. This moment is probably the most United time for the bride and groom in their lives. They stood shoulder to shoulder, back to back, as if to deal with the enemies coming from all directions, bowed to Qiansun Zhaoli and toasted Zhou Wuwang, as if they had done something wrong to everyone. The wedding of the northeast people is the most in line with the world. Having a noisy room is a hobby of many people. It is said that it used to be a riot, but now it has risen to a riot. And the oldest is that the wedding will last until the third day after the wedding. This is the most humane thing in a wedding. After getting married, I have to return my daughter who has been raised for many years and give it to others at once. My parents' hearts are always empty. Three days later, the daughter led her new son-in-law back to visit, which was also a comfort to the old man. In the future, they will live by themselves.