A bride in Guangdong brought gold jewelry at the wedding scene. When will this "bad habit" be improved?

Recently, a wedding scene in Foshan, Guangdong Province became popular on the Internet. In the video, the bride wears Hanfu and has more than 100 gold bracelets around her neck, which makes many people hooked up. Ascending posture! ? . However, with the continuous spread of videos, some netizens think that this is actually a kind of? Vulgar? Should be resisted. I have a different view on this. In fact, this practice is only a local traditional custom, and there is really no need for everyone to go online.

One,? The most luxurious bride in history? The whole story happened on February 3rd, 2020 at 65438+65438, and the video of a couple getting married in Foshan, Guangdong became popular on the Internet. In fact, the content of the video is quite simple, mainly to record the whole situation of the wedding scene of the couple that day. The biggest highlight comes from the bride, who is wearing a cheongsam and a gold bracelet. Too many can only be hung around her neck with a rope. A rough estimate is at least 100, which is definitely something that many netizens have never seen? Big scene? .

In the video, the bride and groom also receive red envelopes from relatives and friends from time to time, and the whole scene is happy. It's just that the weight of the gold bracelet is really too heavy, and I feel that the bride's face is a little stiff and her expression is slightly stiff. At the end of the wedding, the bride took off most of the gold bracelets around her neck, leaving only a small part, which made her feel relieved. Otherwise, before the wedding is over, the bride may not be able to hold her neck.

No wonder many netizens said they thought their wedding was good. They didn't know until they saw the bride that poverty limited their horizons.

Second, hanging gold bracelets is actually a local custom. Due to the high degree of attention of the video on the Internet, it triggered a heated discussion among many netizens. Why does the bride wear so many gold bracelets around her neck on the wedding day? This actually has a lot to do with local customs.

It is estimated that many friends don't know that in the wedding process in Guangdong, there is no habit of collecting a lot of gifts. Generally speaking, some people only receive about one or two hundred yuan from relatives and friends at most, and the money may be returned directly to relatives and friends after the wedding reception. So how do you reflect the blessings of relatives and friends to the couple? Therefore, the habit of sending gold jewelry originated in Guangdong, which means that the bride needs to wear gold jewelry sent by relatives and friends on the wedding day, which means hanging the good wishes of relatives and friends on her body.

If relatives and friends send more gold jewelry, you need to wear all the gold jewelry by wearing a rope, which is also a kind of respect for relatives and friends. Of course, if relatives and friends of some families are not very rich, then there is no problem not to send gold jewelry. No one will laugh at the bride even if she doesn't have much gold jewelry on her wedding day.

As for the bride wearing hundreds of gold jewelry in the video, we can understand that the relatives and friends of the new couple in the video have more money at home and send more jewelry. In order to let relatives and friends know that the couple really received their blessing, the bride can only make this amazing move and hang more than 100 pieces of jewelry on herself.

In fact, regardless of the number of jewelry, this is actually an ordinary wedding, but because there are too many gold jewelry, it has caused a sensation on the Internet.

Three, for example? Show off your wealth? Or is it? Vulgar? It doesn't make any sense. Now many people on the internet say that the couple are actually in? Show off your wealth? Some people even say that this bad custom should be resisted, which makes no sense to me.

Let's talk about showing off wealth first. The first thing to note is that the video content is the wedding scene, and the visitors are actually relatives and friends. This scene is actually very private. If someone hadn't posted this video online, we wouldn't have known that there was such a couple of local tyrants who got married and who was not showing off their wealth with great fanfare? So showing off your wealth really doesn't hold water.

Say? Vulgar? My personal feeling is? Can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour? After all, giving away gold jewelry is actually a local custom and has been widely recognized by local people. Since the relatives and friends of the new people have the financial resources to give away gold and silver jewelry, it has not hindered others and caused no adverse effects, then? Vulgar? Naturally, it is impossible to talk about it.

It has been an established custom to send gold and silver ornaments at weddings since ancient times. Marriage is a life-long event. Since ancient times, in the traditional wedding ceremony in China, giving gold and silver ornaments during the wedding process is intended to imply eternal harmony. In ancient times, there was a custom of giving three gold gifts before marriage.

Now the custom here in Guangdong is to give out red envelopes in the New Year. Generally speaking, Guangdong Spring Festival will only give children 5 yuan and 10 yuan small red envelopes, and the maximum will not exceed 100 yuan. This is actually a way for Cantonese people to express their feelings. It doesn't matter how much money they have. It doesn't matter if they have their own feelings. In many other places, children will be given some big red envelopes during the Spring Festival, which is actually not a good thing for children. It is not only easy to waste pocket money, but also easy to lead to mutual comparison between children.

On the whole, I don't think it is necessary to go online at all. You don't have to wear colored glasses to see it Although the wedding scene is indeed luxurious, it is not a common phenomenon. I believe that with the development of the times, the wedding scene of Cantonese people will become more and more simple. After all, the blessings of relatives are more important than gold jewelry.

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