How to face marriage correctly

Love is a beautiful thing that everyone yearns for. Many people who have experienced emotional failures again and again and some single mothers and babies don't know whether it really exists. We are eager for vigorous love and plain marriage. Where is the right one? How can we harvest love? At the same time, how to face marriage correctly? Let's take a look at it with 5 1 Dongshi emotional edge. First, the way to get love successfully

Equality is the premise of love.

When we choose a love object, we will consider this person's personality, appearance, work, family and so on. And this choice comes from an old saying, the door is right. And the reason for this idea is equality! This love quotation is to tell us that the equality of love is a kind of spiritual equality. Only equal love is long-lasting love. So if you want a long-term sweet love, please respect each other first and make both sides equal.

Don't test love, because love is fragile.

Love is always a true proposition, a frank feeling. Want to test love, cheat love, or get hurt or be cheated by love. This love quotation is to tell us that no matter what kind of relationship we treat, please be sincere and sincere. If you want to love, love seriously. Don't tempt, the result of temptation may be both sides lose.

True love can't be expressed in words, and behavior is the best interpretation of loyalty.

Girls always love sweet talk, but you should know that true love is never lip service. Promises may sometimes reassure us, but only practical actions can reassure us. Love is what one party really pays for the other.

4. The joy of love is mixed with tears.

We usually define love as sweetness and happiness. But often forget that love also has tears and pain. And these painful emotions may be our most unforgettable. Not because it hurts us, but because such pain makes us grow up and let us cherish love. Tears in this joy make us realize the value and uniqueness of love. We also regard this pain as a memorial to the growth of love.

Second, how to face love

(A) How do men face love

1, men are the main body of society, so men should have a sense of responsibility.

Before the age of 2.25, please remember that love is usually false, or it is not as pure and eternal as you think. If you are over 25 years old, then you should understand this truth.

3. It is most comfortable to eat seven points full, and please keep your girlfriend seven points full at most.

Please take good care of yourself before you are 30. You see a doctor in the first 30 years, and you see a doctor in the last 30 years.

5. Career is far more important than love. If the cause can't last forever, then love can only be regarded as a flash in the pan.

6, don't easily accept the girls who pursue you, women chasing men, if you easily fall into it, you will find that you will miss a lot of things and lose a lot of things.

7. Please believe that any problem that can be solved with money is not a problem.

8, please always be positive, every man has his lovely place, but the unlovable place is just not actively facing life.

9. Don't let the same woman hurt you twice in a row. It makes sense that a good horse never returns to the grass. If you seriously consider breaking up, please don't make any reluctant moves.

10, if you are still friends after breaking up, there are only two possibilities: ① you were just joking and didn't pay each other's truest feelings; Someone must be paying silently, with no regrets.

1 1. Never believe a woman's sweet words when she is in love. It is said that women love sweet talk and men prefer it.

12, please don't worry too much and feel inferior about your appearance or height. Please believe that a person's heart is far better than his appearance.

13, when lovelorn, there are only two possibilities, either you love her, or she doesn't love you, or vice versa. Then, when the person you love no longer loves you, or never loved you. You have no regrets, because all you have lost is someone who doesn't love you.

14, please don't cheat kind girls. There are too few kind girls in this world.

15, you can't think that money is everything, at least money can't cure AIDS.

16, please be confident. You are a landscape, there is no need to look up in other people's landscapes.

17, no matter how hard it is hit, please believe that the sun is new every day as long as life is still there.

18, love can never be balanced. If you want to be happy in love, you must be willing to be sad.

19, if you like a girl who he thinks others should treat her well, please give up as soon as possible. No one should be nice to a person. If she doesn't understand this truth, then she doesn't know how to cherish at all.

20, don't look for a girlfriend because of loneliness, lonely men should learn to taste loneliness.

2 1. Nothing is eternal, and don't ask how to be eternal. There is a lot of helplessness in life. Please try to enrich yourself and your life.

(B) How do women face love

1, learn to be reserved

As women, we should not take love so seriously. Be reserved and modest, don't care too much, and don't be too active. This will make men feel that you are easy to get and certainly won't cherish.

