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Women chasing men how to chase? What are the methods?

Although it is said that women chasing men, separated by a veil. However, the veil is easy to break, but not for long ah.

Women chasing men is a more difficult thing, and if you chase the need to be particularly skillful to deal with, in order to get a good result. If you simply chase, at best it will invite a brief relationship, but it will end up with the girl chasing the boy, the boy leaving the girl, the boy giving very little, the girl giving a lot of such results.

Because after all, the most appropriate way to go about it is still boys chasing girls. This is the nature of boys, but also the embodiment of the value of girls. If the other way around, it means that it is the girl's value in the marriage market is relatively low, the male is higher, so do not hesitate to go to the price reduction sales. Then if you really want to chase, how to do it?

First, establish contact with him. In all ways the more natural the better. What channel did you meet him through, you can create a natural scenario through the same channel or other channels, so that you know his contact information, so as to establish a connection.

The second step, after having contact, must be reserved, do not come up to take the initiative too much to express, especially more do not come up to rush to express their feelings of love, must first be stable. Normalize the way to establish contact with you, so that he thought it was just by chance or a very common exchange.

The third step, after the day to increase some exposure, such as appearing in front of him or in his circle of friends. But also must control the number of times, and to improve the quality to show your advantages, some of your unique place. Only when he began to be more familiar with you, there is the possibility of going down the road.

The fourth step, if you really come together, both sides have been able to communicate more normally and freely, after you can go to him to show the availability, that is to say, let him know that you are single. And through your natural and humorous compliments to him, let him know that in your heart he is in a very high position, as long as he is willing, you are also likely to say yes to him.

If so and so he found that the girl itself is also very different, on their own is also interested in, later will pay more attention to you, maybe one day chat good, will ask you out. And then go through other steps to cultivate your good feelings.

But note that, after so much effort and time, it is only to cultivate goodwill this step, after all, after the road are needed to lead it. If he doesn't get to that step, please be patient some more.

In fact, when you improve yourself, you will find that your options are also on the rise, and your image in the hearts of others will become better and better, so that there will be more and better people to pursue you. At that point, maybe you're wondering why you pursued him so hard in the first place.

So no matter what, improving yourself is the way to go. ?

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