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Why do China's parents love forced marriage so much?

Because of the gossip of the world. When parents are old, the inevitable thing in the future is death. An effective way to alleviate the fear of aging is to have the next generation of life. The so-called "endless life" will make them think that the next generation has continued their lives, so they will be very happy to see their children, so let you live. Traditionally, marriage is a prerequisite for having children, so they will force you to get married. The essence of this is due to the needs of racial reproduction.

Due to the background of the times, the values of my parents' generation are still pragmatic, and few people can be free and easy (this character does not meet the survival requirements of the material shortage era). This kind of values will make them take on too many responsibilities for their families and children.

They think that their enjoyment is meaningless, and what is valuable is to help you solve practical problems. They will think that it is irresponsible not to help you get married and bring up children, which they themselves are not allowed to do (this is actually the embodiment of love).

The above two points are generally recognized by contemporaries, which leads to their social culture. If one of them can't do it, it won't be accepted by their circle. The basic point is very sharp: 1, your family has no queen, and your family can't. Your weakness is that you can't help your children get married. Therefore, their circle's enlargement of the above two points made them very anxious, and the act of forced marriage was staged.

For humans, marriage may be more valuable. For example, if a woman gives birth to a child, then her mother's identity is certain, because the child was born from her belly. But not necessarily for the father, because the child born from your wife's stomach may not be yours. So men's uncertainty about parent-child relationship is sexy and anxious. In the process of marriage, we can declare to others that this is my wife and you are all far away from her through marriage.