What are the disadvantages of traditional family parent education in China?

Every country in the world has its advantages in family education, but there are also some places that need to be improved. Traditional family education in China has trained many excellent talents, such as Mencius and Yue Fei, but there are also some disadvantages in family education in China.

1. Overindulgence: At present, there are six adults and one or two children in the family. Many parents intentionally or unintentionally spoil, accommodate and spoil their children and become "little emperors" at home, obedient. This kind of doting does not really love children, but may harm them. Too much doting on children can easily make children develop such characters as pride, willfulness, selfishness, vanity and loneliness, which will lead to anti-social bad behavior and even bring misfortune to families.

2. Overcontrol: This kind of parents have a sense of authority. Children have to listen to their parents in everything, blindly directing education, which seriously stifles their self-esteem, self-confidence, persistence and innovation ability.

3, material supremacy: material stimulation is a unique killer for many parents, such as full marks in test scores, giving material rewards, feeling that learning is for parents, and does not really stimulate children's internal motivation.

4. Cudgel education: Some parents are still pursuing so-called "wise sayings" such as "defeat the enemy without fighting" and "filial son under the cudgel", but in fact they ignore communication with their children, making them more prone to rebellious psychology.

5. Ambiguous goals: Many parents in China lack foresight and stage for their children's future education model and direction, and do not help their children set their own goals and directions in life, so their children are not motivated enough. ?

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