Why are you always single? Is it because you are ugly? ω? )

First, their own conditions are too good

Many people have a misconception that the rest are bad. In fact, sometimes the truth is completely different. Just because of her good conditions, high taste, good face value, high academic qualifications and even good income, she has become the capital and confidence of an older woman. Even for such a woman, there are many secret admirers and pursuers, but she is too demanding of her ideals. Her own inner wealth also needs the other half to have a * * * sound with herself, but for the man in front of her, she not only demands economy, but also hates male chauvinism's contempt for women. What she wants is harmony and mutual concern, but in her eyes, there is no man who can touch her.

Second, there is no chance to meet.

Many school departments are in a state of yin flourishes while yang declines. After work, it is precisely because of the closed environment, the relatively familiar faces and fixed people in the nine-to-five office building, not to mention that they may not be unmarried. Even if everyone is of the age of trial marriage, it is difficult to have a good impression under the conflict of work pressure. Some thoughtful women will understand the consequences and negativity of office romance, so they will not choose insiders as boyfriends. I'm tired from work and I don't have many life circles, so even if I'm excellent, I have no chance to meet the right person at all. And those who lowered their requirements and agreed to go on blind dates did not adapt to the communication conditions, so the opportunity became one of the important reasons why the leftover women could not find the other half.

Third, too much pressure, too busy to have energy.

After work and on campus are completely different psychological states. Think about when I am about to graduate, even if I am under great pressure, I am afraid I will take time out to attend the campus fraternity. Everyone can understand the physical and mental fatigue after work. After work, you just want to completely empty yourself and don't want to waste time thinking about such troublesome problems as feelings. Of course, the key is just to find an object, not to meet a sweetheart. This kind of search is just a purposeful interaction, so you are too tired to think about it.

Fourth, expectations are too high.

It is good to ask for life, your partner and yourself, but too high expectations will affect your pace. Often after positioning yourself, it is easy to set the standards for future partners too high. However, no one is perfect. From the ignorance of the cardamom teenager to the change of thinking in contact with society, you will make new adjustments with the increase of contact level, and his standards will also rise. So when you are young, because you are young, you are definitely not up to standard. Later, as I grew older, I also shortened the range of choices. Therefore, this attitude and handling method is bound to delay my best mate selection period. However, I sacrificed my youth just to find a good one, and now I don't want to make do with my heart and will, so this is why I have been single.

5. Lack of self-confidence and lack of contact with the opposite sex.

China is a traditional country, so many parents are very conservative and strict in controlling their children. Because of their strength, they finally managed the children's inner fear of things and didn't even know how to get along with the opposite sex. No matter how good your face value, financial strength and ability are, you need your own experience and skills to get along with the opposite sex for a long time. Under such a character, she doesn't even have the courage to communicate normally, let alone continue to love and share intimately. Therefore, contact barriers will definitely lead to inner self-confidence. How can we get men's admiration and appreciation? Therefore, if you want to get true love and a single-minded object, I'm afraid you need more adaptation and practice.

Sixth, lack of self-knowledge.

I'm sure there are no perfect people in this world, but there will be no useless people. Everyone will have her bright spots and shortcomings. Self-confidence is a good thing, which will make people exude a unique temperament, but overconfidence will become a kind of conceited psychology that lacks self-knowledge. I can't face up to my own advantages and disadvantages accurately, and I don't know what kind of standards and life I really need. Simply put, it is very demanding, but there are no actual rules. In this state of mind, even if you start to fall in love, it is in vain. If you constantly criticize each other in the process of communication, you will exaggerate your skills. If this vicious circle has not been introspected and adjusted, it is easy to let yourself stand still and never find the right person. Seven, by fate

Some people, obviously with high academic qualifications and a lot of knowledge, agree that the power of fate is stronger than that of people. If you don't act and cherish, even if the opportunity comes to you, you will be too eager to win my life. There will also be some people who abandon their destiny for an unrealistic "belief" standard in their hearts, so they may not be taken seriously in the eyes of the opposite sex who come into contact with them. Maybe it's because they feel depressed and uncomfortable with such a woman, so it's easy to become a lonely Buddha.

Eight, just looking for Gao Fushuai.

I don't judge whether this is right or wrong, and whether she is a money worshipper or not, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to pursue a better life and briefly describing the steps and hardships of her struggle. It's just that there are so many Gao Fushuai bachelors waiting for you in real life. Even if there are countless women around him, how can she leave you such a long chance? Therefore, the discovery of Gao Fushuai's obsession is bound to create a group of leftover women.

Nine, because I haven't forgotten.

It is said that women are emotionally ruthless and decisive, but in fact they are just strong support. When they once loved someone deeply, how could they forget and start a new relationship as if nothing had happened? The influence of fate and the reason for their inner fragility are probably that she has missed the best age for trial marriage, and her choices are limited, making it difficult to choose in the face of reality and necessity.

Ten, afraid of change

Everyone thinks that being single is a lonely and terrible existence. In fact, if a person is single for too long, it will become a habitual mode and feel very comfortable and relaxed. However, the best thing about single women is not freedom itself, but the inner sublimation of growth. She turned her single life into a dazzling fiber, which can exist freely and grow at will. Don't care about other people's feelings, don't cooperate with others' pace, and do everything absolutely because you need it at that time; She doesn't have to pay too much for herself and get angry with the other person for being ungrateful, and she doesn't have to worry about not getting love in return. Instead of painting the ground as a prison, she lit up her world with her own ability. When faced with the situation that she has to find, helplessness and the delivery of freedom rights have become her difficult choices, because being single for a long time will be addictive.