Marriage in the woman should not make the most mistakes is the word patience!

Many women, once the marriage problems will choose to endure, however, will not change the marriage calm and happy long. Women as a virtue of patience, as a great feat of self-sacrifice for parents, children, men take the woman's patience as a shield, again and again, again and again, the attack on the woman's bottom line.

The problem in the marriage is to resolve, is to forget, is to miss, rather than silt cover themselves, lie to themselves. Simply rely on one side of the passion or repeatedly back, there is no way to make the relationship sweet, endure a moment, but can not endure a lifetime.

To understand, a marriage, the woman's patience, not marriage life-saving grass, but chronic suicide.

Concealment, a tumor in the marriage

Concealment, like a tumor in the marriage, with the passing of the day and the gradual proliferation of the last nerve until the oppression of the woman.

Girlfriend Yun Yun sent me a few photos of her head and neck with bruises, and it looked like she was being domestically abused.

My girlfriend Yun Yun sent me a few pictures of her head and neck with bruises.

Yun Yun, since childhood, is the mother's eyes "other people's daughter", not only good-looking, and well-behaved, parents are not at home, always clean up the home like, has been the mother of my education example.

Later, Yun Yun talked about a boyfriend, the man's family did not have a house, but Yun Yun still chose to marry him, she said: "Love is more important than the house." After marriage, her husband loved her, although living in a rented room, but the days were also two people have a taste, especially the arrival of the daughter, so that this small home is to add a few points of warmth.

But all the good ultimately can not resist the years of wastage, "he has someone outside, this is not the first time for the woman with me hands. I have thought about divorce, but my daughter is so small, I can't be selfish and live only for myself." Like other women, Yun Yun chose to hold back, with the "pretend to be confused, tolerance" to keep the seemingly happy, but the actual woeful, scarred marriage.

The woman's patience may change the marriage of a moment of calm, but the heart of the thorn, does not mean that do not touch will not hurt; the tumor, does not mean that do not move the knife, will be cured with time. Women in marriage, the need is the bottom line, rather than a stoic retreat.

Strong, more important than stoicism

In marriage, the man has his own bottom line, the woman needs to have a bottom line, always have to hold their own bottom line in the hands, to remember: "strong, more important than stoicism."

Choice, wiser than effort

Whether it is marriage or love, bitter entanglement, ultimately not the real winner. The real winners know how to go in and out, and know that being strong is more important than being patient, and that choosing is wiser than trying.

Remember Li Ka Yan in the evaluation of their own and Hong Kong tycoon Da Liu's ten years of emotional entanglements, said: "the fate of the matter is not in your hands, love is really good for me great, but it is not a must it. I have a bottom line, that is, I do not accept infidelity, I hope to have a long-lasting relationship, do not have to compare with others."

That's right, a relationship or marriage, a woman instead of spending her strength in holding back, waiting and conquering the wrong person, it is better to choose to timely exit. There is no need to indulge in the past feelings, or because of the fear of unknown risks, take "the world men will make mistakes", as a shield for marriage; take again and again to endure, as a marriage and their own life-saving straws, deceiving others, but also to deceive their own get by.

Life is their own, the day is also over to their own, happy or not, fast or not happy only know. Even if you can't run your marriage into the mold of people's envy, there is no need to hold back again and again for the sake of a so-called complete home. The woman is not a man's private goods, the man is not a woman's must have goods. The first thing you need to know is that you are not going to be able to get your hands on any of these things, but you are going to be able to get your hands on them.

The problem in marriage is to dissolve, is to forget, is to miss, rather than silt cover themselves, lie to themselves. Simply relying on the passion of one party or repeatedly retreat, there is no way to make the relationship sweet, endure a moment, but can not endure a lifetime.

To understand, a marriage, the woman's patience, not marriage life-saving grass, but chronic suicide.

Concealment, a tumor in the marriage

Concealment, like a tumor in the marriage, with the passing of the day and the gradual proliferation of the last nerve until the oppression of the woman.

Girlfriend Yun Yun sent me a few photos of her head and neck with bruises, and it looked like she was being domestically abused.

My girlfriend Yun Yun sent me a few pictures of her head and neck with bruises.

Yun Yun, since childhood is the mother's eyes, "other people's daughter", not only good-looking, and well-behaved, parents are not at home, always clean up the home like, has been the mother of my education example.

Later, Yun Yun talked about a boyfriend, the man's family did not have a house, but Yun Yun still chose to marry him, she said: "Love is more important than the house." After marriage, her husband loved her, although living in a rented room, but the days were also two people have a taste, especially the arrival of the daughter, so that this small home is to add a few points of warmth.

But all the good ultimately can not resist the years of wastage, "he has someone outside, this is not the first time for the woman with me hands. I have thought about divorce, but my daughter is so small, I can't be selfish and live only for myself." Like other women, Yun Yun chose to hold back, with the "pretend to be confused, tolerance" to keep the seemingly happy, but the actual woeful, scarred marriage.

The woman's patience may change the marriage of a moment of calm, but the heart of the thorn, does not mean that do not touch will not hurt; the tumor, does not mean that do not move the knife, will be cured with time. Women in marriage, the need is the bottom line, rather than a stoic retreat.

Strong, more important than stoicism

In marriage, the man has his own bottom line, the woman needs to have a bottom line, always have to hold their own bottom line in the hands, to remember: "strong, more important than stoicism."

Choice, wiser than effort

Whether it is marriage or love, bitter entanglement, ultimately not the real winner. The real winners know how to go in and out, and know that being strong is more important than being patient, and that choosing is wiser than trying.

Remember Li Ka Yan in the evaluation of their own and Hong Kong tycoon Da Liu's ten years of emotional entanglements, said: "the fate of the matter is not in your hands, love for me, is indeed good and great, but it is not a must it. I have a bottom line, that is, I do not accept infidelity, I hope to have a long-lasting relationship, do not have to compare with others."

That's right, a relationship or marriage, a woman instead of spending her strength in holding back, waiting and conquering the wrong person, it is better to choose to timely exit. There is no need to indulge in the past feelings, or because of the fear of unknown risks, take "the world men will make mistakes", as a shield for marriage; take again and again to endure, as a marriage and their own life-saving straws, deceiving others, but also to deceive their own get by.

Life is their own, the day is also over to their own, happy or not, fast or not happy only know. Even if you can't run your marriage into the mold of people's envy, there is no need to hold back again and again for the sake of a so-called complete home. The woman is not a man's private goods, the man is not a woman's must have goods. Women need to understand: your choice, more intelligent than efforts.