Under the stick comes a dutiful son. What's the next sentence?

Source: Folk Proverbs

Bonzi family education is a kind of educational method opposite to honey-juice family education. In some families, parents' arrogance towards their children leads to their weak psychological endurance, and some even lose their basic viability.

In this situation, the traditional "stick education" rises, and the strict education model of "wolf father and tiger mother" is sought after. As the saying goes, "A dutiful son is born under a stick", and in ancient China, some so-called "dutiful sons" were indeed educated by this way of education. In China, this is a universally recognized education method in both urban and rural areas.

Extended data:

The reason why the bonzi tutor appeared:

1 imitate

After the implementation of the family planning policy, many families are only children, so the education of children has become a big problem. Under the doting education, parents have cultivated a group of "little emperors" and "little princesses" who are too self-centered and can't stand any setbacks. Since 265438+the beginning of the 20th century, there has been another educational model that goes against the trend: "fierce education".

That is, either the father or the mother is very cruel to the children, and the discipline is extremely strict. The education method is mainly corporal punishment education. A number of "wolf fathers" and "tiger mothers" have emerged. However, their appearance also has its own remarkable success as capital: Xiao Baiyou, the "Wolf Dad", sent three children to Peking University by "beating" education.

"Tiger Mom" Chua Meier used curses, threats, bribes, inducements and other means to ask her children to work hard along the path chosen by their parents, and finally sent them to Harvard. They are so famous that parents seem to see hope and follow suit.

2. Tradition

In the eyes of some people, stick education is an "old tradition", because their parents educated him in this way, so they think this kind of education is good and feasible.

3. Domestic violence

When it comes to "domestic violence", many people first think that it will happen between husband and wife, but they often ignore this "stick-like" family education between parents and children. Some mothers are both abusers and victims, because their husbands' long-term violence may lead them to unconsciously pass on their anger to their daughters.

For such families with violent family members, the local community should provide individual family psychological counseling.

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