Step 2 learn to be calm

No matter what happens, on the road of love, women should learn to be calm. Only with peace of mind can they walk out of failed love calmly and find better people.

Step 3 learn to be strong

During love, you are attracted to each other, but after breaking up, you don't have to die to live. You think everything is dark. You must learn to be strong. After all, love is only a part of life, and love can be started again. Maybe the next one will be better.

4. Don't force marriage.

Good love will come naturally, and you will naturally want to get married. If this man still doesn't want to get married, your persecution will only be counterproductive, and even the relationship between your will end soon, and finally it will end in tragedy. It is better to wait patiently.

5. Be motivated by the other party.

Good love can make two people become better people, not less and less motivated. Take the man you love as the driving force, and your love world will become more and more beautiful.

Step 6 give each other freedom

Free space also helps both sides to understand each other better. It is inevitable that there will be some minor contradictions when we are often together. Don't wait until it gets worse before you learn to let go, because it will be too late.

Third, how to face marriage correctly

(A) How do men face marriage

1, life needs a sense of ceremony

Nowadays, the "financial power" of many couples after marriage is controlled by the woman. If a man has no money and gets married, he won't think of giving her another gift, but you will never understand a woman's mind. Even if the money is in her own hands, he wants you to give it to her. This gift is not expensive, but let her know that you have her in your heart, and what you want is your share of the heart. Having time to treat marriage with love will also have unexpected miraculous effects.

2. Unreasonable but talk about feelings.

Many men know the phrase "don't reason with women", but they seldom do it. What is the reason? It's not that I don't love her, but I'm really angry sometimes. It is obvious that she is wrong, but when you tell her the whole story, you are not only unwilling to listen, but also angry. I think many men want to cry for this, but in fact, women just want to prove that you love her and can tolerate her little temper. You are telling the truth, while women are talking about feelings.

Step 3 share the burden of caring for children

Having children after marriage is very happy, which proves that your's love is the crystallization of happiness. But some men still have the old idea that taking care of children is a woman's business. How can a man do these things? But the baby is not her own, it's yours. It is no problem for you to help take care of the child. say

Step 4 control your desires

It is said that "men become bad when they have money", which makes sense. Money also has desires. But you must remember your true love. Even the best "wild flowers" are outside, but "home flowers" are your own, and you can live with them all your life. Don't cause irreparable cracks in your marriage just for a moment.

5. explain the reason anyway.

If a man is busy socializing outside, be sure to tell a woman. I think she will understand you. After all, you are paying for this family. If you deliberately avoid it because of the contradiction between two people, you will not solve any practical problems except to make you go further and further. If there is a problem, you can only face it and solve it. Women should not lose their temper at this time. If you tell the truth occasionally, it will have unexpected results.

(B) How do women face marriage

1, choose the other half to value.

Compared with material requirements, it is more important to examine each other's values, such as whether they are macho, considerate, responsible and persistent.

2, the right mix can reduce friction.

In ancient times, a big family would pay attention to the right match. You know, many young people are now pursuing individuality and free love, and they will regret when they find each other's family problems when they get married. It's really important to match the two families.

Don't be a sparrow in a birdcage.

The happiness of sparrows is that they can fly freely and catch insects freely, instead of just serving their other half in the cage of marriage.

4. Women should have their own sense of value.

When a woman sacrifices too much for her family, life will inevitably be boring when her children grow up. Instead of regretting at this time, it is better to stick to your values from the moment you step into marriage.

5. Urge each other to grow together.

Indulgence and spoil are not really good for each other, but should be patient and tolerant to pull each other to a bright future. Many couples can still feel sorry for each other in the first few years, but later life is getting better and better, so they can't continue, mainly because they won't grow up together.

Step 6 fight side by side

When you encounter difficulties in life, don't put all the responsibilities on the other side of the marriage, but try your best to bear the responsibilities that you are capable of. Even if you fail, you can make the other side feel that someone understands and supports him.