Unmarried girls must see 15 tips.

First, be careful when marrying the following five kinds of boys!

1. Be careful when marrying a boy with a heavy virgin complex.

Boys with heavy virginity complex are possessive, and it is easy to ridicule and insult girls because they are not virgins after marriage. Such boys have a deep-rooted psychology that men are superior to women, do not recognize women's sexual needs, and generally insist on having sons. You can ask him what to do if he is raped. If he shows a little chastity is more important than your life, please break up at once.

Be careful when you marry a boy who is flustered when talking about bride price.

In a good marriage, you must be generous when talking about money. When you talk about money, you turn your face. Such a boy can't be willing to invest for you after marriage. If the man's financial condition is not particularly poor, he should give the bride price according to the local average level, not too much and not too low. Marriage is maintained by emotion and material things. Marriage without money is fragile.

Be careful when marrying a boy who likes coquettish.

If the man often chats with female colleagues and classmates or keeps regular greetings with his ex-girlfriend, then you must be careful. In fact, coquetry is also eager to move, but there is no chance of derailment. He may love you very much, but you should realize that such a boy is not yours after all.

Be careful when marrying a violent boy.

Such boys generally can't control their emotions, and it's easy to fly into a rage for a little thing. At first, he was afraid to hit you. He will test your bottom line by insulting and throwing things. Once you don't resist and leave, he will intensify in his later life and easily punch and kick you. Please cherish life and stay away from domestic violence men. We were born to be loved and given love, not to be beaten.

Be careful when marrying a boy who doesn't want to make progress.

Personal career planning is chaotic, I don't want to make progress, refuse to learn, don't want to suffer, and always think about being small and broad. Or broken cans and broken falls, muddle along, regardless of family difficulties, but also euphemistically called contentment. It is difficult for such a boy to give you and your children a stable guarantee, and it is very likely that you will need to earn money to support your family in the future. Boys can be poor, but not poor. You can marry a boy who has no money, but you can't marry a boy who has never had money.

Second, five things that must be done before marriage!

1. Have a job to support themselves.

The economic base determines the superstructure. After you have the ability to support yourself, you will probably meet someone more suitable. There are only two kinds of women in this world who don't need to make money at all. One was imprisoned and the other lived in Arabia. Attachment to another person's relationship will slowly consume your self-esteem and vitality. The word "I support you" probably means finding a free full-time nanny.

Meet his parents.

Marriage is the union of two families. Never underestimate the influence of in-laws on your married life. If you have a bad personality and are difficult to get along with, it is recommended to give up this family. If you disagree with them, life will be very painful. The way he gets along with his parents is probably the way he will get along with you in the future. If his father orders his mother around, and women are in a low position in the family, so is your future fate.

Verify each other's health.

If the other party conceals his serious illness, even if the court later decides that the marriage is invalid, the harm caused to the woman will not help. Don't let the other person say, "It's too much trouble to go to the hospital." If you really respect each other, you should take the initiative to have a physical examination! Pre-marital physical examination takes at most one morning, so let's go together on a weekend.

Check each other's marriage and childbearing history

Add a license to Alipay's "National Government Service Platform" and you can find out whether he is married or divorced. If the other party is really divorced, you must go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to check the divorce agreement you filed and whether there is a large compensation for your ex-wife.

Check each other's credit.

If you find that there is an online loan APP in the other party's mobile phone, then the girls must polish their eyes. "China Executive Information Open Network" can check whether the other party is Lao Lai. The national enterprise credit information publicity system can query other companies. "Xue Xin. Com "can check whether the other party's education is fraudulent. "China Judgment Document Network" can inquire whether the other party has a criminal record. "Net Letter Big Data Credit Report" can play a role in preventing arrears. You can also ask the other party to print a credit report in the bank, which will record the loan situation, overdue situation, some online loans and the implementation of the other party in detail. If the other party hides the debt, then the marriage becomes a nightmare directly.

Three or five things you should never do before you get married!

1. Don't get pregnant before marriage.

Once you get pregnant before marriage, you will not only be laughed at by your husband's family, but also lose the initiative of the wedding and bride price! As long as the other party has been dragging on not getting married, you can always break through your bottom line. Once you don't want to get married, you have to bear the consequences yourself. Therefore, no matter how hard boys work, girls should stick to their bottom line. Countless bloody lessons tell us that women don't know that pregnancy is the most deadly!

Don't spend money to decorate each other's house.

Don't decorate the man's wedding room unless your name is written on the real estate license. 20w decoration before marriage may depreciate to only 5w at the time of divorce. You can discuss with your husband's family and convert the decoration money into the purchase money, which is reflected in the housing share. Don't let men go out, and don't let women get off. Because houses are appreciating, cars have been depreciating.

Don't be too enthusiastic about in-laws' housework.

Go to the man's house before marriage, don't invite! Please don't! Please don't! Say the important words three times. Otherwise, it will make your husband's family think that you are going to get married upside down and won't get their respect and love. Be very cautious about the parents-in-law who let the girls wash the dishes when they meet for the first time, because they not only don't respect the guests, but also think that it is natural for their daughter-in-law to work. After marrying into such a family, you will inevitably suffer a lot of grievances.

Don't spend the night at your husband's house before marriage.

Influenced by China's traditional culture, this will make girls show an unpretentious image, which is easy to degrade themselves. If, for some reason, it is necessary to spend the night at the in-laws' house, then both men and women must sleep in separate beds, and it is forbidden to applaud for love that night.

5. Don't pass on negative comments from parents.

If your parents have some negative feelings about your husband's family, nag you, don't tell the man foolishly. No one likes to hear others criticize their family, let alone their future parents-in-law! It's easy for the man to think that you look down on them and will be hostile to your family. What your parents said to you, you just need to keep it in mind, analyze it carefully, ponder it carefully, and don't come clean! There are many such silly girls!