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Example 1
China people's communication art
About the connotation of China culture, someone once summed it up with such a wo
Read the complete works of traditional cultural inheritors
Example 1
China people's communication art
About the connotation of China culture, someone once summed it up with such a wo
Example 1
China people's communication art
About the connotation of China culture, someone once summed it up with such a word-"stupid", not good at words or expression, and even a virtue in the hearts of China people. Thus came the old adage that "a gentleman talks but doesn't do it" and "keep his mouth shut", and the proverb that "silence is golden" and "disaster comes from his mouth".
In the eyes of the ancients, making friends should not be rash. You must observe their words, observe their colors and investigate their hearts before you can make friends. This brings inconvenience to communication. Everyone is modest and cautious, afraid to tell the truth, and they are all long pleasantries when they meet, just like the word "person" in the bronze inscription, which is displayed sideways. No one knows what the other person is thinking, and no one is willing to confide in the other person. When the highest state is "Wei Yun Lianjiang", the speech is sparse and fluent, touching the bones, not hurting people or humiliating themselves, and the listener is comfortable but unaware of the slightest affectation. Therefore, the ancients often lamented that bosom friends were hard to find. It is not surprising that Zhong Ziqi stopped playing the drum piano after Boya's death.
The "stupidity" of China people actually inherited the "hidden" cultural heritage. There is a saying in ancient literary theory that "the antelope hangs on the horn, and there is no trace to be found", while Chinese painting pays attention to the technique of leaving blank space, just like "fishing alone in the cold" There is only one boat, no mountains, no water, no clouds in May, but it gives people an association of "thinking about people, water and clouds are cold" and receives an effect of "silence is better than sound". For another example, in the Tang Dynasty, Zhang Ji wrote in "Female Fu" that he didn't want to serve with his life, but said "I think you gave me a pair of pearls" and finally said "I hate not meeting and not marrying" against my will. Not only can Li not take this opportunity to vent his anger, he even has to pretend to sigh and cry. He is not good at poetry and lyrics, and he can't say anything. He can only put on a big hat of "modesty and honesty" by telling his ambition. So China made another proverb: "Read more and talk less." When I get along with people, people insult me. The noblest thing is still to remain silent, or Wang Cai and Henry laugh without getting angry. Predecessors have long summed up the experience that "a little tolerance leads to great mischief".
The communication art that China people are best at is full of twists and turns. Most of the gentlest reproaches and the most comfortable exhortations come from China people, and even the two sides are angry and arguing, jealous and angry, and the words they export are also an invisible sword that "refers to mulberry and scolds" without touching dirty words, but hurts people deeply. From the form of expression, it seems that the ancient people in China never swore love downstairs in Juliet's house like Romeo, and all the girls "left shyly when they met strangers." . Men in China even think that "beauty depends on shade".
Is China people's communication art a success or a failure? In my opinion, if we get rid of that hypocrisy and triteness and keep the essence of being kind to others, our communication will still be a beautiful and rare art in this world.
Comments: While talking about "the communication art of China people", the article shows the author's artistic and cultural background. Implication is an important part of China culture. Poetry pays attention to implication, painting pays attention to the expression of images, and regards human implication as a virtue, which is called cultivation. Because of this, this paper discusses the "implicit" artistry of China people in communication, and explores its roots. The author has a clear understanding of the results of this cultural inheritance.
Moreover, when discussing traditional culture, the author adopts a dialectical attitude and is persuasive. It is rare for a middle school student to have such a pertinent understanding and attitude towards China culture!
Example 2
Wang Cai and Henry
Henry is an American dog. Since he was a child, he has dealt with people with yellow hair and high nose, and naturally learned some styles of American old people. Wang Cai is a China dog. With its owner in China for a long time, it certainly has some characteristics of China.
( 1)
One day, China dog Wang Cai met American dog Henry. As soon as Wang Cai saw Henry, he immediately thought, "Oh, this guy is an outstanding American dog. I have to watch him. " So Wang Cai wagged his tail at Henry. But Henry looked at Wang Cai and thought, "Hum, ugly and stupid China dog, I don't care!" So Henry held his head high and dismissed Wang Caihuan's fast tail.
-China dogs are modest but accustomed to pandering, while American dogs are conceited but too frivolous.
(2)
During the running, Henry and Wang Cai collided with each other and fell to the ground. When he stood up, Henry habitually said "I'm sorry". So Wang Cai, who had a fire in his heart, immediately apologized: "Why mention it? Actually, I accidentally bumped into you ... "Henry immediately took it and said in a lesson tone," Never mind, just watch the road next time. " Say that finish very gentleman to shake the dust and roared off, leaving Wang Cai speechless to stay put. ...
-American dogs occasionally politely lure others to be fooled, while China dogs often take others' "courtesy" to themselves as a kind of capital and pride, so they are often fooled.
(3)
Henry and Wang Cai went to the forest together. Wang Cai caught a hare first, so it shouted triumphantly and asked Henry to come and share it with him. Later, Henry also caught a hare, but when Wang Cai came to share it, Henry unexpectedly put forward a condition that he must pay back the money the next time he was hunted.
-China dogs often give their hard-won fruits of labor to others for free when they show off, while American dogs are relatively conservative and often ask for due rewards in transactions.
(4)
Wang Cai followed Henry's example and asked Henry to get a copy when he was chased. So Henry sighed helplessly after being hunted again, but he had to agree to Wang Cai's enjoyment, and Wang Cai had secretly enjoyed his prey once before.
-China dogs will pick up some petty advantages when they break their promises, but American dogs always seem to be able to do it after they promise something.
(5)
There are also contradictions between Henry and Wang Cai.
Henry often bullies weak dogs with his big horse. Wang Cai often criticizes angrily, and sometimes his words are quite fierce. But Henry didn't care and went his own way.
Wang Cai often quarrels with other dogs because of interests. At this time, Henry will be arrogant until the two sides stop fighting (in fact, Wang Cai is suffocating).
American dogs have learned to profit from fighting, but China's dogs always seem to be gentlemen.
(6)
After staying together for a long time, Henry revealed a little worry to Wang Cai: getting along with people is very restrictive, so it is better to return to the dogs and be free and happy. On the other hand, Wang Cai thinks that living in harmony with others, eating, drinking and having fun is enough.
-American dogs always keep a little "wild", while China dogs have long been enslaved.
Comments: This is a very creative composition. The author's sketches like "Throwing Dagger" are well-spoken, humorous, with distinctive dog names, flexible ideas and full of tension. The description and discussion in the six clips clearly show Wang Cai's humility, blind credulity, stupidity, honesty, taking advantage of petty advantages, arguing for words and striving for comfort, and Henry's arrogant, frivolous, cunning, changeable, demanding rewards, keeping his word, bullying the weak and fearing the hard, and pursuing freedom. This article takes dogs as a metaphor and actually describes the differences between Chinese and western human nature.
Writing Tip: The opinions in the topic are basically the opposite. We can choose any one of them to illustrate our point of view; We can also make an overall evaluation from a historical perspective. The scope of traditional culture is very large, and if it is generalized, it will be very empty. It's best to choose one or two aspects to talk about in detail, so it's easy to highlight the key points. Culture is always the same as before, so writing should not be absolute, we should see the development and changes of culture. In other words, our perspective should be narrowed to one point and expanded to the whole cultural level.
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