Write an argumentative essay on what is the most worthwhile traditional virtue to be promoted and carried forward nowadays

The sky shelters every cloud, whether the clouds are beautiful or ugly, so the sky can be vast; mountains shelters every rock, whether the rock is huge or small, so the mountains can be majestic; the sea shelters every wave, whether the wave is clear and fresh or turbid, so the sea can be vast.　This is tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, is the most people can move a quality.　In the competitive modern society, bumping into things is inevitable. We are in the social interaction, suffer losses, be misunderstood, aggrieved things are also often happen. Of course we hope not to encounter these things, but once it happens, the wisest choice is tolerance. Tolerance not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows the temperament and broad-mindedness, strength and power. Tolerance is other people, but to their own happiness. Many people have changed their lives because of tolerance.　Tolerance for themselves, don't be too harsh on themselves, strict discipline, leniency, this is the code we abide by. Therefore, some people think that tolerance for others on the line, but to be harsh on themselves, to always tell themselves, must work hard and hard again, absolutely not allow themselves to make a slight error. If the slightest mistake, you can not forgive yourself, live all day in self-blame and guilt, can not come out of the shadow they set for themselves, do not dare to make new attempts, so that the person's whole life will be over.　In fact, we do not have to be like this, because after all, we are not saints, nor gods, there is no need to think of themselves as so important. Some things are in the past, let it be in the past, unnecessary grudges will not help. Our whole life is in the mistakes in the crawling over, mistakes are not all meaningless, at least it allows us to learn a lesson, so as not to make the same mistake the second time. That being the case, we shouldn't dwell on the mistake itself and ruin our future.　People make mistakes, horses lose their hooves, and once you are wrong, do you really want to put an invisible shackle on your mind? In order to continue to fulfill their own values, we must be sensible, decisively tear away that old calendar, and then go to seek a new self, a new joy. To understand that a person must first know how to treat themselves, in order to better treat others. If you don't even love and respect yourself, treating others well becomes a bubble, an empty word.　Don't be too harsh on yourself, not only in the face and tolerance of their own faults, but also should be shown in we should be appropriate to give themselves a vacation, do not push themselves too tight in everything, the time to relax relax, why bother to make things difficult for themselves?　Some people know how to forgive themselves, so they live a very happy life; there are also some people for a small fault on the worry, suffering, such a life is a little low, a little regret. If life is a painting for you to color, can you bear to let it be full of gray? People who know how to color, must be people who know how to live, and must be happy people. Treat yourself well, tolerate yourself, in order to make yourself happy, only living, we must know that living and living can never be equal, and live happily is the real living.　Busy people, please slow down your pace, enjoy the beautiful scenery around; nervous people, please listen to music, soothe your taut nerves. Don't always bury your head in your studies in order to get first place, and don't always work your ass off to get ahead. If you have any wishes, try to realize them and don't suffer yourself. Working hard and studying is supposed to make us live a little better, so why do we have to live so tired? Don't be too harsh on yourself, you will find how beautiful life is.