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Must I go home for the Mid-Autumn Festival? Accompany mom and dad

In fact, nothing is certain, nothing is absolute, and we must follow the objective situation. The purpose of going home is to spend time with my family, my parents, my wife and children, my brothers and sisters, and relieve the pain of missing. For example, in my family, my wife and children are in other places, my mother is in my hometown, and my two sisters are also in my hometown. I mainly go home to visit them.

Mothers, in particular, are ashamed that they cannot be filial in front of the church and serve their mothers. If they don't go home often and spend more time with their mothers, they will be even more ashamed. Now many friends may be in the same situation as me, and they can't be with the elderly. When I was young, I drifted in the distance all the year round. Many times, one year I didn't go home until the Spring Festival.

Every Mid-Autumn Festival, there is a kind of sadness that "I miss my relatives more during the festival". At that time, mobile phones were not popular. When you make a phone call, you must call your neighbor's house. Tell them to call your parents first, and then call them. Very troublesome. Generally, there is nothing important, and I seldom make phone calls. Just because you get together less and have less contact, your feelings for your parents will be stronger at that time.

Although it is still in the field, it is very close to my hometown, only 100 km, and the expressway is convenient. I can go home by bus for more than an hour. Therefore, I have been going home more in recent years, and I have returned to my hometown at least once a month. Now the telephone is also convenient. Mother not only learned to answer the phone, but also learned to make a phone call, and talked to her mother almost every day.

There is also a camera at home, and I turn on my mobile phone to see my mother every day when I have time. In fact, it doesn't matter if you go home in the Mid-Autumn Festival. The important thing is that you often go back, often talk to your parents on the phone, and care more about your parents. Don't turn going home for Mid-Autumn Festival into a formality. Don't you have to go home and care for your parents after the Mid-Autumn Festival?

Of course, it is best to go home if you have the conditions. If you don't have the conditions, you don't have to force it. After all, nine times out of ten things in life, Jiu Nan. But be sure to take your parents to heart, call your parents often, don't socialize when you call, don't hang up after a few words, and chat with your parents patiently. Old people like to repeat. One thing may be repeated several times. Be patient and listen to it as a new one every time.