There is a traditional cultural education called arrogance.

Working in the field of traditional culture and education for many years, I often meet people who are extremely unsuitable. They teach people to learn traditional culture and how to be polite and educated. I admired them at first, but gradually people were reluctant to approach and wanted to stay away, especially those who talked about disciples and Confucian etiquette and how to build a "disciple family", because every time they listened to their lectures, they followed suit. The more I listen to it, the more ashamed I feel, the more I feel ugly, the more stressed I feel, and I can't breathe. The more I listen, the more I want to escape, and the more I want to escape that moral pressure!

Look at those teachers, they should normally dress up and live the same life as us, but when they stand on the educational platform of traditional culture, they are all like saints for a moment. They are modest and polite, standardized and polite, and always feel that something is wrong and there is nothing wrong with them.

But I always feel that there is a huge psychological pressure, a moral pressure from them-they stand on the moral commanding heights of social ethics, comment on the whole society, comment on the audience below, and in their normal living habits, suddenly interrupt to tell us that you are not doing this right, pointing out that you are not doing that right, saying this, not saying that, sitting like this, not sitting like that ... Is this my home that I have lived in for decades? When I get home, I just want to lie on the sofa, watch TV, play with my mobile phone and chat for a while. After a day's work, I just want to lie down and be decadent, okay? How come I became so dirty after listening to your lecture? It seems that my conduct is low and I am dirty.

After listening to their lectures, I seem to really see the "Marxist-Leninist old lady", "Notre Dame bitch" and the forever great, glorious and correct mother-in-law. In front of them, you can only be a little wife with tail between your legs forever, and live forever as if you feel that you have done something shameful and obscene.

This is the feeling after listening to some lectures by traditional culture educators. I saw their deep arrogance. They scanned the souls they thought were dirty under our skin with contemptuous eyes. I am deeply saddened by this, because they are the ones who ultimately destroy traditional culture. Standing on the moral high ground, they will never enter the normal crowd again.

Traditional culture is to make modern people's life more comfortable, pleasant and quality, rather than to make modern people with fast pace of life and high work pressure live in shame, bondage and pressure.