The central bank warned that the decay rate of census results may be beyond imagination. Is the central bank's forecast possible?

In April, 20021year, China will publish the results of the population census, which is also the result that the people of the whole country and all walks of life are eagerly awaiting. The central bank issued a document saying that China's population will decline faster than expected, and it is suggested to fully open up and encourage childbearing, so as to effectively solve women's difficulties in pregnancy, childbirth, nursery and school.

Many people have doubts about this proposal. After all, China has a large population base, and changes in the minds of a few people should not lead to a rapid population decline. However, I think the central bank's forecast is possible. Nowadays, young people have several problems: they dare not have children, can't have children, and don't want to have children. Let me talk about the possibility of the central bank's forecast from these angles.

The financial pressure of not daring to have children, let's calculate the account of getting married and having children: based on the ordinary expenses of second-tier cities, regardless of the blind date and gift-giving expenses during love, the down payment for the house is 200,000, the down payment for the car is 50,000, and the wedding expenses such as wedding banquet, wedding photo and wedding car are 50,000, with an average bride price of 50,000 in each region. Daughter-in-law hasn't married into the house yet, and that 350 thousand has been spent. How many years does a family save 350 thousand?

Let's talk about the cost of childbirth. The nutrition during pregnancy is 30,000 yuan, the natural childbirth is 20,000 yuan (someone can reimburse it), and the postpartum maintenance is 30,000 yuan.

The family's savings have all been spent, and the young couple have to bear the mortgage and car loan. Children's education funds only need to watch various parenting TV dramas to know how much.

Just calculate a simple account, how many people have avoided it, and such a huge economic pressure will not only make the couple snuggle up to keep warm, but also make the already difficult life worse. For more ordinary people, marriage is not about two people working for the same family, but reducing their quality of life to carry on the family line.

Time cost of infertility China's labor law does protect the rights and interests of workers. How many people can really enjoy the protection brought by the labor law? Except for a few people who work in regular large enterprises and state-owned enterprises, most people can't even implement five insurances and one gold, let alone the so-called maternity leave.

Pregnancy is unemployment-this is a true portrayal of most workers. During the period of delivery and the first year or two after the birth of the child, most women can't work with peace of mind and can only stay at home with their children. Even if they go out to work, they are not worried about their future, but the financial pressure of their families forces them to go out to make money.

Pregnant women not only have to spend a lot of money on childbirth and children, but also bear the pressure of their careers. After all, most women will be excluded and questioned after returning to the workplace after giving birth.

Starting from China's traditional thought, most of the responsibilities of family parenting are placed on women, who are under the pressure of the workplace and worried that they will be abandoned by society; While bearing the pressure of parenting, it is also called "widowed marriage" and "widowed parenting". Going out to work will be accused of running away from home, and staying at home to sacrifice social value for the family is also said to enjoy the happiness at home and spend her husband's money. How many women are not wronged by this statement?

Why don't young people want to have children? For fear of not handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both husband's family and mother's family regard themselves as outsiders; Because I am afraid that when the concept of parenting conflicts with my elders, my husband will always stand on the side of her mother-in-law; Because I am afraid that I regard my child as the most important thing in my life, I am afraid of hearing news about children such as "fake vaccines"; Because he is afraid to work hard for his family, his husband is gathering outside and splitting a United Nations.

Our parents are just too confused and confused all their lives. Our generation is just too smart, and all decisions are made after weighing the pros and cons and thinking clearly. Young people are willing to be brainwashed by all kinds of poisonous chicken soup on the internet, and they are not willing to go to the besieged city of marriage to see if the city is a flower or a spark.

Repeat the same thing every day, following the same routine as yesterday. If we can avoid intense joy, there will naturally be no such sadness.

We avoided the attack of sadness when we could choose, and also missed the fierce joy. I think young people nowadays are more like a salted fish. They already know that they can't escape the beating of society, and they just want to go with the flow and never die.

Whether childbearing is social responsibility or self-choice is a joke on the Internet. Same-sex love is true love, while opposite-sex love is only for reproduction. Think about the current marriage and child-bearing policies, which make divorce more and more difficult. I don't know when it started. It seems that marriage is really just for social reproduction.

We are just one of the most common people. A person's decision can't affect the whole historical change, but everyone's barren concept will subvert a civilization. Turn your head and think about it. A hundred years of life, dust to dust, soil to soil in a blink of an eye.

Whether or not to have children is a personal wish, and every choice should be respected.