The concept of marriage and love

I Ching Zagua said that "salty" is fast and "constant" is long. In the Book of Changes, "salty" stands for love and "constant" stands for marriage. Love comes and goes quickly; Marriage is a long-term thing. "The ancients thought that love is like a tornado, which comes quickly and goes quickly; But marriage is a lifetime thing. " Saltiness is an unintentional feeling, that is to say, love is a feeling, but this feeling can not be mixed with all kinds of thoughts, let alone ulterior motives. Come when you say it, and leave when you say it. "Heng" is an eternal intention, that is, marriage needs to be managed with care all the time, and only in this way can it last for a long time.

The ancient concept of love and marriage, love has no reason and no reason, and can not be mixed with any impure motives. If you are smart and take the opportunity to seek some benefits, then nothing can be called true love. But the characteristic of love is to come when you say it, and leave when you say it. So girl, stop asking him why he doesn't love you. He loves you less than he loves you. Married life is sweet at first, but if you want to go longer and further, you must manage it with your heart. But people nowadays, on the contrary, try their best to make each other like themselves and try their best to catch up with each other, but after being together, they can sit back and relax and stop operating with their heart. Euphemistically called: if the fish is hooked, you don't have to feed the fish anymore. Is it unreasonable to break up like this? Can the divorce rate be low?

This is an ancient view of love and marriage, do you agree? Finally, may all love in the world go to marriage, and may all marriages begin with love.

An engineering woman who likes traditional culture and loves to think about life.

? About the author: Min Min, a resident writer in Mei Wen, Zi Han, is a female doctor of engineering. She likes traditional culture and loves to think about life.