I was beaten by my family when I was a child. Do you still have shadows in your mind?

Maybe I was naughty when I was a child, and it was common to be beaten when I was a child. Grandma told me: good men come from Vitex negundo! But every time my parents hit me, my grandmother gave her life to protect me. I asked my grandmother why she was so contradictory. Grandma told me that because I am the eldest grandson, I can't play! That's grandma's truth, and my parents can't provoke grandma either, because my parents told me to set an example and honor the elderly-dripping from the eaves, taking care of people from generation to generation. I once asked my father: As the eldest grandson, were you beaten by your grandmother when you were a child? Does your grandmother protect you? Father ahaha smiles, which is a tradition in our family. It's all the same. I remember the time when my father beat me up. It was during the summer vacation of elementary school. Go for a walk by the river and catch fish when you are free. I often don't go home for dinner at noon, which is the so-called wild bar. When I am hungry, I will fish or get something else to eat. My parents have warned me many times that I can't walk by the river alone. There is no one in the field at noon, and you are alone. What if something happens? Your grandmother will embarrass us!

I was eight years old at that time, and I couldn't listen at all. The next day, I went fishing with my friends. When my friends came home, I was still playing by the river. As a result, my father went that day, and I felt my father's anger burning. I went up and beat him up, and I couldn't run away if I wanted to. I'm not Japanese after my father's fight, because he saw that I was unconvinced and made my father angry at once. He picked me up and threw me into the river. However, the river is not deep, about one meter, and I was frightened at once. When my father left, he turned to tell me if I wanted to go home. I quickly climbed up the small river bank and went home despondently.

Although I went back and told my grandmother that my father was going to "drown" me. My father was beaten with a stick by my grandmother, and my mother was also implicated. I was scolded by my grandmother for a day, and I was unhappy. Grandma and I were lying there, embarrassed to go home. Later, I got seriously ill. My grandmother cried all the time, so did my mother, and my father was always scolded by them. This incident left a deep memory. Young and ignorant, I "arch fire" between my grandmother and me, and I also blame my parents. Later, when I grew up, I realized I was wrong. Because several children swimming in the wild drowned in the nearby village. My father was worried about me and beat me to avoid unpredictable consequences. The deep-seated reason for effectively educating children is that it is of great significance to know what you can't do because of the character you have shaped since childhood. In order to prevent children from growing up and not knowing small land, it is a disaster for families to do things they shouldn't do. After liberation, there is no so-called psychological shadow.

Now that I'm grown up, my grandmother died, my parents are old, and I'm a father. Fully understand the love of parents for their children, and also realize the "contradictory" family relationship among parents, me and children for three generations. This is the most real life. When you are in love, there is no resentment, no psychological shadow, crying and laughing.